What I would like from the Progressives/SJW. Trggr Wrnng.
AspE wrote:
Sorry if you think we are as*holes for pointing out that you're being as*holes.
It might help if some people would wash their mouths out with soap before speaking.
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OliveOilMom wrote:
AspE wrote:
Sorry if you think we are as*holes for pointing out that you're being as*holes.
But what if .not being an as*hole and something I say reminds somebody of something else that is of the as*hole statement variety?
Like the kids who were accused of racism because they put an acne mask on and it looked funny so they posted a pic and were forced to apologize because biore charcoal facial mask is black and it simply REMINDED somebody of blackface?
What if somebody takes something the complete wrong way? You aren't supposed to ask people of other ethnicities where they are from. That's stupid. If you say "You ain't from around here now are ya boy?" That's one thing but asking where you're from when you meet somebody is part of getting to know each other and small talk. And it's another example of not being am as*hole bit just making somebody with a wall full of participation trophies think of something else of the as*hole persuasion which may or may not be similar?
I'm asking a serious question, and would like to read your answer.
I'm not saying people aren't as*holes, sure they are. The world is full of douchebags. But every douchebag isn't BEING a douchebag 24 hours a day. What about when he's not and he's accused of it anyway because it just made Brittany think of something she read?
If you think you weren't in the wrong, then defend yourself. You know you don't have to take anything anyone says seriously?
But in the larger scheme of things, language can and should be used as a weapon. Conservatives do it all the time, now they are getting a taste of it themselves.
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AspE wrote:
Sorry if you think we are as*holes for pointing out that you're being as*holes.
TOTALLY off topic but its my thread bwhen scrolling through I noticed your avatar. And your double use of the word as*holes. There is a visual pun there somewhere. Nice!
Ha! Good one Miss O!
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OliveOilMom wrote:
Just make a list for the USA. That will do for now. We are the main ones having to deal with this stuff.
And there are websites for people travelling to foreign countries to give you a quick heads up on what not to do there that is normal here.
ok.And there are websites for people travelling to foreign countries to give you a quick heads up on what not to do there that is normal here.
1) think before you speak
2) don't be an as*hole
3) see #1
That's 2 A-hole remarks from the Left and we just got started (even though I'm coming to the party late). You guys are never going to change. Dream on Miss O.
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Political correctness is suffocating the west, it is a suicidal ideology and totalitarian in nature. You don't get to control speech, imagine how silly all those people that were literally beaten in the middle of the streets in the 60s fighting for their civil rights must feel that Dr. King's message of reconciliation and unity has been so completely lost by this current generation. This is a problem with WHITE liberals, blacks and hispanics don't play the PC game and in the deluded mind of a SJW they lead them in oppression points thus they can do and say whatever they want. The black and hispanic people I know(most of my classmates in public school) laugh at how scared whites are to say anything about race, I'm not talking about some spoiled child of a millionaire that cries about white privilege but rather the real folks that struggle every day that these liberals try to move as far away from as possible.
I believe in free speech, **** your feelings.
"i believe in free speech until THOSE PEOPLE start saying nasty things about me"I believe in free speech, **** your feelings.
you can't simultaneously believe in free speech and want to restrict it, that's not how free speech works.
OH MY GOD! My mouth is hanging open. Are you freaking serious?! Yeah, Miss O, this is done before it even got started.
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TheAP wrote:
Are people who get offended by everything really that common?
Yeah, you just posted right after one of them.
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Jacoby wrote:
Fugu wrote:
OliveOilMom wrote:
Just make a list for the USA. That will do for now. We are the main ones having to deal with this stuff.
And there are websites for people travelling to foreign countries to give you a quick heads up on what not to do there that is normal here.
ok.And there are websites for people travelling to foreign countries to give you a quick heads up on what not to do there that is normal here.
1) think before you speak
2) don't be an as*hole
3) see #1
How about we just ignore self-hating white ninny "liberals"(they're complete opposite of liberal) and move on with our lives?
WTF! Proof right here that you get what you deserve, dude. You're one of the worst. At least the others didn't turn anyone in that I'm aware of - just YOU.
