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01 Nov 2024, 5:19 pm

Some conservative opinions are that teen girls can have children and there are loopholes in system that don't protect women.

As of raising the Asian legal sex age to 16 an issue exists in West that we still not happy with and that is a male sex is still considered by some to be the predator, so even if he's a minor himself I do not accept that he slept with my daughter who is under 16, allow me to explain. Just because my daughter has started her period does not mean she is physically ready to have children, her body is still physically growing, just as I won't allow my puppy to have litter before age of 2. Quite honestly they are still children and even if society believes women don't have own ideas she still lacks life experience to raise her own child. This is my constitutional right to protect my child, and I'm not so sure Catholic school I even enough, nowadays.
As her mom's it is my duty to protect her virginity until she can make correct decision about a man that will commit, and he is educated and suitable and may want her to be pure.
I have these half moons on my thumb cuticles that slowly fading at my age, what do they mean, fertility. And each girl is different to start period but the moon only is properly risen in my opinion at the age of 18..... And still she doesn't have the same life experience and is then old enough to start injection only then, to prevent unwanted pregnancy but hopefully she will listen and wait for mr. Right

It may also be best to protect girls on spectrum, from NT men who tend to be lot more forward, taking into account that it's better to marry on spectrum in hope that things may work out in long run. Even if he's not a bio-chemist from university, but nice quiet guy who may also be shy or a-sexual and that girls with autism disability need less pushy guys, need time to understand social dynamics behind dating. So 16 with autism is far too young to be dating boys in high school who possibly don't have even senior certificate to provide for children in event that it happens.
What are your views on legal age and as parent do you think homeschooling is just better protection option for your girl?



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01 Nov 2024, 5:28 pm

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Some conservative opinions are that teen girls can have children and there are loopholes in system that don't protect women.

As of raising the Asian legal sex age to 16 an issue exists in West that we still not happy with and that is a male sex is still considered by some to be the predator, so even if he's a minor himself I do not accept that he slept with my daughter who is under 16, allow me to explain. Just because my daughter has started her period does not mean she is physically ready to have children, her body is still physically growing, just as I won't allow my puppy to have litter before age of 2. Quite honestly they are still children and even if society believes women don't have own ideas she still lacks life experience to raise her own child. This is my constitutional right to protect my child, and I'm not so sure Catholic school I even enough, nowadays.
As her mom's it is my duty to protect her virginity until she can make correct decision about a man that will commit, and he is educated and suitable and may want her to be pure.
I have these half moons on my thumb cuticles that slowly fading at my age, what do they mean, fertility. And each girl is different to start period but the moon only is properly risen in my opinion at the age of 18..... And still she doesn't have the same life experience and is then old enough to start injection only then, to prevent unwanted pregnancy but hopefully she will listen and wait for mr. Right


I am not really sure what your messages are talking about. It may be that you are using a translator?


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01 Nov 2024, 6:17 pm

I'm a female with blunt problem in communication, my writing or speech isn't very good, lately altzeimers affecting my spelling too. I usually ask office secretary to re-type my emails for me, as I'm good at my job but my writing is no good.

I mean this: how does law protect girls who's parents don't want them to sleep with boys before 18 or old enough to leave home.
How do I stop males who are minors sleeping with my daughter, current laws are unsuitable in my opinion.



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01 Nov 2024, 6:53 pm

Ursula wrote:
Some conservative opinions are that teen girls can have children and there are loopholes in system that don't protect women.

I don't see that as conservative...just common sense
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As of raising the Asian legal sex age to 16

8O what was it before?
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Just because my daughter has started her period does not mean she is physically ready to have children, her body is still physically growing, just as I won't allow my puppy to have litter before age of 2. Quite honestly they are still children

I can't imagine anyone in WP arguing against that.
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and even if society believes women don't have own ideas

Then that society clearly sucks.
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she still lacks life experience to raise her own child. This is my constitutional right to protect my child, and I'm not so sure Catholic school I even enough, nowadays.
As her mom's it is my duty to protect her virginity until she can make correct decision about a man that will commit

I agree except for the last 3 words. When she's old enough that ought to be her decision.
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and he is educated and suitable and may want her to be pure.

Again...her decision.
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I have these half moons on my thumb cuticles that slowly fading at my age, what do they mean, fertility.

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Lunula (anatomy) - Wikipedia
The lunula is the white crescent-shaped area at the base of a nail. In humans, it appears by week 14 of gestation, and has a primary structural role in defining the free edge of the distal nail plate (the part of the nail that grows outward).

