Are many autistics racist?
MarketAndChurch wrote:
Katira wrote:
MarketAndChurch wrote:
Being race-blind shouldn't make you reality-blind. To not assume is to enter every situation as a newborn, discovering things anew. It's nice to be nice, but it's also smart to be cautious, and that doesn't make you a bad person.
But does caution have to be about race? Why not a fake smile? The worst criminals in this world are white men in luxurious offices...Walking through certain poor drug-ridden inner-city neighborhoods at night, you'd most likely breathe a sigh of relief if the footsteps you heard behind you were coming from a white man in a suit who works in a luxurious tower. And that's irrespective of the racial makeup of that neighborhood. Even if said-white guy in a suit who works in a luxurious office is there to pick up his coke or reorganize his prostitution ring, they tend to be fairly harmless to other individuals who aren't of their skin color.
But that's not what I'm talking about here. What I'm talking about is being cautious of other races, because they may not like your race, and as a result, harm you because of it.
Katira wrote:
MarketAndChurch wrote:
Katira wrote:
MarketAndChurch wrote:
Being race-blind shouldn't make you reality-blind. To not assume is to enter every situation as a newborn, discovering things anew. It's nice to be nice, but it's also smart to be cautious, and that doesn't make you a bad person.
But does caution have to be about race? Why not a fake smile? The worst criminals in this world are white men in luxurious offices...Walking through certain poor drug-ridden inner-city neighborhoods at night, you'd most likely breathe a sigh of relief if the footsteps you heard behind you were coming from a white man in a suit who works in a luxurious tower. And that's irrespective of the racial makeup of that neighborhood. Even if said-white guy in a suit who works in a luxurious office is there to pick up his coke or reorganize his prostitution ring, they tend to be fairly harmless to other individuals who aren't of their skin color.
But that's not what I'm talking about here. What I'm talking about is being cautious of other races, because they may not like your race, and as a result, harm you because of it.
I feel strange enough as it is. I really do feel like an alien on this planet. And I find their ways of relating to each other painfully pointless. If they arent picking on each other cos of one thing, then its something else. Seems a waste of a life to me.
trayder wrote:
Katira wrote:
MarketAndChurch wrote:
Katira wrote:
MarketAndChurch wrote:
Being race-blind shouldn't make you reality-blind. To not assume is to enter every situation as a newborn, discovering things anew. It's nice to be nice, but it's also smart to be cautious, and that doesn't make you a bad person.
But does caution have to be about race? Why not a fake smile? The worst criminals in this world are white men in luxurious offices...Walking through certain poor drug-ridden inner-city neighborhoods at night, you'd most likely breathe a sigh of relief if the footsteps you heard behind you were coming from a white man in a suit who works in a luxurious tower. And that's irrespective of the racial makeup of that neighborhood. Even if said-white guy in a suit who works in a luxurious office is there to pick up his coke or reorganize his prostitution ring, they tend to be fairly harmless to other individuals who aren't of their skin color.
But that's not what I'm talking about here. What I'm talking about is being cautious of other races, because they may not like your race, and as a result, harm you because of it.
I feel strange enough as it is. I really do feel like an alien on this planet. And I find their ways of relating to each other painfully pointless. If they arent picking on each other cos of one thing, then its something else. Seems a waste of a life to me.
But I don´t think we were picking on each other here? At least I didn´t, on the contrary: I agreed with MarketAndChurch and thoght it was funny he/she already had written about the same things I was thinking about - and did it so much better than I would have done, too
I´m sorry if it sounded negative somehow, it wasn´t my intention at all
Hi Katira
I meant the NT world and not auts.
I know very little of what it would be like in a world populated by people like me...I live completely by reason.....even my love for my daughter which is a very intense feeling is founded on reason and recognising my place in her life.
In contrast I find NTs an arbitarary lot who swing from one view to the next.
trayder wrote:
Hi Katira
I meant the NT world and not auts.
I know very little of what it would be like in a world populated by people like me...I live completely by reason.....even my love for my daughter which is a very intense feeling is founded on reason and recognising my place in her life.
In contrast I find NTs an arbitarary lot who swing from one view to the next.
Oh, I´m sorry, again I meant the NT world and not auts.
I know very little of what it would be like in a world populated by people like me...I live completely by reason.....even my love for my daughter which is a very intense feeling is founded on reason and recognising my place in her life.
In contrast I find NTs an arbitarary lot who swing from one view to the next.
I better say no more, perhaps I shouldn´t have come here at all.
It´s a good thing having a daughter to love, I´m sure she loves you too. Take care
Katira wrote:
trayder wrote:
Hi Katira
I meant the NT world and not auts.
I know very little of what it would be like in a world populated by people like me...I live completely by reason.....even my love for my daughter which is a very intense feeling is founded on reason and recognising my place in her life.
In contrast I find NTs an arbitarary lot who swing from one view to the next.
Oh, I´m sorry, again I meant the NT world and not auts.
I know very little of what it would be like in a world populated by people like me...I live completely by reason.....even my love for my daughter which is a very intense feeling is founded on reason and recognising my place in her life.
In contrast I find NTs an arbitarary lot who swing from one view to the next.
I better say no more, perhaps I shouldn´t have come here at all.
It´s a good thing having a daughter to love, I´m sure she loves you too. Take care
Not at all. Im enjoying discovering a world of people like me and conversing with them for the first time in my life.
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