Any Christians with Aspergers?
John_Browning
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I'm a Christian and have AS. I'm non-denominational and I help teach a special needs sunday school class that is mostly autistic kids at church.
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Hi John Browning. I am encouraged that you can serve by teaching Sunday school, that's more than what I contribute at my church. When you say non-denominational, do you mean that your church is not affiliated with any other, or that it does not have theological convictions close to any other church enough to describe them as that, or both?
Tex Mex, I read your post about your relationship with the last girl(/woman - you're about my age) - I really feel for you, I can relate. Without telling the story about both my ex-girlfriends (only two), they both professed to being Christian, my first was incredibly immature and my second had admitted to sexual relations with members of her church. I don't know how I got sucked in to being with either of them - I guess I was just desperate. Both have subsequently gotten pregnant outside of marriage, and have married those men, one of whom is definately not a Christian, the other I'm not sure. I have a tremendous fear that a further relationship would turn out similarly, so I am careful. Having said that, I believe I am more mature and more ready for a relationship than at any other time in my life so far, and I know what I am looking for. In fact since 2004 I have only asked one young woman out. She ended up marrying someone else, but I do not regret it, because her marriage has turned out well. I have my eye on another, and will ask her out soon, or at least intend to, because I have extreme difficulty determining when is an appropriate time/manner. I also have undesirable qualities as a husband, not only because of Aspergers, but because of uncertain employment/career prospects, and the like, but those are not under my control so I trust God. At least in theory...
I'm a non churchgoing christian. I smoke and drink, I only became a christian when I was about 40 which was also about the time I got dx'ed. I only attended sunday school as a child for a few years, it was Presbyterian which is a form of calvinism, so they're not into evangelising, it's a 'born saved' or born damned' thing which is a whole 'nother argument. But anyway, I don't feel the need to 'save' others or not in an active, evangelical sense.
One of the problems I have with modern christianity is that it has become conflated with bourgeois values so being a drinking (not to excess), smoking christian, I doubt I'd be comfortable in a church, it's become such a taboo these days. I did a bit of church shopping when I first believed but wasn't impressed, I just don't think it's my thing.
Tim, when you say Lutheran, do you adhere to Luther's original teachings or is your church different?
Any "Lutheran" Church, how would adhere to his "original teachings" would be marked, with extreme good reason, as a bunch of anti-Semitic followers of a protestant state which do suppress any critic with means of such a brutality that the PR China under Mao would appear as paradise of human rights. I also think that burning witches is "out of fashion".
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In a lot of respect the Catholic Church of the 16th century was in its teachings (and very often its practice) more tolerant than this Wittenberg Monk. You may should read the replays of Erasmus of Rotterdam against Luther.
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My church is full of Calvinists, and we are very enthusiastic about evangelising! God's sovereignty does not diminish at all the obligation from Scripture for us to trust in Jesus. But you're right it's a topic that can be argued ad nauseam.
I am also frustrated with my and other churches becoming infused with the "values" of the chattering classes. But if you think about it, 99% of people don't have Aspergers, so they are very likely to take their posisitions based on getting on with their peers, rather than from their own understanding of Scripture. The way I once put it to my pastor, was that God created non-Aspergers people to hold the church together.
yeah I found that a bit confusing that you say it's a calvinist church, yet evangelising. I suppose there's all sort of cross pollination of churches these days.
I'm an older person and a bit of a loner and not looking for a partner/relationship, so all things considered, I can do without the church thing. If I was younger, it might be different!
There's also the church invisible concept, I like to think I'm a member of that. I tend to think of myself as something of a 'holy fool'- it's a concept you find in catholicism/orthodox and they are solitary, odd people usually, very unbourgeois, sometimes shocking.
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Yes, it seems to me that a lot of people - Aspergers or not - beileve the myth that Calvinists believe they don't or shouldn't evangelise, which is totally wrong. Calvin himself was all for evangelism. It's a very hard word to define - in the 21st century people can just google something and think they know it straightaway, but it's not as simple as that.
