Should I Encourage A Child About His Career At An Early Age?

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Katie0405
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21 Jun 2018, 8:17 am

I have a daughter who is 13 years old. Is she still young for me to encourage what she wants to be in the future?
She dreams wants to be a flight attendant and has researched about travels. I exposed my daughter in different topics so they are more verse on that matters. But now that he is turning to 14. I wonder if now it is advisable to support him on his choice of career path? Is there a right age for a child for those things



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27 Jun 2018, 4:43 am

Why shouldn't you encourage your child?
I think it would be a good idea to take your child to an open day for a school for flight attendants so your child can see what it's really like, and what skills they need to be a flight attendant. Meeting a flight attendant so they can ask the flight attendant about the job might be a good idea.

Is your child transgender?
(The pronouns you used for your child are a bit confusing and may keep people from responding because the might think that your trolling.)



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27 Jun 2018, 5:47 am

RemiBeaker wrote:
Why shouldn't you encourage your child?
I think it would be a good idea to take your child to an open day for a school for flight attendants so your child can see what it's really like, and what skills they need to be a flight attendant. Meeting a flight attendant so they can ask the flight attendant about the job might be a good idea.

Is your child transgender?
(The pronouns you used for your child are a bit confusing and may keep people from responding because the might think that your trolling.)


No, she's not a transgender. Sorry for that mistake. I stand corrected. :mrgreen: Anyway, you have a good point there. It is like giving her more information and exposing her to a career she will want to pursue in the future.



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27 Jun 2018, 9:50 am

Fourteen is old enough to learn to fly a plane, and at 16 he could go solo on a powered plane, at 17 he can get a full pilots certificate. At fourteen he can go solo on a glider.

I've taken a few glider lessons before, other than the shaky landings and the nausea it is really fun.

This is a good career to be able to start early.


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27 Jun 2018, 10:42 am

Yep. A pilot is much better career than flight attendant.

Still....don't really push career things on her. Let her explore this on her own, and ask advice when she needs it.



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30 Jun 2018, 12:08 pm

Hi, to all. Thanks for your giving your time to share helpful information with me.



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30 Jun 2018, 6:24 pm

I would. When my daughter was in the 2nd grade, I asked her what she wanted to be when she grew up. She thought about it and the next day she said she wanted to become a doctor. I told her if she wants to become a doctor she has to work hard as school and get good grades, she has to be involved in many school activities. She went to school and told her friends that she is going to become a doctor when she grew up. So her friends began to think about their future careers. Many picked very professional careers. That particular class became extremely competitive. Well today she is a doctor.


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01 Jul 2018, 6:46 pm

Katie0405 wrote:
I have a daughter who is 13 years old. Is she still young for me to encourage what she wants to be in the future?
13 is just the right age.
Arganger wrote:
Fourteen is old enough to learn to fly a plane, and at 16 he could go solo on a powered plane, at 17 he can get a full pilots certificate. At fourteen he can go solo on a glider.

I've taken a few glider lessons before, other than the shaky landings and the nausea it is really fun.

This is a good career to be able to start early.
Sounds expensive.


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02 Jul 2018, 1:37 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:
Arganger wrote:
Fourteen is old enough to learn to fly a plane, and at 16 he could go solo on a powered plane, at 17 he can get a full pilots certificate. At fourteen he can go solo on a glider.

I've taken a few glider lessons before, other than the shaky landings and the nausea it is really fun.

This is a good career to be able to start early.
Sounds expensive.

I always thought being an airline pilot is a mental health hazard... Google for "pilot depression" and you will see.

https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/airline-pilots-are-really-depressed-180961475/


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02 Jul 2018, 8:40 am

eikonabridge wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Arganger wrote:
Fourteen is old enough to learn to fly a plane, and at 16 he could go solo on a powered plane, at 17 he can get a full pilots certificate. At fourteen he can go solo on a glider.

I've taken a few glider lessons before, other than the shaky landings and the nausea it is really fun.

This is a good career to be able to start early.
Sounds expensive.

I always thought being an airline pilot is a mental health hazard... Google for "pilot depression" and you will see.

https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/airline-pilots-are-really-depressed-180961475/


My uncle seems to enjoy it, and there are worse careers out there.
https://www.dmdtoday.com/news/depressio ... t-epidemic


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02 Jul 2018, 9:13 am

There is nothing wrong with encouraging a 13 year old in their choice of career, just keep in mind that they will still change a lot. Just because she wants to be flight attendant right now, doesn't mean that'll be her dream a few years from now.


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