Book suggestion?

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I'm looking for a good book to give to family members to help them understand AS. DH's family can't see how DS6 can possibly have AS because, "He's so social!" (He's in your face, in your space, overly loud, awkward, and doesn't understand social cues, though.) I bought Can I Tell You About Aspergers?, but it doesn't address this over-the-top attempt at being social. And, also, they say he makes good eye contact, so he can't have AS (He's better with this at home, but teachers say he has trouble with this at school) and that he doesn't have the stereotypical special interest he's obsessed with. Any book suggestions that will show them that not all kids with AS have every symptom?

Tony Attwood's works are indispensable in understanding Asperger's.

One should also read Temple Grandin's works (she was diagnosed as "classically" autistic when she was young; recently, she was diagnosed with Aspergers).

I actually got Tony Attwood's The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome in the mail yesterday, and I began reading it right away. I was AMAZED when I read his description of the social development in children with AS. It's as if he were writing specifically about my son. All this time, I've been baffled about why he didn't want to interact with peers at preschool (but played with his baby sister at home), only parallel playing and then did a complete 180 in elementary school, being desperate to play with other kids, but being in your face, in your space, overly enthusiastic and loud and awkward, and not able to pick up on social cues. And it's obvious to me that at age 6, he's aware he's different from his peers. He's become paranoid when people laugh, always thinking they're laughing AT him. Or when they're whispering, he's sure they're "making a plan against me". This section of the book described all of that, and I was left astounded.