I know it's extra hard for people with Aspergers to be in a large group of people (I myself come home from church or Bible study in tears half the time), but the Bible commands us to meet together, primarily for the purpose of encouraging each other in the faith. Attending church is actually a service for God. John Browning serves in this way. Yes, I am looking for a partner, and at times I feel like I don't want to go I go for that reason. But God forgives us.
My mistake....Romans 13.
- KJV
Government in the US has been harping on this scripture to quell dissent from Christians, but it there is a severe flaw with their rationale. As Greg Dixon explained in an excellent World-Net-Daily article....
Yet, when confronted with the true meaning of Romans 13, absurd accusations are shouted in religious rhetoric toward those who would dare to break an unjust law or even to question the almighty government. The opponents of unlimited submission to government are deemed as rebellious, anarchist and disobedient. However, there is no practical, historical or biblical consistency in the shallow agreements of these simpletons.
First, unlimited submission to government is not practical. For a philosophy to be a valid philosophy, it must be consistent. As a result, it does not make practical sense to blindly obey a tyrant like Adolph Hitler or deem a law such as abortion-on-demand a legitimate law just because one's government says it is public policy. However, if Romans 13 teaches unlimited submission to government, then we must obey and acknowledge all laws, good and bad, as the will of God. If all governments are of God, then all laws are of God. This in not practical from any point of view.
Second, it is not historical. Our founding fathers recognized and understood tyranny and despotism. They perceived the ultimate end of the king's actions. Thus, they besought George III to relent in his persecutions and implored him to uphold his covenant agreement.
In July of 1774, our forefathers met in Fairfax County, Va., and considered ways of forcing Great Britain to redress American grievances. George Washington and George Mason were the instrumental agents in drafting what has come to be known as the "Fairfax Resolves."
Ponder for a moment Resolves five and six:
"Resolved that the claim lately assumed and exercised by the British Parliament, of making all such Laws as they think fit, to govern the people of these colonies, contrary to the first Principles of the Constitution, and the original Compacts by which we are dependent upon the British Crown and Government; but is totally incompatible with the privileges of a free people, and the natural Rights of Mankind; will render our own Legislatures merely nominal and nugatory, and is calculated to reduce us from a state of freedom and happiness to slavery and misery."
"Resolved that Taxation and Representation are in their nature inseparable; that the right of withholding, or of giving and granting their own money is the only effectual security to a free people, against the encroachments of Despotism and Tyranny; and that whenever they yield to one they fall prey to the other."
All of the Resolves are loaded with bullets that explode against a tyrannical and despotic government. The "shot that was heard around the world on Lexington green was loaded in the "Fairfax Resolves." How can one make that statement? After pleading with George III to uphold his covenant agreement and after seeking for a redress of grievances, the "coup de grace" is plainly stated in the 23rd Resolve:
"Resolved that it be recommended to the Deputies of the general Congress to draw up and transmit an humble and dutiful petition and remonstrance to his Majesty, asserting with decent firmness our just and constitutional Rights and Privileges, lamenting the fatal necessity of being compelled to enter into measures disgusting to his Majesty and his Parliament, or injurious to our fellow subjects in Great Britain; declaring the strongest terms of duty and affection to his Majesty's person, family and government, and our desire to continue our dependence upon Great Britain; and must humbly beseeching his Majesty, not to reduce his faithful subjects of America to a state of desperation, and to reflect, that from our Sovereign there can be but one appeal."
In simple terms, the Resolves offered George III two obvious choices. One was to fulfill his covenant obligations and be the king and ruler to the American Colonies that he had agreed to be or, second, to prepare for war. George III was asked to reflect upon the fact, that if he did not keep his end of the covenant, there could "be but one appeal."
