fueledbycoffee wrote:
The old gender roles are still accepted. Androgyny is just becoming more accepted. The day that we feel like people have to be androgynous, when society is really unisex, that's when I quit.
I dont think it will ever be like that. For me its like shoe sizes. So most women have shoe sizes between 37-40, while most men have shoe sizes around 41-45. Thats ok and there is nothing bad about it.
But about 25% of people have shoe sizes, that are below or above the average shoesize of their sex. So there are some women with shoe sizes of 43 and there are some men with shoe sizes of 38.
So for me its less about that everyone, male or female, shall now where the androgynous shoe size of 40-41, "so that we are all equal", buts its simply about accepting that there are some males that dont fit in their sexes averages shoesize, and there are some women that dont fit in their sexes averages shoesize too. And thats pretty normal, and these people simply should be allowed to wear the shoe size they actually have, instead of getting forced to wear their average sexes shoe size, "because the other 75% male/females also do so and this is normal". ^^
So for example I feel myself deeply disturbed when people talk about "male or female brains". According to my tests, my brain has balls as big as a basketball and a 8 meter long beard if it was a male brain. -.- We simply have a brain, and most womens brain tend to evolve in a specific directions, and most mens brain tend to evolve in specific pattern, and I have no problem with that. But that doesnt make a brain male or female. Still according to that I have a brain, that fits a pattern which is rather rare for women and is found more often at men. And there is also nothing unusual about that, because there always had been some men with a brain pattern that is untypical for their sex, and women that have rather untypical brain patterns too. Because of that you are not less or more female or male, as you are not less or more female or male because of your shoe size. You simply may have some deeds or characterics, that doesnt fit to the average women or men.
If you feel yourself as "men" none of these persons would be helped, if you forced yourself to become androgynous. So it would not change anything for me, if you denied the deeds you know have, to act like an androgynous person you dont are. So from my opinion you dont have to quit. Simply dont expect me to tell you cooking recipes, and dont cry when I splatter your ass in Battlefield. ^^ Thats enough.
Edit: Shortened it a bit.
Last edited by Schneekugel on 25 Mar 2013, 10:15 am, edited 2 times in total.