Goldilocks wrote:
I wish more women got involved in this because honestly it seems like some of the guys on this topic are getting off on even just talking about nipples. And I would genuinely like to have some more genuine opinions.
Someone just said 'if it's in a public place I have the right to look at it' - this sounds SUPER creepy. Getting stared at because your skirt is short or top is low is not very nice. Not everyone goes out with the idea of seducing or trying to attract someone, sometimes people just want to be comfortable.
If I see someone attractive I actually try not to stare because they're a person not an animal in a zoo
Personally, I just think this whole debate is simply amusing...
Titillating, if you will...
At my age I need a whole lot more than nipples to become stimulated...
Is that too creepy or just creepy enough?...
If women *choose* to wear their sexuality on the street, kudos to them...
I literally thank them in my mind for adding something positive to this dreary and depressing world...
If you wear a miniskirt and show some cleavage, expect to be appreciated...
And why do it if you don't want attention?
If you are at the beach, that is a different context...
But if you are simply in a public place and you don't want attention dress appropriately...
Wear shorts rather than a miniskirt...
Wear a loose fitting cotton gown rather than a boob tube top to gain some relief from the heat...
But yes, some men need to understand the difference between a glance and a stare...
But on the other hand, some women need to understand their hypocrisy in enjoying being appreciated by someone like George Clooney, Brad Pitt or Ryan Gosling while they think they are being "perved" at by less attractive men...
You are a female...
Whether we like it or not, evolution has made men and women differently...
And evidently, evolution has been very effective in the continuing the species with these differences...
Vive la difference!...