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11 Aug 2007, 11:25 pm

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From past conversations, I already know you'll debunk God at every opportunity. Just a knee-jerk denial. (Get that fixed; start using your brain.)


You try to debunk FSM at every opportunity. Just a knee-jerk denial. (Get that fixed; start using YOUR brain.)

Flying Spaghetti Monster IS TRUTH!! !!


I got pwned.


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11 Aug 2007, 11:44 pm

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Ok, now I get you. What form does your relationship with God take, does he speak to you?


Usually not with words, but more directly through thoughts. When it is through actual words, they're almost voiceless. That is to say, the voice has no sound, either real or perceived. It's impossible to fully explain.

You are describing a psychological experience through religion actually.


From past conversations, I already know you'll debunk God at every opportunity. Just a knee-jerk denial. (Get that fixed; start using your brain.)

I don't debunk God, I just question these things, since I used to be a christian I started to question everything about it.

You seem to think that God really talks to you and you seem very sure about having the truth, while there is another person from a different church, who would say different things, and at the same time that person says God speaks to him and he has the truth, a third person says a different thing, etc. Which of all you have the real truth?


That's why we all have, and need, the Bible. There is one Bible for all churches to refer to. That is how we are supposed to stay co-orindinated in our beliefs. These two verses say it best: "All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work" (2 Tim 3:16-17). Therefore, if something a Christian says is found to contradict the Bible, he can and should be corrected by it.

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I started to questions the dogmas from my old church, and they are a little different from yours, interpretation of the Bible is different from yours, you won't agree with them, claiming that my former church don't have the truth, only yours, while people from there would say they have the truth. These tiny little things started to make me wonder about things.

Did they do verse-by-verse Bible reading/teaching in the church service? That's essential. No sermon should be without Christ and Scripture as its center, and focal point.
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I do have some of a brain, I hope, at least enough for me to not believe everything I have been thought without question them first. I was a christian when I was a boy, then I grew up, I saw things differently, feeling confused at first and sad actually, kinda like a little kid feels when finding out Santa Claus really doesn't exist, the feeling was similar to me, is not like I just stopped believing, I just have doubts, and have more and more doubts with time, to the point of leaving the church and becoming agnostic, the anti-gay stuff was one of the things that made me have doubts, because it didn't sound right to me. Mostly after knowing that my brother had a friend who had depression because he was gay.

I understand what you mean. Sounds like your doubts fit Matt 13:20-21, in the parable of the sower. "But he that received the seed (gospel) into stony places, the same is he that heareth the word, and anon with joy receives it; Yet he has no root in himself, but endures for a while: for when tribulation or persecution arises because of the word, by and by he is offended."
The anti-homosexual principles offended you, and added to your growing doubts. Satan is said to plant seeds of doubt in people's hearts, and that sounds like what has happened to you.
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I do really believe that what people experience in church is no more than psychological experiences, they have a passion for something that it might be good for them, because it gives them hope and hapiness, after all is part of being human, of having emotions, that can be good, but nothing is perfect, it always have some flaws.

There are, as with all experiences, psychological phenonmena involved in church, but all the more should there be a spiritual unity among the people in Christ.


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Thanks for bringing some sense back to this conversation Ska!! ! :wink: :lol:



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12 Aug 2007, 5:34 am

Ragtime wrote:
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Ok, now I get you. What form does your relationship with God take, does he speak to you?


Usually not with words, but more directly through thoughts. When it is through actual words, they're almost voiceless. That is to say, the voice has no sound, either real or perceived. It's impossible to fully explain.

You are describing a psychological experience through religion actually.


From past conversations, I already know you'll debunk God at every opportunity. Just a knee-jerk denial. (Get that fixed; start using your brain.)

I don't debunk God, I just question these things, since I used to be a christian I started to question everything about it.

You seem to think that God really talks to you and you seem very sure about having the truth, while there is another person from a different church, who would say different things, and at the same time that person says God speaks to him and he has the truth, a third person says a different thing, etc. Which of all you have the real truth?


That's why we all have, and need, the Bible. There is one Bible for all churches to refer to. That is how we are supposed to stay co-orindinated in our beliefs. These two verses say it best: "All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work" (2 Tim 3:16-17). Therefore, if something a Christian says is found to contradict the Bible, he can and should be corrected by it.

greenblue wrote:
I started to questions the dogmas from my old church, and they are a little different from yours, interpretation of the Bible is different from yours, you won't agree with them, claiming that my former church don't have the truth, only yours, while people from there would say they have the truth. These tiny little things started to make me wonder about things.

