MingyJongo75 wrote:
Does anyone else share the sentiment?
Some of it. I agree that death should not be such a big deal and there should not be an automatic presumption that living is better than not living. I also agree that there is nothing scary about not existing, for exactly the reason you gave, and it surprises me that more people don't understand this. (Of course, whether or not there is,
in fact an afterlife, has nothing to do with whether we
wish for it or not.)
I don't think it's realistic to expect people to just let go of their loved ones without any problems. If they're "loved" ones then, almost by definition, they would be "missed" ones. Also, I don't see how your last sentence fits in with the rest of the post. Planning for the future and having an individual purpose are both good things.