Nothing to do with fertility.
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And each girl is different to start period but the moon only is properly risen in my opinion at the age of 18..... And still she doesn't have the same life experience

Only an opinion , but I largely agree.
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and is then old enough to start injection only then, to prevent unwanted pregnancy but hopefully she will listen and wait for mr. Right

Again... particularly as to contraceptive method...her choice
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It may also be best to protect girls on spectrum, from NT men who tend to be lot more forward, taking into account that it's better to marry on spectrum in hope that things may work out in long run. Even if he's not a bio-chemist from university, but nice quiet guy who may also be shy or a-sexual and that girls with autism disability need less pushy guys, need time to understand social dynamics behind dating. So 16 with autism is far too young to be dating boys in high school who possibly don't have even senior certificate to provide for children in event that it happens.

Still an opinion, but I'm not going to fault your concern.
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What are your views on legal age and as parent do you think homeschooling is just better protection option for your girl?

I'm not a parent, so I'm not responding to that question.



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02 Nov 2024, 4:50 am

Laws are only as effective as people choose to obey them. The Roman army had the death penalty for theft, yet two of them were still stealing 2,000 years ago.

If you want to increase the odds of your daughter remaining pure, you might consider homeschool and avoid sending her to college. Many freshmen girls at college are targeted by upperclassmen such that the girls are romanced, seduced, pregnant and left to get a secret abortion that haunts them the rest of their lives.

When I was an employer, I was reluctant to hire anyone under 30 because they usually had many personal problems resulting from immature decision making. As a parent you would like your child to grow up wise, be worthy of a good mate, and build a happy family of their own. However, even when you try to give your child every advantage and protect them from every ill, circumstances can still arise that upset your plans. In these circumstances a parent can be available to help pick up the pieces.



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02 Nov 2024, 2:30 pm

Ursula wrote:
I mean this: how does law protect girls who's parents don't want them to sleep with boys before 18 or old enough to leave home.
How do I stop males who are minors sleeping with my daughter, current laws are unsuitable in my opinion.


It's not the legal system's job to criminalize minors sleeping with minors so long as they are close in age and that participation was voluntary.

You don't always have legal recourse just because you don't like a certain behaviour.


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03 Nov 2024, 5:52 am

Ursula wrote:
I'm a female with blunt problem in communication, my writing or speech isn't very good, lately altzeimers affecting my spelling too. I usually ask office secretary to re-type my emails for me, as I'm good at my job but my writing is no good.

I mean this: how does law protect girls who's parents don't want them to sleep with boys before 18 or old enough to leave home.
How do I stop males who are minors sleeping with my daughter, current laws are unsuitable in my opinion.


In the U.S., minors are protected by law. I am not really up to speed with the laws on such things around the world. I don't think your view is conservative, it is probably shared by people on all sides of the political spectrum. I would imagine that just about every parent wants to protect their daughter(s) from early pregnancy which has a lot of consequences financially and socially in modern society.


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04 Nov 2024, 1:49 pm

Thank you everyone for your input, it helps me understand what I ought to do.

On the other forum was a girlie with explicit profile pic, she headed straight for dating area. Later on chatted, new profile pic was Japanese fox with 8 tails, worked for us government and was influenced by comic culture.
What's interesting to note is Japanese culture prides themselves on employment and discipline. Boys are not allowed sex but encouraged to be self sufficient, something should've being more important to highlight in autistic community.



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04 Nov 2024, 3:01 pm



The above link has being on the agenda for some time, this is not Biden. We want to rescue these young people.
What's shocking are highly toxic drugs on market.

This problem is global, it's drugs and rehabs are full. I was in area that known to house street addicts, spoke to one of guys who said rehab is full, and pharmacist locally was amazing, he said drugs available to detox and could be given without prescription. So this is one way people can help, after that when he was clean we took him to Catholic church where pastor paid for his shelter fees so he could recouperate and eat. But work is scarce without this many troubles.
Is anyone else tired of the drugs?



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04 Nov 2024, 3:12 pm

Nope



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05 Nov 2024, 3:47 am

Ursula wrote:


The above link has being on the agenda for some time, this is not Biden. We want to rescue these young people.
What's shocking are highly toxic drugs on market.

This problem is global, it's drugs and rehabs are full. I was in area that known to house street addicts, spoke to one of guys who said rehab is full, and pharmacist locally was amazing, he said drugs available to detox and could be given without prescription. So this is one way people can help, after that when he was clean we took him to Catholic church where pastor paid for his shelter fees so he could recouperate and eat. But work is scarce without this many troubles.
Is anyone else tired of the drugs?


I browse the New York Post sometimes and read the articles that just get covered up elsewhere in the media. There are different versions of reality presented by the media, some cast everything as peachy, while others expose the underbelly of society. The actual reality consists of all of these different views combined in some way.


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08 Nov 2024, 5:21 pm

If we need to ban woke culture and gays then what about other aspects such some heavy metal has satanic presentation, promotes necraphylia, paediofilia, cannibalism and serial killers. Those who listen to that need to see a psychologist before become mass murderers or worse. Then makeup for kiss is even less employable, or can you wear that in public?

And since preaching Christian values then ban pornography.



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It's not clear where you're going with this thread but I think that's enough of the dark, dystopian wishcasting.

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