Last --and most important -- it is not biblical. Daniel disobeyed Darius and went to the lions den. The three Hebrew children broke the law for not bowing. The parents hid baby Moses from Pharaoh. Rahab lied to protect the Hebrew spies. The Apostles went to prison for preaching Christ in the authority of Heaven. Paul and his followers in Acts 17 did contrary to all the decrees of Caesar in order to make Jesus the King. Even Jesus lived in direct opposition of the political religious leaders of his day and went to the cross for us.
Romans 13 is a treatise by Paul and the Apostles on the institution of model government. As we rightly divide the word of truth and take this passage in its total context, we will discover seven truths:
1. Good government is ordained by God.
2. Government officials are to be good ministers who represent God.
3. We the people must obey good and godly laws.
4. As we relate Romans 13 to America, our Constitution is the higher power -- not the IRS tax code.
5. Good government is not to be feared.
6. In America, we are to pay honor and custom and constitutional taxes to whom it is due.
7. Government is to protect the righteous and punish the wicked.
As a result, we have a practical, historical and biblical mandate to fervently disobey any unconstitutional laws and all government officials who cease to be good ministers of Jesus Christ. God almighty is the only power that deserves unlimited obedience.
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And not to derail this thread, but between private research and my legal education, I can tell you that even IF Romans 13 was to be taken literally, it was written in a time that does not apply to us today in the USA because no nation like the USA existed when Romans was written. In America, we are a republic. The full sovereign power of America is vested in THE PEOPLE, not any institution of government. The Constitution of the united States is the FOUNDATION of our system of government and the highest authority. Anything that exists in contradiction to the Constitution is invalid as a matter of law. Elected and appointed officials exist as servants of the people...possessing only the ENUMERATED powers needed to do the task for which they hold office, and they are accountable to THE PEOPLE. So, even if Romans 13 was to be taken literally, YOU and I would be the highest authority, not the President, not the Congress, not the courts.
And that the US Government is doing many, many things that blatantly contradict the Constitutional limits on its authority means that there is no moral obligation to render fealty to the state. America embraces the "social contract" theory of governance. There is a deal between the governed and the governing authority. Loyalty in exchange for the faithful performance of duties. Just as the Founding Fathers rebelled against the Crown because it had ceased performing its obligations to the colonists, we now have a government that holds that it owes no duty to the people at large. The contract is broken, and no duty of loyalty is required until the contract is restored.
I'll help where I can.
Churches that adhere to "holiness standards" seek to live as priests to Jesus Christ....a devout walk with God. I suppose you can say all should be doing that, but I find that the more one grows as a Christian, the more devout they become...it's not something you can do by just following rules. I'm not surprised that many Christians from these churches wind up falling away....too much pressure to be something that hasn't developed naturally. Some churches have learned to not push people, but to encourage natural growth...some have not.
Sounds like you are in a poor church for your needs. I know it sounds sanctimonious, but I've always denounced the "social gospel" (doing good works, helping the poor and needy, etc.) as heresy, because God supplies all needs, and while is it a good thing to help those in need, the first and foremost priority for any Christian is to preach the gospel and live as a disciple of Christ. Most places that embrace the social gospel trust good deeds to "win over" people to Christ, but ultimately, all they really do is increase church membership. Those converted know little to nothing about what it means to be Christian.
This is utterly unrealistic: A good government is effective and to be effective it must be feared. Nicolo Machiavelli does describe this mechanism as such in Chapter XVIII of "The Prince":
"Upon this a question arises: whether it be better to be loved than feared or feared than loved? It may be answered that one should wish to be both, but, because it is difficult to unite them in one person, is much safer to be feared than loved, when, of the two, either must be dispensed with. Because this is to be asserted in general of men, that they are ungrateful, fickle, false, cowardly, covetous, and as long as you succeed they are yours entirely; they will offer you their blood, property, life and children, as is said above, when the need is far distant; but when it approaches they turn against you. And that prince who, relying entirely on their promises, has neglected other precautions, is ruined; because friendships that are obtained by payments, and not by greatness or nobility of mind, may indeed be earned, but they are not secured, and in time of need cannot be relied upon; and men have less scruple in offending one who is beloved than one who is feared, for love is preserved by the link of obligation which, owing to the baseness of men, is broken at every opportunity for their advantage; but fear preserves you by a dread of punishment which never fails."
