Need help with video game addiction

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Good point. Let's hope!

I'm addicted to all of the Harvest Moon games, and to Animal Crossing.

I've started playing Super Mario 64 DS again for when my brother gets Galaxy.

I find some games aren't so addictive once you finish them.

I am really massively into Dragonball Z Budokai Tenkaichi 2, so much so that I have been avidly following and actively participating in forums about the NEXT game since like November even though it doesn't come out here until the end of February. Like, every day I check the forums and look for new videos on YouTube.
I accidentally left my copy of the game at someone else's house by accidentally swapping my Wii with theirs, and I don't know them very well, so I bought a new copy of the game and started a new file, 100% beating the game AGAIN, and even after all that I still play it for many hours most days.

Although recently I got Pokémon Diamond and have been ploughing through that non-stop for the past 3 or 4 days in a desperate struggle to stave off the awful extended wait until they finally get around to releasing BT3 on the Wii.

Anyway, there are sudden phases when I play no games whatsoever for maybe a few weeks at a time, and then the phase will shift back into Constant Gaming Mode. In the non-gaming phases, I am creating. I love creating so much that it is as fun as the games, but there is a caveat yet: games bring a social interaction that is perfect for many aspies. You can sit and prove to those around you that you are brilliantly skilled at what you're doing without having to speak to them very much, and most of what is said will be related to the game. Even if nobody's around, you can still impress them if/when they eventually do arrive, so the value of practice is retained. To stop gaming is to let go of this valuable social shortcut, whether it is remotely practical or not.
So I observe that my periods of creation are those when I desire little social interaction and prefer to make something wonderful of myself, and those periods when I am gaming are when I become lonely and a hit of society appears to be more important.

I am 20 and am in therapy of various kinds for various very vague issues that nobody really seems to understand, so I'm not sure how related my problems shall be to yours. Doubtless it shall differ in the case of each of you.