Did they do verse-by-verse Bible reading/teaching in the church service? That's essential. No sermon should be without Christ and Scripture as its center, and focal point.
greenblue wrote:
I do have some of a brain, I hope, at least enough for me to not believe everything I have been thought without question them first. I was a christian when I was a boy, then I grew up, I saw things differently, feeling confused at first and sad actually, kinda like a little kid feels when finding out Santa Claus really doesn't exist, the feeling was similar to me, is not like I just stopped believing, I just have doubts, and have more and more doubts with time, to the point of leaving the church and becoming agnostic, the anti-gay stuff was one of the things that made me have doubts, because it didn't sound right to me. Mostly after knowing that my brother had a friend who had depression because he was gay.

I understand what you mean. Sounds like your doubts fit Matt 13:20-21, in the parable of the sower. "But he that received the seed (gospel) into stony places, the same is he that heareth the word, and anon with joy receives it; Yet he has no root in himself, but endures for a while: for when tribulation or persecution arises because of the word, by and by he is offended."
The anti-homosexual principles offended you, and added to your growing doubts. Satan is said to plant seeds of doubt in people's hearts, and that sounds like what has happened to you.
greenblue wrote:
I do really believe that what people experience in church is no more than psychological experiences, they have a passion for something that it might be good for them, because it gives them hope and hapiness, after all is part of being human, of having emotions, that can be good, but nothing is perfect, it always have some flaws.

There are, as with all experiences, psychological phenonmena involved in church, but all the more should there be a spiritual unity among the people in Christ.

There are several editions of the Bible, King James for example, and also different churches omit different sections of it. The Gideons only use the Gospels I believe.
Could you tell me about the Parable of the Lost Sheep, i have forgotten what it was about.



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12 Aug 2007, 5:52 am

I believe that it's natural, people don't just choose to be bi/gay, do they?

But the question is: what causes homosexual attraction? Is it hardwired from childbirth, or imprinted in the same way as some fetish?

Fetish being an object or feature that an individual associates with sexual pleasure.

I'm thinking that it varies between the two for different people.

Of course, more studies need to be done into the matter. Either way, it's not a choice.


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12 Aug 2007, 8:18 am

Being gay isn't just about sexual pleasure, so it's not a fetish. It's just the same as being straight, only with people of the same sex.



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12 Aug 2007, 8:45 am

I am rather partial to the theory that one form of homosexuality occurs when
a male is born with female pheromone receptors (or vice versa).
The research showing that gay males respond like women to pheromones was reported
in the New York Times a couple of years ago.
See http://www.yawningbread.org/apdx_2005/imp-204.htm

There is a nice survey article on possible "explanations" of homosexuality in
a Boston Globe article "What makes people gay" by Neil Swidey
http://www.logcabin.org/lef/what_makes_people_gay.html
that was reprinted in "Best-American-Science-Writing-2006"



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12 Aug 2007, 9:49 am

Hadron wrote:
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greenblue wrote:
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Ok, now I get you. What form does your relationship with God take, does he speak to you?


Usually not with words, but more directly through thoughts. When it is through actual words, they're almost voiceless. That is to say, the voice has no sound, either real or perceived. It's impossible to fully explain.

You are describing a psychological experience through religion actually.


From past conversations, I already know you'll debunk God at every opportunity. Just a knee-jerk denial. (Get that fixed; start using your brain.)

I don't debunk God, I just question these things, since I used to be a christian I started to question everything about it.

You seem to think that God really talks to you and you seem very sure about having the truth, while there is another person from a different church, who would say different things, and at the same time that person says God speaks to him and he has the truth, a third person says a different thing, etc. Which of all you have the real truth?


That's why we all have, and need, the Bible. There is one Bible for all churches to refer to. That is how we are supposed to stay co-orindinated in our beliefs. These two verses say it best: "All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work" (2 Tim 3:16-17). Therefore, if something a Christian says is found to contradict the Bible, he can and should be corrected by it.

greenblue wrote:
I started to questions the dogmas from my old church, and they are a little different from yours, interpretation of the Bible is different from yours, you won't agree with them, claiming that my former church don't have the truth, only yours, while people from there would say they have the truth. These tiny little things started to make me wonder about things.

Did they do verse-by-verse Bible reading/teaching in the church service? That's essential. No sermon should be without Christ and Scripture as its center, and focal point.
greenblue wrote:
I do have some of a brain, I hope, at least enough for me to not believe everything I have been thought without question them first. I was a christian when I was a boy, then I grew up, I saw things differently, feeling confused at first and sad actually, kinda like a little kid feels when finding out Santa Claus really doesn't exist, the feeling was similar to me, is not like I just stopped believing, I just have doubts, and have more and more doubts with time, to the point of leaving the church and becoming agnostic, the anti-gay stuff was one of the things that made me have doubts, because it didn't sound right to me. Mostly after knowing that my brother had a friend who had depression because he was gay.

