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11 Aug 2007, 2:40 pm

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Spiritually supercedes biology in identity.

Only to a religious person.


Well, it's the same argument against. Only to a pro-gay person does gayness seem unchangable.

But I know I didn't choose it. You don't know your god exists. At least some people know being gay isn't a choice. Whereas no one knows this god exists.


:lol: That's the dumbest argument yet. Believe me, people all over the world know God better than they know anything about themselves. You just don't understand what a spiritual relationship is.

She doesn't and I don't, well I guess I did before, I know how is this thing because I did go to church before.
As I also know for scientific studies and observation religion has a great psychological effect on people who are deeply religious and believe those things with all their passion, who are not believers don't have that, that is why you think different and see things different from non believers. It's all about in the human brain in the end, and how we perceive things and feel things.


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11 Aug 2007, 2:46 pm

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You mean sexual attaction? Now you have got me confused...

Not sexual attraction. I liked them. I dunno, I thought they were cute or whatever. I can't remember how a 5 year old views things, but I know I liked girls and it wasn't sexual. Lots of people do at that age: when my little brother started primary school, a load of the girls in his class used to follow him around because they liked him. It wasn't sexual because they were only 4 or 5 years old, but it's some low level of 'attraction' that will develop into attraction once they become teenagers or whatever. It's the same for gay people only they're more likely to remember it when they're older because they can't understand why they like boys when they're a boy themselves etc. So I 'liked' girls, but not in a sexual way at the time. I dunno if I explained that well.

I follow you now. I wouldnt agree neccesarily with the gay people being more likely to remember it though.

OK, I only thought that because I've heard straight people (on the anti-gay side) claim that it's just gay people who had this when they were kids. Obviously I don't know because I'm not straight, but I assumed that was the case then as that's what I've heard. But I guess that doesn't really matter.

Oh there are plenty of 5 year olds having girlfriends/ boyfriends in a hetrosexual manner.



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11 Aug 2007, 2:48 pm

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Oh there are plenty of 5 year olds having girlfriends/ boyfriends in a hetrosexual manner.

I noticed, but a lot of homophobic straight people seem to either forget that or just deny it when anyone makes the point that they remember being 'gay' at a young age. So that was just one reason I thought could contribute to that.



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11 Aug 2007, 3:08 pm

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You (Sopho) really make good points here, but they decide not to read them or ignore them, or they don't get it. You made it clear that you didn't chose this, they won't accept or ignore it. Ragtime however has an excuse, I know he won't accept it because it would contradict things he strongly holds on to EMOTIONALLY not logically, this other fella, I really don't know.

I know. That's the only thing that I find frustrating - it's not the points other people make (as Ragtime suggested yesterday when he said I was no longer being laid back about it), it's when the points I make are obviously ignored.
ie. I don't hate men. I've never made any comments, AFAIK, that would indicate that I did. If anything, I've made more pissed off posts about women. :P
That was why I kept on asking Ragtime to respond - because he'd made such a ridiculous statement, I wanted to know why. It had nothing to do with looking for attention.
Also, people don't seem to realise that I'm not being hypocritical because 'Ragtime could say the same about gays, that they're not born that way) because the difference is - I know myself that I didn't choose to be gay. Other people might not believe me, but I know it myself. Whereas Ragtime doesn't know his god exists. There's no way of proving or disproving something like that. So it's entirely different.

Anyway, the source for his claims to ban gay people to have the same rights as straight people are not objective, this bible thing and religious thing is very subjective in the end, and shouldn't be valuable to apply to the real world like that, when it comes about gay people and human rights.

The antigay thing from a few christians parallels a lot with the blood thing from Jehova's witnesses. Both are wrong and just damage people in the end.

However there are a few churches that accept gay people, which is a good thing, religion has always change according to time, so this they should do as well, sex has been always a problem.

You will see how much of a problem and taboo sexuality have been in history, especially in christianity, that is why it is taking too much time to change. Gay sexuality is still taboo with a lot of christians

I hope after a few years this will change and it should if humanity is developing for the better.


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11 Aug 2007, 3:12 pm

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You will see how much of a problem and taboo sexuality have been in history, especially in christianity, that is why it is taking too much time to change. Gay sexuality is still taboo with a lot of christians

lol Yeah. That photo I posted of Flo reading a book called 'sex' is actually a history book. That's not the whole title, but the first word. And it's about the persecution of different groups mostly during the middle ages. Gay people, witches, Jews, prostitutes, heretics etc.



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11 Aug 2007, 3:25 pm

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And so it follows that if literally bashing somebody from one particular group is a "hate crime" then literally bashing anyone from any other particular group is also a "hate crime".


Hate crimes are not about whether someone
is a member of a group. It's a bit more reasonable
than that.



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11 Aug 2007, 3:27 pm

I hate crime.



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11 Aug 2007, 3:30 pm

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Why?
You chose it. You weren't born a Christian. You're not biologically a Christian. You're the one who sits here denying people their rights. You deserve to get bashed.


No. Creed is recognized as a protected aspect.
Much more universally than sexual orientation.

And being born a particular way isn't some sort
of guarantor. For example, someone born with
a highly contagious disease will still be quarantined.



