good ol guild drama, luckily for me im in a huge pvp server were puging is ez and do every thing in pugs now. although i use to raid hard core in bc... my advice to you say f**k it, no point getting upset because some ego tooting loser who feels like he needs to strut his pretend power. last guild i was in had a gm like, our raid leader had some rl s**t happen to him, got s**t face drunk and said he cant raid today, guild leader kicked him and the guild was dead with in a month.
for the record, main job of a raid leader is to deal with in raid drama, and to deal in hope and give moral a boast. raid strategy is only a small job, considering most of it comes from other sources, a good raid leader will listen to ideas of his raid and apply the good ones, and try out questionable ones if there face planting into a boss.
i use to raid lead in bc, all it is being a strong leader, giving out positive messages, and dealing with people who wont do there job.
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