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27 Feb 2017, 5:57 pm

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Yes, the unborn should be afforded protection. As a father, I never doubted that my little girl was already a living, breathing human being even while inside my wife. That said, I see just as much callousness from conservatives when it comes to refusing care to poor and infirmed children after birth.


Wow ... once again we agree, Kraichgauer!

In fact, I'll go beyond what you said.

There is callousness from liberals, conservatives, Democrats, Republicans, ...
... big name charities, and churches ...
I could even name names ...
let's just say that I'd rather give my money to a random guy on the street
than to some of these famous charities,
and as far as church-sponsored charities ... you've got to do your homework these days and vet them,
some are good, others not so much.
(Food pantries tend to be on my "good" list,
that said, some people still fall through the cracks in the system.)
I've witnessed this from experience, not just back-and-forth banter on a forum to kill time.

The callousness I'm talking about extends to the physically disabled, seriously chronically ill ...
... one of whom I suspect was an Aspie, and who was my best friend as long as she lived.
Her story rivals that of a certain currently homeless WP member,
only her story went a different direction.

And to get back onto the thread topic ... President Donald Trump?
Well actually, I would say ...
better to help someone yourself
rather than to depend on ANY president.
(I heard what my friend went through under Obama, btw,
so yeah, ANY president.)

Anyways. Pro-life doesn't end when a baby is born.



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27 Feb 2017, 5:59 pm

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This is why I don't usually involve myself in abortion threads here - not anymore. I can't handle the way the other side presents their case. It makes me physically ill listening to the way things are explained. No feelings, no empathy for the baby, however, everyone is supposed to feel so much empathy for the women themselves who to me seem like classic narcissists - what's in it for them. They don't want anything "happening" to their bodies when women's bodies were made to have babies and the fact that they know best if someone else should be able to live because "some people's lives just aren't worth living". I think it's the women that don't want their own life upset with a baby when it is their fault that they are pregnant in the first place (and I'm not talking about rapes and incest so don't even go there.) How is this line of thinking any different from the gas chambers for Christ's sake?!


I understand how you feel, nurseangela.



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27 Feb 2017, 6:17 pm

the_phoenix wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Yes, the unborn should be afforded protection. As a father, I never doubted that my little girl was already a living, breathing human being even while inside my wife. That said, I see just as much callousness from conservatives when it comes to refusing care to poor and infirmed children after birth.


Wow ... once again we agree, Kraichgauer!

In fact, I'll go beyond what you said.

There is callousness from liberals, conservatives, Democrats, Republicans, ...
... big name charities, and churches ...
I could even name names ...
let's just say that I'd rather give my money to a random guy on the street
than to some of these famous charities,
and as far as church-sponsored charities ... you've got to do your homework these days and vet them,
some are good, others not so much.
(Food pantries tend to be on my "good" list,
that said, some people still fall through the cracks in the system.)
I've witnessed this from experience, not just back-and-forth banter on a forum to kill time.

The callousness I'm talking about extends to the physically disabled, seriously chronically ill ...
... one of whom I suspect was an Aspie, and who was my best friend as long as she lived.
Her story rivals that of a certain currently homeless WP member,
only her story went a different direction.

And to get back onto the thread topic ... President Donald Trump?
Well actually, I would say ...
better to help someone yourself
rather than to depend on ANY president.
(I heard what my friend went through under Obama, btw,
so yeah, ANY president.)

Anyways. Pro-life doesn't end when a baby is born.


For the most part, I agree.


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27 Feb 2017, 6:55 pm

nurseangela wrote:
...No feelings, no empathy for the baby, however, everyone is supposed to feel so much empathy for the women themselves who to me seem like classic narcissists - what's in it for them. They don't want anything "happening" to their bodies when women's bodies were made to have babies and the fact that they know best if someone else should be able to live because "some people's lives just aren't worth living". I think it's the women that don't want their own life upset with a baby when it is their fault that they are pregnant in the first place (and I'm not talking about rapes and incest so don't even go there.) How is this line of thinking any different from the gas chambers for Christ's sake?!

People being forced into gas chambers to die because someone doesn't like their religion versus an unwanted fetus never being born. How can you even compare these two things?



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27 Feb 2017, 7:15 pm

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nurseangela wrote:
...No feelings, no empathy for the baby, however, everyone is supposed to feel so much empathy for the women themselves who to me seem like classic narcissists - what's in it for them. They don't want anything "happening" to their bodies when women's bodies were made to have babies and the fact that they know best if someone else should be able to live because "some people's lives just aren't worth living". I think it's the women that don't want their own life upset with a baby when it is their fault that they are pregnant in the first place (and I'm not talking about rapes and incest so don't even go there.) How is this line of thinking any different from the gas chambers for Christ's sake?!

People being forced into gas chambers to die because someone doesn't like their religion versus an unwanted fetus never being born. How can you even compare these two things?


What's being compared is not two "things" but two types of people.

