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MotherBear
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01 Nov 2013, 11:39 pm

Sorry I haven't been onboard lately. 13 year old newly diagnosed daughter, homeschooled all her life, is now loving Special Ed. She goes out with one of her classmates and a paraeducator to a mainline art class. My parents, now that they've had a vacation to reduce the stress from their stuff, have ceased to be stinky and have dropped the "you were an idiot to have home schooled her all those years" attitude. My Grandpa has been OK too, asks her about school when we visit (which he never did before - all he ever said was, "When are you going to go to real school?"). So I'm just letting them bask in what they think is their triumph and leaving the subject alone. I wish they could see the situation like I see it - home school was fantastic, then we hit a speed bump, now we're trying something different. I wish they could say what every single school district employee from the evaluation team to the bus drivers have said - they've all said we've done well with her and she's a terrific kid. Thank you for all the support and advice.



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02 Nov 2013, 10:04 am

So nice to hear an update! Maybe you can consider the reduction in relatives' snarky comments as an "added bonus" to finding a school situation that is better for your daughter *right now* (as opposed to the previous years, when homeschool was your best choice for her *then*).



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05 Nov 2013, 1:28 pm

With your dedicated home schooling you gave her and yourself a lifetime gift. Her needs and skills are ever changing. It took courage to keep her home and now to return her to public schools.



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05 Nov 2013, 2:34 pm

Yeah, just enjoy the success and mentally roll your eyes when necessary. :)



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05 Nov 2013, 5:19 pm

Thanks, y'all - and I appreciate you being here for me when things were rough. We had the IEP meeting yesterday (they like to see how she's doing in class before finalizing) and that went really, really well. I'd been seeing the teacher, the paras, and the other kids every day for about 2 weeks before transportation for my kiddo was provided, so I have a really good idea of who's in her life now. One girl in the class didn't put two words together before my girl started school, but she has really taken a shine to my girl and is talking!! !