I have two autistic kids. We claim disability tax credit for one of them. (It's just a tax deduction, not a benefit.) We didn't apply for the other one. He's a bit higher functioning than the other so DH, being the good citizen thinks we shouldn't claim it. He's also wondering if applying that and getting the disability label could have negative impact on the boy's future.
Has anyone ever regretted about such things? Like, getting some tax refund is good of course, but did it ever come to haunt you when it comes to schools or jobs? What about driving, joining the military or working for the government? Could they dig up the disability label and say he doesn't qualify?
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Aspie mom to two autistic sons (21 & 20 )