berryblondeboys wrote:
I would have thought though that for most stim stuff that you would want to discourage it _ like flapping and jumping around - but then learning when it's OK and when it's inappropriate is probably the most important.
I think it's about channeling, not suppressing. We learned a lot from a small experiment we tried with our son. After reading in forums like this how self-calming the stims are, we decided to let our son go wild with them, in a way, while at home. Home is the safe place, where he can be himself. The results were incredible. Or purely co-incidental with a huge leap in maturity, lol, but I really think that couldn't be all of it - he has vocalized that allowing the stims has been good. We pretty much haven't seen a melt-down since. So ... hmmm ... funny behaviors, or melt-downs? DEFINITELY the former. The repetitive behaviors seem to be very important to his self-regulation. Good to know.
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).