During the agricultural, and industrial era, people often eventually wore their muscular/skeletal system out from constant physical activity. The average lifespan was 40 to 50, so it didn't really matter much.
Now often the issue is a sedentary lifestyle accompanied by chronic anxiety and eventual depression, from stress chemicals that eventually can damage the nervous system, and cardio/respiratory system. We have drugs now to keep us alive to later ages, but it's alot more fun if one remains healthy as long as possible.
I would suggest controlling the stress that one has the ability to control, because in the workplace there are often not many available options to get away from it.
Another note about stress is, the adrenaline feels good to a certain point that one can gain from adrenaline producing activities like violent games.
However, some are more resilient to the stress chemicals that are produced by the adrenaline producing activities, that feel good, than others. For those individuals, once the stress response is overwhelmed, the panic often does come as a surprise.
However, the physiological stress response, is just that, a physiological response, that comes from the stress chemicals, not necessarily the attitude that one holds toward the activity that they are engaging in.
The stress response is the chemical response, regardless if it arises from something exciting in a good way through exhiliration, or exciting in a bad way, through fear or anxiety.
As far as who is reslient to the effects of adrenaline and who isn't. Real combat provides an answer to that. Some people come back disabled with PTSD, after one tour, and others want to continue to go back, in part because of the exhilirating effects of adrenaline.
Some deal okay with it; others it damages. Some are more physically resilient to the effects of the stress chemicals.
And finally, stress is cumulative, so one that properly manages it, gets more mileage out of life, as a relaxed one.