To be good government a government must be brutal to demand absolute obedience to avoid the brutality which will raise without an effective government. A statesman can't afford the luxury of any kind of moral, without ruining the state. This is one of the main reasons why idealistic or religious people are not fit for any higher office. If they pretend to be moral it is fine, if they tell the truth than they are dangerous.
Whoa whoa whoa. King James fries my brain. I recommend the NIV or ESV. Anecdotally, it seems to me that almost all KJV-only churches have major issues, especially in America.
Ah yes Romans 13. I have a sermon series by Phillip Jensen on CD that explains it well. On one level, a literal interpretation of that passage says that we must always obey the President, the law, the police, the judiciary etc. However there is a small distinction between submitting to the authorities and obeying them. He gave the example of some Christian guy who resisted attempts by the Nazis to detain some Jews that he knew where they were, and submitted to the punishment a prison sentence accordingly. However one thing that I disagree with about that article, is their definition of a "good" law or politician is totally subjective. Sure, if you are asked by authority to kill someone or something, you can disobey them and submit to the consequences. But as for the IRS law, I mean come on. It's just tax, get over it.
Having said that, there is no way that the passage permits a distinction between "IRS law" and "Constitutional law". One of the most frustrating things talking some groups of to American Christians is this idea that the US Constitution is somehow "annointed" or has some spiritual power or divine infallibilty or something. That is pure superstition. There are many good things about it, including the fact that it acknowledges God, but it is not infallible.
About "holiness" churches, yes, you are spot on, many fall away when the fail to meet the standards. We don't have that much of a problem with that in Australia, because we don't hype each other up as much, although there are still churches like that. But there is never a church where no-one falls away. We are not perfect.
About my church being poor, it is the best I have ever attended. I whinge about it but many Christians around the world would give an arm and a leg to be in it. You are right that many churches are only interested in increasing membership (and hence offerings) but at my church they have the balance right in that respect in my opinion.
If you think, that the bible is the word of the creator of the universe and most powerful being thinkable, why you do not start to read this text in the original language?
When the bible is of such importance than learning Old Greek or Hebrew should be seen as a minor effort.
Perhaps, but it is an unconstitutional (and hence, illegal) tax, but I won't delve into the details on that as to not derail the thread.
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As you are unfamiliar with American jurisprudence, I'll enlighten all who don't understand the "enshrined" place the Constitution holds for Americans.
In America, as really any nation, there is a hierarchy of law. Primary law is the Constitution of the united States (or if on the state court level, the state's constitution). Secondary law is the codified or statutory law. Tertiary law are things like court rulings (as the practice of stare decisis requires that future rulings adhere to the rulings of previously decided cases where the legal facts are identical), and last are treatises, scholarly works and rulings from other jurisdictions which can influence, but do not mandate, how a court should decide an issue before the bar.
So, laws cannot contradict the Constitution. If the Constitution is in need of change, there is a complex prescribed process that allows for change if enough of American society wants that change to be imposed. Any other way of changing the Constitution is illegal.
This is done because without a firm foundation, no system of law can stand for very long against the temporary whims of the masses. Without consistency, a nation falls.
Much of what is going on today in America is in blatant contradiction to the Constitution as it was implemented when first created. All efforts to "legitimize" these departures do not conform to the specific methodology proscribed in the Constitution itself. Hence, it is all illegitimate. The government itself routinely acts with blatant disregard for the content of the Constitution on a regular basis, and this is a hotly contested matter for both Christians and non-Christians alike who value individual freedom and liberty.
Sorry if I came across wrong. Your post seemed to indicate that your needs weren't being met where you were at. I must have misunderstood what you wrote.
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