I am going to try and watch the Opera show tomorrow.I missed the show you mentioned but watched the short clip.
The thing about being AS.I found that even when I was in a group(I wasnt bullied,mostly ignored)I still felt lonely.I rarely related to what other kids liked or how they thought(or it seemed,didnt think)about things.They werent interested in the same things I liked.I could never laugh spontaniously like they did and it just made me feel more like an outsider.
What I am trying to say,and maybe not to well,is even if you are not excluded,it doesnt mean you feel a "part of" or "connected" to people.I eventually stopped even trying because it was just to painful to keep feeling "outside" even when you are with people.I looked very hard for a "group" of people I could relate to but never found one,just a few individuals who seemed to understand me or share at least one interest.That is true even in the AS community,I can relate to similiar experiencs but seldom feel like I belong some where....maybe more here then any where else,but some nights,even that isnt enough.
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