I'll be in the minority, and say try the Lovan. I had severe anxiety and/or depression as a child, with nothing but useless advice like "calm down!", "just relax!", and "stop whining!" to help. I would have sold my soul for some pills that would make me feel better. There are simply times where words/talk therapy won't do jack, because the situation is bad enough to get to that point. Just like how the defunct Space Shuttle needed booster rockets to each the edge of the Earth's atmosphere, because the air resistance is too high for its own engines to work effectively.
I did have a stint with Ritalin at age 11, but it made me suicidally depressed, so my parents had to stop it, after they found some suicide plan diagrams in my desk. Pretty "nice" ones too, resembling a morbid hybrid of a process flowchart and an electric circuit map.
I had two stints with psychoactive meds as an adult. First time, two years ago, when a job was destroying me psychologically, and I had to be put on pills on an emergency basis. It worked wonders, and let me pull myself together enough to sue the company and win. Second time, just this month, when I was consciously sedated on an IV for surgery. It was so effective, I actually had a good time in the emergency room; imagine that! Heck, I felt good enough, despite being in pain, to make chemistry jokes with the ER staff, about the fluids were putting in me. All thanks to medicine! I feel bad for children in general, who are barred from great painkillers, physical and mental, simply because of their age, and instead have to feel pain "full strength". I know I did.
But I digress. My point is that sometimes, you need that boost that only medications can provide. Like the Space Shuttle's boosters rockets being better-equipped to fly through the atmosphere than its own engines (which are meant for low-Earth orbits). Especially considering that most talk therapies are flat-out harmful for aspies. They consist of being grilled about feelings and not being believed when giving your honest answers.