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11 Aug 2007, 3:34 pm

calandale wrote:
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Why?
You chose it. You weren't born a Christian. You're not biologically a Christian. You're the one who sits here denying people their rights. You deserve to get bashed.


No. Creed is recognized as a protected aspect.
Much more universally than sexual orientation.

And being born a particular way isn't some sort
of guarantor. For example, someone born with
a highly contagious disease will still be quarantined.

I don't mean being born a certain way means people should be able to get whatever they want. If paedophiles are biologically attracted to kids I still don't think they should be given this right as Ragtime keeps going on about. I was making the point that he chose to practice this religion and therefore should expect s**t from people when he sits here making alsorts of stupid assumptions about them, whereas the guy I knew who got bullied for years for being gay didn't choose that.



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11 Aug 2007, 3:35 pm

Sopho wrote:
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Therefore, their existence is a simple fact which is stuck in your brain, not a "chosen view".

And it's not a 'fact' that your god exists. :lol:


Actually it is, but how would you know?

How would you know either.
No one knows it to exist or not exist.


No one KNOWS anything, by the type of
criteria that you can impose. Indeed, there
are some pretty decent proofs for God's
existence. They just don't tell you what
God is.



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11 Aug 2007, 3:36 pm

calandale wrote:
Sopho wrote:
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Therefore, their existence is a simple fact which is stuck in your brain, not a "chosen view".

And it's not a 'fact' that your god exists. :lol:


Actually it is, but how would you know?

How would you know either.
No one knows it to exist or not exist.


No one KNOWS anything, by the type of
criteria that you can impose. Indeed, there
are some pretty decent proofs for God's
existence. They just don't tell you what
God is.

He can't prove the Christian god exists. But I don't recall ever deciding to be gay. For him, it's an external thing - a god, for me it's about decisions that I supposedly made myself.



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11 Aug 2007, 3:42 pm

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I was making the point that he chose to practice this religion and therefore should expect sh** from people when he sits here making alsorts of stupid assumptions about them, whereas the guy I knew who got bullied for years for being gay didn't choose that.


If raggy has the kind of personal knowledge of
God that he claims, he's either a nut job, or
sees the truth. Either way, can you really say
that he has any free choice in the matter?

Presuming reality is not as subjective as I
see it (in which case one WOULD be able to
choose their sexuality as well), it seems clear
that IF one is certain of the truth of something,
they have no choice but to believe it.

Now, as to 'practicing' well, one can be gay,
and not act on it. Or learn to hide it. I'm not
suggesting that these things are good, but I'm
pretty sure that his holiness sees that he is
the anointed of God, sent out to proselytize
all of us heathens. Yeah, he could choose
otherwise, but it would be WRONG from his
standpoint. Just as hiding one's sexuality is.



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11 Aug 2007, 3:44 pm

Sopho wrote:
He can't prove the Christian god exists. But I don't recall ever deciding to be gay. For him, it's an external thing - a god, for me it's about decisions that I supposedly made myself.


You can't prove you exist.

Has he claimed that he has any free will as to believing
in his God's existence? He claims such as to other things,
but I'm not sure about this. IF he does, well you have your
point, and he should retire.



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11 Aug 2007, 3:56 pm

calandale wrote:
Sopho wrote:
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Therefore, their existence is a simple fact which is stuck in your brain, not a "chosen view".

And it's not a 'fact' that your god exists. :lol:


Actually it is, but how would you know?

How would you know either.
No one knows it to exist or not exist.


No one KNOWS anything, by the type of
criteria that you can impose. Indeed, there
are some pretty decent proofs for God's
existence. They just don't tell you what
God is.

That is what I think. I really don't know how to prove his existence in a way of having a solid evidence.
The closest thing that anyone can ever get is to form a speculation or conjecture about it, but not a solid proof, mostly based on the feeling of the need of his existence, I suppose.
And if there is, we get another question, what kind of God is he? is he the God from all ancient writings including the Bible which have a different view of him?


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11 Aug 2007, 4:01 pm

Well, he is a nut job. And yes, he has no control over that. But he does have the choice of whether or not to start writing a load of BS on here or not. I don't mean this thread, I know he didn't start this. But what about things like claiming I hate men? Even if I did hate men, he couldn't possibly know that.



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11 Aug 2007, 4:17 pm

calandale wrote:
Sopho wrote:
I was making the point that he chose to practice this religion and therefore should expect sh** from people when he sits here making alsorts of stupid assumptions about them, whereas the guy I knew who got bullied for years for being gay didn't choose that.


If raggy has the kind of personal knowledge of
God that he claims, he's either a nut job, or
sees the truth. Either way, can you really say
that he has any free choice in the matter?

Presuming reality is not as subjective as I
see it (in which case one WOULD be able to
choose their sexuality as well), it seems clear
that IF one is certain of the truth of something,
they have no choice but to believe it.

Now, as to 'practicing' well, one can be gay,
and not act on it. Or learn to hide it. I'm not
suggesting that these things are good, but I'm
pretty sure that his holiness sees that he is
the anointed of God, sent out to proselytize
all of us heathens. Yeah, he could choose
otherwise, but it would be WRONG from his
standpoint. Just as hiding one's sexuality is.


Exactly.


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