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B19 wrote:
What I would like more of on WP: Civility
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Civility
If that makes me a target for the nasty personalised namecalling that is so common on this forum, so be it. There seems to be a direct link between those who call others names and those who hate political correctness, as if one justifies the other. It doesn't.
Further food for thought here:
https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Don%27t_be_a_jerk
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Civility
If that makes me a target for the nasty personalised namecalling that is so common on this forum, so be it. There seems to be a direct link between those who call others names and those who hate political correctness, as if one justifies the other. It doesn't.
Further food for thought here:
https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Don%27t_be_a_jerk
you've exposed your bias by taking a side on the whole political correctness issue, you are entitled to your opinion but lets not abuse that authority
I'm not to one being uncivil, I have more civil discussions here than anyone with people I'm sure strongly disagree with me on tons of things but I also will not allow someone to bully or insult me especially when they're making a fool of themselves since I find it amusing. There are only a select few that seem to really struggle with this, I've been here a long time and these posters typically flame out pretty quick. If you want a calm, civil, ration discussion then we can do that or we can sling mud and see what sticks.
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OliveOilMom wrote:
What those of us whose epidermis isn't made of single ply tissue would like is a list of everything offensive from now into perpetuity. This means think of everything, no matter how small, that could in any way be possibly offensive to even one person and write it down. Make sure you get everything because once it's done I'm having it carved into stone by a grandchild of a set director who used to work for Cecil B DeMille and its got to stay that way.
You have been fooled by the entire strategy of the radical Left, and they already have you wrapped around their fingers. There isn't and can't be such a list on purpose, because "social justice" has nothing to do with either society or justice. It is about power -- the power to control your behavior at will. If you know the rules and follow them, then maybe you can be independent. But if we keep the rules hidden from you, or change them randomly, then we can keep you always on the defensive, always down, and then we can control you. "Social justice" is Marxist totalitarianism touched up with lipstick and squirted with perfume so you can smell the mass-murdering ideology underneath.
And it's easy to do, because on average, human beings (even a lot of aspies) just go along with the crowd. If the crowd is doing something, then it must be ok. And whipping up a crowd is a pretty easy thing to do if you have decent persuasive skills. I could begin right here (if I wanted to) as follows: Your racist username is something that really should not be permitted on WP. Don't you think you should apologize for that kind of coded slur against Italian Americans? If you post an apology I won't report you to the moderators, but you can be sure we'll be monitoring your posts to make sure you don't harass any more users with your racist ideology.
(See how easy that is? And I guarantee if some energetic person started promoting that kind of line, pretty soon an assortment of crowd-followers would start promoting it too -- in Marxist lingo they are called "useful idiots" who will do whatever the Party tells them to do.)
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auntblabby wrote:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Microaggression_theory
the above page describes what a lot of it is about. it is about persons in a dominant group trivializing the concerns of people in an oppressed or marginalized group.
the above page describes what a lot of it is about. it is about persons in a dominant group trivializing the concerns of people in an oppressed or marginalized group.
Exactly. Have we as autistic people not experienced that, also?
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beneficii wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Microaggression_theory
the above page describes what a lot of it is about. it is about persons in a dominant group trivializing the concerns of people in an oppressed or marginalized group.
the above page describes what a lot of it is about. it is about persons in a dominant group trivializing the concerns of people in an oppressed or marginalized group.
Exactly. Have we as autistic people not experienced that, also?
there are people here who apparently fancy themselves in a dominant group with the privilege of ridiculing the concerns of those in the non-dominant group.
androbot01 wrote:
I had an experience today in line at the grocery store. The oriental girl behind's dumplings fell over the belt divider and mixed with my groceries. The clerk asked if they were mine and I said no and indicated they were the girl's. She said she should have known that. At first I thought she meant because it was Asian food and the girl was Asian. But the clerk didn't mean that. She then said, makes sense that all the dumplings belong to the same order.
Anyway I thought this is a good example of something that could be interpreted as racist, but isn't.
Anyway I thought this is a good example of something that could be interpreted as racist, but isn't.