A) People being forced into gas chambers to die
B) People being killed in the womb



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27 Feb 2017, 7:28 pm

the_phoenix wrote:
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nurseangela wrote:
...No feelings, no empathy for the baby, however, everyone is supposed to feel so much empathy for the women themselves who to me seem like classic narcissists - what's in it for them. They don't want anything "happening" to their bodies when women's bodies were made to have babies and the fact that they know best if someone else should be able to live because "some people's lives just aren't worth living". I think it's the women that don't want their own life upset with a baby when it is their fault that they are pregnant in the first place (and I'm not talking about rapes and incest so don't even go there.) How is this line of thinking any different from the gas chambers for Christ's sake?!

People being forced into gas chambers to die because someone doesn't like their religion versus an unwanted fetus never being born. How can you even compare these two things?


What's being compared is not two "things" but two types of people.

A) People being forced into gas chambers to die
B) People being killed in the womb

Nice try. Things refers to the ending of the life not the life itself. Care to try again?



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27 Feb 2017, 7:39 pm

androbot01 wrote:
the_phoenix wrote:
androbot01 wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
...No feelings, no empathy for the baby, however, everyone is supposed to feel so much empathy for the women themselves who to me seem like classic narcissists - what's in it for them. They don't want anything "happening" to their bodies when women's bodies were made to have babies and the fact that they know best if someone else should be able to live because "some people's lives just aren't worth living". I think it's the women that don't want their own life upset with a baby when it is their fault that they are pregnant in the first place (and I'm not talking about rapes and incest so don't even go there.) How is this line of thinking any different from the gas chambers for Christ's sake?!

People being forced into gas chambers to die because someone doesn't like their religion versus an unwanted fetus never being born. How can you even compare these two things?


What's being compared is not two "things" but two types of people.

A) People being forced into gas chambers to die
B) People being killed in the womb

Nice try. Things refers to the ending of the life not the life itself. Care to try again?


I stand by my post.
It says exactly what I want it to and conveys the meaning I intended.



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27 Feb 2017, 8:02 pm

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It seems arrogant to me that people would assume they can judge better than the woman if her baby should be born. And then there's the issue of the harm caused to the mother by the pregnancy and birth. She should not have to go through this if she doesn't want to. It's her body.
Aren't there enough people on this planet already for Heaven's sake?


What's arrogant is for someone to think they have the right to choose whether someone else gets to live or not.


I would like to point out that other people choosing whether or not someone else gets to live or not happens on a regular basis in multiple areas of society. My father's best friend had leukemia. Doctor's felt fairly confident that a bone marrow transplant would be successful in him, but someone at his health insurance company decided that they would deny him a bone marrow transplant on the basis that it was "experimental", and he died as a result of the leukemia.

Any time a country takes military action against another country, as ours does frequently, there is a decision made, that some people, including civilians, will die. They call this death of civilians "collateral damage" or "casualties". What's casual about an innocent person having a bomb dropped on them, I don't know, but that is exactly what happens. It's nice to think that it's not intentional when it happens, but that is not usually the case. Someone has sat there in a war room and decided that killing a few enemies is worth taking a few civilian lives.

You might argue that such things are sometimes necessary, though unfortunate, and I would agree.

What I don't agree with is the idea is that a zygote or blastocyst is a person. These are stages in human development that have the potential to become a person. When does personhood start? That's a debate without a conclusion but to start, I think the brain should be fully differentiated.


This is why I don't usually involve myself in abortion threads here - not anymore. I can't handle the way the other side presents their case. It makes me physically ill listening to the way things are explained. No feelings, no empathy for the baby, however, everyone is supposed to feel so much empathy for the women themselves who to me seem like classic narcissists - what's in it for them. They don't want anything "happening" to their bodies when women's bodies were made to have babies and the fact that they know best if someone else should be able to live because "some people's lives just aren't worth living". I think it's the women that don't want their own life upset with a baby when it is their fault that they are pregnant in the first place (and I'm not talking about rapes and incest so don't even go there.) How is this line of thinking any different from the gas chambers for Christ's sake?!


I'm glad you mentioned the idea of feelings and empathy for the baby, because I feel that many who proclaim to be pro life often lack that very thing and I would like to discuss that. I understand that you and many pro lifers consider a fetus a baby, often back to the point of conception. I understand that you have empathy for that fetus. What I don't understand is why that empathy and desire to care for and protect said fetus/baby often ends when the child is born and it can no longer derive shelter and nourishment directly from the mother's body. I find the limiting of resources to babies and children who cannot fend for themselves, and who's parents cannot or do not properly care for them disgusting.

To this end, I've heard many conservatives fixate on the idea that a person should take responsibility for their offspring. Of course they should but when they don't, regardless of whether or not it's because they won't or can't, that doesn't change the fact that the child is left high and dry.

As I said before, I would be more willing to believe that many who proclaim to be pro life are actually the caring individuals they claim to be, if those same individuals did not also actively seek to limit welfare and programs that benefit disadvantaged children.

In the minds of pro lifers who oppose welfare, how is this....

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Or this...

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Less deserving of care than any of these?

