hanyo wrote:
Somberlain wrote:
If I am right at my guess: You have to put a strict limit to your computer usage. From my experience, in AS you can deal with an obsession by putting another. Set yourself a limit about using computer, lets say 2 hours a day. Excess time can be used by playing an instrument, reading a book etc. I think you can find fulfillment in other activities.
I don't really see why spending time on those other things would be any better or more constructive than playing a video game. Why not play lots of video games if that is what you enjoy?
A very late reply:
I was just trying to help. He wrote that he is not happy with his addiction. He wants to get rid of his obsession.
But I don't.
If you wipe music, classic literature, video games and internet off the face of the earth; my life becomes meaningless. I mean it. I can sacrifice relationships, friendships and my sex life to keep one of those. (actually I am sacrificing my social life for my hobbies already)
So I am on your side. Even if video games are not constructive, who cares? By the way, take a look at the NT way: Being dead drunk and kissing random people in a nightclub is also not very constructive I suppose. Yes, my obsessions could be constructive and so-called meaningful. Yes, obsessions of Einstein had become very constructive for everyone.
I am no Einstein.
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Aspie quiz: 158/200 AS AQ: 39 EQ: 17 SQ: 76.
You scored 124 aloof, 121 rigid and 95 pragmatic.
English is not my native language. 1000th edit, here I come.