ChrissandraChrissamba wrote:
I made a quiche two night ago and last night I made a vegetable stir-fry with rice.
That sounds good! I'll look on the cooking sites for some recipes. I've never made a quiche and it's been quite a while since I made stir fry too.
I don't know if it's an Aspie thing or not, but I get overwhelmed when I go on the cooking sites just to browse. It helps for me to be looking for something specific. That's why it's good for me to hear what real people are eating. I'm not sure how to properly explain it, except to say that when I see a bunch of recipes, I can't imagine that someone actually makes that dish on a regular basis -- that they would go through that much trouble in real life. But, when someone
tells me that they make a dish for dinner all the time, it makes it real to me. I know, very strange! My mother never really cooked, except for special occasions, and no one ever really invited us over, so I have a difficult time with food. It's like a lot of things for me. I need someone to take me by the hand and
teach me. "Oh-kay, Key-Key, here's a list of everything "normal" people might make for a family dinner. All the ingredients and step by step instructions are here, so when you have to make dinner, just refer to the book." If I had that, it would be like a Bible to me. (Not that I'm so keen on the actual Bible.) I know, I know, they make COOKBOOKS, but it's like I said about the cooking websites. Unless I'm looking for something specific, I can't picture real people making all those things.
Whenever my kids go to a friend's house, I grill them about what they had to eat. They can never understand why I'm so curious about each little detail. Over the weekend, my son said he had spaghetti, salad, and some type of mushrooms that tasted like corn. I can't imagine how they might have made the mushrooms in a way that he would describe as tasting like corn, so I've been obsessing about it. Also, I never think to make a salad, in addition to the rest of the meal. Again, unless I've seen things put together, or am told to put them together, I serve the meal alone. I used to have some cooking recipe cards that had a note on the bottom with suggestions about what to serve with the meal. I liked that, except that they were very detailed recipes. It took me hours to put together a meal.