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27 Feb 2017, 8:48 pm

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I stand by my post.
It says exactly what I want it to and conveys the meaning I intended.

I just don't get how you can compare the two things. You must be taking the fetus as a metaphor for a person and given it too much importance.



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27 Feb 2017, 8:56 pm

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EzraS wrote:
Pregnancy doesn't just happen. It's usually due to a premeditated consensual act. I don't think anyone should engage in sexual intercourse, unless they are willing to take full responsibility for a pregnancy that might occur. Maybe there should be heavy fines and or jail time involved for both parties.


Sterilization.

What about teenagers that engage in sex?Should they be jailed for it?Kids do stupid things,like get drunk and sex it up.Rubbers can break and even the pill isn't always effective.
Some women can't take any birth control that effects hormones,a friend that is a breast cancer survivor can't take them.She has to use other methods that are not as effective.She does not want a child becuse of the fact that cancer might come back,and if it does it will probably be fatal.
Sterilization is a great option,I think it should be free and all and to anyone that wants it.Even that isn't 100%,I beleive there is a one in thousand chance that it reverses itself.At least that's what they told me when I had my tubal.
My daughter had decided that she doesn't want kids,but becuse of her age no doctor will do the procedure.They think she might change her mind later.So that's not option for most young people,doctors are just unwilling to do it.
So you can't throw sterilization out there like its the answer.

I think someone made it mad.. 8O


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27 Feb 2017, 8:58 pm

androbot01 wrote:
the_phoenix wrote:
I stand by my post.
It says exactly what I want it to and conveys the meaning I intended.

I just don't get how you can compare the two ...


Below is a photo that I took back in January, 2010 when I attended the March for Life in Washington, DC.
Thank you for inspiring me to post my photo.

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27 Feb 2017, 9:12 pm

the_phoenix wrote:
androbot01 wrote:
the_phoenix wrote:
I stand by my post.
It says exactly what I want it to and conveys the meaning I intended.

I just don't get how you can compare the two ...


Below is a photo that I took back in January, 2010 when I attended the March for Life in Washington, DC.
Thank you for inspiring me to post my photo.

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So do you think that all these dead unborn are up there crying because they missed out on life down here? I suspect they've moved on. What I truly struggle with with the pro-life argument is the assumption that to live as a human is a gift. Far too often it is a lonely burden. This is the arrogance I was talking about. Humans worship themselves like idols.



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27 Feb 2017, 10:35 pm

the_phoenix wrote:
androbot01 wrote:
the_phoenix wrote:
I stand by my post.
It says exactly what I want it to and conveys the meaning I intended.

I just don't get how you can compare the two ...


Below is a photo that I took back in January, 2010 when I attended the March for Life in Washington, DC.
Thank you for inspiring me to post my photo.

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I consider the child on the sign a person.

I don't consider any of these people...

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As I previously said, they are stages in human development that have the potential to become people. The fact that they could become people is good enough for some to feel that first trimester abortions should be banned, but then why stop at undifferentiated cells? Why not also consider human eggs and human sperm people, and ban women allow eggs to go unfertilized, and men from wasting sperm (to this end, I would like to point out to the religious individuals here that the bible does indeed condemn men for ejaculating outside of a female, for whatever reason).

My definition of person centers around differentiation and development of the brain. No brain, no person, so while I personally would not get an abortion, and think women should seriously consider other options, I don't believe first trimester abortions should be banned, and I believe that limiting a women's access to abortions actually increases second trimester abortions, because women have to drive farther and come up with more money, which takes time, when they cannot easily obtain first trimester abortions locally.

As for third trimester abortions, most people will point out that most of these are not actually abortions, but early deliveries, that are often done when the mother can no longer safely carry the fetus/baby to term, or when there are twins and one of them has become a threat to the other's life, or when the baby has died in the womb, or when there is a severe fetal abnormality that excludes the possibility of life outside of the womb.



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27 Feb 2017, 10:46 pm

To revert from abortion to a nice, clear-cut issue like gun rights, some of our readers might like this fine 2nd-amendment analysis by UCLA law professor Eugene Volokh:



More about the video here (with a bonus photo of Raptor's girlfriend at the top):

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/vol ... amendment/


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27 Feb 2017, 10:56 pm

the nicest thing one can say about the pres is that he's unenlightened, increasing defense spending when we already outgun the next several largest militaries combined. Eisenhauer said every weapon made is a theft from hungry kids.



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27 Feb 2017, 11:23 pm

Chronos wrote:
Why not also consider human eggs and human sperm people, and ban women allow eggs to go unfertilized, and men from wasting sperm (to this end, I would like to point out to the religious individuals here that the bible does indeed condemn men for ejaculating outside of a female, for whatever reason).

Interestingly, they claim that based on the story of Onan, which says no such thing. God orders Onan to commit genocide, but instead Onan substitutes one rape but mitigates it by casting his seed on the ground. As I recall it, the problem was failing to correctly wage holy war and utterly annihilate the enemy women and children. It probably makes a better story the way they tell it, though.


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