I understand what you mean. Sounds like your doubts fit Matt 13:20-21, in the parable of the sower. "But he that received the seed (gospel) into stony places, the same is he that heareth the word, and anon with joy receives it; Yet he has no root in himself, but endures for a while: for when tribulation or persecution arises because of the word, by and by he is offended."
The anti-homosexual principles offended you, and added to your growing doubts. Satan is said to plant seeds of doubt in people's hearts, and that sounds like what has happened to you.
greenblue wrote:
I do really believe that what people experience in church is no more than psychological experiences, they have a passion for something that it might be good for them, because it gives them hope and hapiness, after all is part of being human, of having emotions, that can be good, but nothing is perfect, it always have some flaws.

There are, as with all experiences, psychological phenonmena involved in church, but all the more should there be a spiritual unity among the people in Christ.

There are several editions of the Bible, King James for example, and also different churches omit different sections of it. The Gideons only use the Gospels I believe.
Could you tell me about the Parable of the Lost Sheep, i have forgotten what it was about.


"See that you do not look down on one of these little ones. For I tell you that their angels in heaven always see the face of my Father in heaven. What do you think? If a man owns a hundred sheep, and one of them wanders away, will he not leave the ninety-nine on the hills and go to look for the one that wandered off? And if he finds it, I tell you the truth, he is happier about that one sheep than about the ninety-nine that did not wander off. In the same way your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should be lost" (Matt 18:10-14).

And the King James does not differ in doctrine from the other main English versions. Also, most Christian denominations use the same Bible, even if the wording is more or less arcane; it still says the same things.


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12 Aug 2007, 9:55 am

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I believe that it's natural, people don't just choose to be bi/gay, do they?

But the question is: what causes homosexual attraction? Is it hardwired from childbirth, or imprinted in the same way as some fetish?

Fetish being an object or feature that an individual associates with sexual pleasure.

I'm thinking that it varies between the two for different people.

Of course, more studies need to be done into the matter. Either way, it's not a choice.


Well, you're talking about other people, so your knowledge is second- or third-hand. You can't honestly say: "He feels this way", or "She feels that way". All you can say is "I feel this way". I know that I chose to be straight. Whereas, I don't know what other people feel like, because I'm not them. If they tell me they feel a certain way, maybe they do and maybe they don't. But I know how I feel, because I'm me.


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12 Aug 2007, 9:57 am

Ragtime wrote:
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I believe that it's natural, people don't just choose to be bi/gay, do they?

But the question is: what causes homosexual attraction? Is it hardwired from childbirth, or imprinted in the same way as some fetish?

Fetish being an object or feature that an individual associates with sexual pleasure.

I'm thinking that it varies between the two for different people.

Of course, more studies need to be done into the matter. Either way, it's not a choice.


Well, you're talking about other people, so your knowledge is second- or third-hand. You can't honestly say: "He feels this way", or "She feels that way". All you can say is "I feel this way". I know that I chose to be straight. Whereas, I don't know what other people feel like, because I'm not them. If they tell me they feel a certain way, maybe they do and maybe they don't. But I know how I feel, because I'm me.

But you said that attraction to men didn't feel natural for you when you tried it.



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It's just the same as being straight, only with people of the same sex.


So you say....

It's certainly not true in a lot of cases; I'm not sure if it's true in any cases. If it's as totally-natural to be born that way as you say, I'd expect half the population to be born gay.


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12 Aug 2007, 10:01 am

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It's just the same as being straight, only with people of the same sex.


So you say....

It's certainly not true in a lot of cases; I'm not sure if it's true in any cases. If it's as totally-natural to be born that way as you say, I'd expect half the population to be born gay.

Why?
I'm 'naturally' AS, half the population don't have AS though. For all you know, it could be a form of population control, so then of course half the population wouldn't be gay.



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It's just the same as being straight, only with people of the same sex.


So you say....

It's certainly not true in a lot of cases;

Such as?



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I believe that it's natural, people don't just choose to be bi/gay, do they?

But the question is: what causes homosexual attraction? Is it hardwired from childbirth, or imprinted in the same way as some fetish?

Fetish being an object or feature that an individual associates with sexual pleasure.

I'm thinking that it varies between the two for different people.

Of course, more studies need to be done into the matter. Either way, it's not a choice.


Well, you're talking about other people, so your knowledge is second- or third-hand. You can't honestly say: "He feels this way", or "She feels that way". All you can say is "I feel this way". I know that I chose to be straight. Whereas, I don't know what other people feel like, because I'm not them. If they tell me they feel a certain way, maybe they do and maybe they don't. But I know how I feel, because I'm me.

But you said that attraction to men didn't feel natural for you when you tried it.


I said AT FIRST it didn't. Then it did. Then I chose to shun it, from which point it made/makes me neaseous to think about.


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12 Aug 2007, 10:04 am

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I said AT FIRST it didn't. Then it did. Then I chose to shun it, from which point it made/makes me neaseous to think about.

So then why couldn't I just 'choose to shun it?' This is complete bollocks and you know it.