MelissaMommyof4 wrote:
Chronos wrote:
MelissaMommyof4 wrote:
I wondering of any other parents out there experiance this. My son who is 11 will ask me a question, I will then answer him.. He then asks me the same question again. Such as he asked if he could show me a game on the computer, I told him not right now, I am busy, He then asks me again, I respond with the same answer not right now this went on 4 or 5 times, I raised my voice and and said NOT RIGHT NOW I AM BUSY.. Then he gets mad at me and says I have anger issues He will do this with any question, and if I dont give him the answer he wanted to hear he gets mad at me.. Are any of you other parents experiancing this, and if so how do I handle it? Thanks for any advice..
A question: When someone requests your son's attention to something, does he oblige immediately?
It honestly all depends.. If he is preoccupied he dosnt respond right away. Also depends on his attitude at the moment.. Sometimes he is right on the money other times it takes some motovation!!
When I was younger, I rarely shared my interests with anyone, but the few times I did, it was because I was particularly excited about. When others asked me to come see something, I would usually stop whatever it was I was doing to appease their wishes. So when I bothered to share something very important and very special to me with them, and they made it clear that my interests and feelings were not their priority by not stopping what they were doing that instant, as I would have done, I felt quite hurt.
While this may not be the exact issue with your son, it's clear that when he does come to you with something, he's very exited about it. You might try acknowledging you realize how important it is to him and as others suggested, give him concrete times and reasons.