zacb wrote:
To reply to the first post: in other words, treat it like two people living together. I imagine there would need to be some contracts, but they could be handled apart from marriage. So basically, the only thing amarriage would mean would be commitment, gay, straight, or otherwise. So basically, with the exception of property and other matters which would require contracts, just leave it alone.
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Are you from a non English speaking country?
It was your choice of word -not what you're saying- that puzzled me.
I think that you meant "marriage should be a private DEAL", not "ORDEAL".
A 'deal' is an agreement. An "Ordeal" is a bad experience ( I hope that you're aware of that).
Calling it an '"Ordeal" struck my funny bone.
But I couldnt tell whether you MEANT it to be funny or not ( or whether it was a typo or what).
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