my aspie-boy enjoys building things ~ first it was legos, now it's real-life structures he builds in the backyard.....does vlad have any sensory issues ? if so, how about a weighted blanket, or assortment of fidgets ( theraputty, gooze, metal interlocking puzzles)?
although i feel that video games have their place, i do feel that it would be good to get your son something he can do while interacting with someone else. does he like to cook ? how about board games ? what about the game Scene-it ( it's an interactive dvd trivia game )?