I think one has to have a mindset of racism to see it. It didn't even occur to me that the example you talked about was even the slightest bit racist. Do Asian girls love dumplings or something? When people play the race card too much, they put that into other people's minds - like brainwashing. Then everyone is on high alert trying to pick up on if someone is being racist or not. All this race card crap happened when Asswipe entered the White House. The whole Democratic party actually. Just like Hilliary Clinton bringing up that if the Repubs didn't vote for the Justice picked by the King then they must be racist. You can blame the Democrats for all the racist crap with Mr. Aw running the show. Pulling the race card is Mr. Aw's specialty - that's how he got to be the Supreme Leader.
Time for beauty rest. This thread tuckered me out and I only got halfway through.
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beneficii wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Microaggression_theory
the above page describes what a lot of it is about. it is about persons in a dominant group trivializing the concerns of people in an oppressed or marginalized group.
the above page describes what a lot of it is about. it is about persons in a dominant group trivializing the concerns of people in an oppressed or marginalized group.
Exactly. Have we as autistic people not experienced that, also?
there are people here who apparently fancy themselves in a dominant group with the privilege of ridiculing the concerns of those in the non-dominant group.
What? Say what you mean. Who's the dominant group and who is the non-dominant group?
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auntblabby wrote:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Microaggression_theory
the above page describes what a lot of it is about. it is about persons in a dominant group trivializing the concerns of people in an oppressed or marginalized group.
the above page describes what a lot of it is about. it is about persons in a dominant group trivializing the concerns of people in an oppressed or marginalized group.
Im not trivializing their concerns. I'm trivializing the need to spread the practice of avoiding noninsulting and nonoffensive ordinary stuff. Im not talking about insulting them. I'm talking about something reminding them.of something upsetting. I'm talking about offense by association. Im talking about how Kanye isn't a blackface character and btw pore mask isn't blackface or meant to be. I'm.talking about people trying to spread awareness that we should use jazz hands instead of clapping or all the rest of that I'm too tired to type. I'm talking about nurturing weakness and thin skin rather than encouraging strength and learning to ignore something you know us small.
And I'm.wondering why people want to get the nation to change lots of things rather than teach a few to be able to deal with it, and I want to stop encouraging this emo stuff in college kids.
I'm.not talking about purposeful offense or even real accidental offense. In some.colleges you can't ask people of another ethnicitybwhere they are from. That's a normal small talk question.
Why not teach people that most things aren't meant to offend and if it does offend them personally yo speak up.
And for got sakes teach these kids that there are emotions between great and devastated and to not make the default negative emotion devastation. And yes I think a lot of its in their heads because they are emotionally invested in the movement. Not the jazz hands s**t it pushes.
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OliveOilMom wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Microaggression_theory
the above page describes what a lot of it is about. it is about persons in a dominant group trivializing the concerns of people in an oppressed or marginalized group.
the above page describes what a lot of it is about. it is about persons in a dominant group trivializing the concerns of people in an oppressed or marginalized group.
Im not trivializing their concerns. I'm trivializing the need to spread the practice of avoiding noninsulting and nonoffensive ordinary stuff. Im not talking about insulting them. I'm talking about something reminding them.of something upsetting. I'm talking about offense by association. Im talking about how Kanye isn't a blackface character and btw pore mask isn't blackface or meant to be. I'm.talking about people trying to spread awareness that we should use jazz hands instead of clapping or all the rest of that I'm too tired to type. I'm talking about nurturing weakness and thin skin rather than encouraging strength and learning to ignore something you know us small.
And I'm.wondering why people want to get the nation to change lots of things rather than teach a few to be able to deal with it, and I want to stop encouraging this emo stuff in college kids.
I'm.not talking about purposeful offense or even real accidental offense. In some.colleges you can't ask people of another ethnicitybwhere they are from. That's a normal small talk question.
Why not teach people that most things aren't meant to offend and if it does offend them personally yo speak up.
And for got sakes teach these kids that there are emotions between great and devastated and to not make the default negative emotion devastation. And yes I think a lot of its in their heads because they are emotionally invested in the movement. Not the jazz hands s**t it pushes.
BTW aunt blabby. Off topic here. PMs aren't sending amd messenger isn't loading on my phone here. Can you call me in a few or you want me to call you? Something to tell you.
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