kenwjiang wrote:
Hello, I'm Kenny J, a college student in Foothill College located in Palo Alto, CA.
My group and I are doing a study that will hopefully spread awareness, raise sensitivity, and gain new knowledge regarding Asperger's Syndrome, and effect it has on their caretakers.
We are mainly focusing on the effects it has on the parents, and explore the social and mental growth within the family.
I need parents who are willing to answer 10-15 interview questions for a study face to face via webcam, time spanning approximately 1 hour.
Those who are selected for the study will be asked to sign a Informed Consent document, and more information will be given then as well.
Please message me or post here if you are interested in participating in this study. I will send you more information as well as some starting essentials.
Thank you!
You may need to specify whether you mean parents who have or don't have AS themselves. A parent with AS is probably less able to deal with the demands made by a child or children with AS than an NT parent.
Although I'm not putting myself forward for your study, I would comment that as a adult with AS with two children who also have AS (ages 7 and 11) it has been and is unbelievably difficult. When your child meltsdown, there comes a point when it makes you meltdown too. The sheer stress of coping with constant defiance, obsessive behaviours, incessant questioning, meltdowns, sleep problems, phobias, anxiety and social problems etc. is beyond compare. I've come close to two breakdowns over both my children. I am on anti-anxiety medication because of dealing with parenthood to children with such challenges.
Added to that, trying to socialise your children in the face of your own social difficulties is extremely hard. Also, having one child who has become more placid and one who is having constant meltdowns and doesn't want to go out due to sensory issues and crowds of people, means you are unable to make both children happy because if you give in to the one with the more challenging behaviour the other one loses out and if you decide to go out in the face of the tantrumy child's resistance you will invariably have to deal with public meltdowns, which are incredibly stressful.
Also, having executive dysfunction means the role of parent and housekeeper is ultra challenging compared to an NT parent.
There are probably loads more aspects but those give you some idea.
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DX AS & both daughters on the autistic spectrum