ruveyn wrote:
ArrantPariah wrote:
She isn't going to come out and say "Consign the non-virtuous elderly to the gutter!" When you work through her logic, what other conclusion exists?
Several other conclusions. The major conclusion as that the children of a family take care of their elders. It is not the proper function of society at large or the State.
Mom and Dad brought us up. The least we can do is see to their needs when they are old. How is that for a conclusion?
ruveyn
Given our society's penchant for individualism, I really don't think that many of us would go in for that.
In the book that I mentioned above, one huge source of conflict in Thai-American marriages is that the Thai wife sees it as her duty to provide the highest possible standard of living for her parents, while the American husband would prefer not to see his wealth and income depleted to support his wife's parents. The American outlook is "no-one is ever going to take care of me. So, I don't want to take care of anyone else."
Moreover, in the Thai system, one regards one's children as investments. Thus, a big incentive to produce a large family. In America, there really is no financial incentive to reproduce.
I don't think that you will find Mrs. O'Connor stating anywhere that people are under any obligation, moral or otherwise, to take care of their elders. Only if people wish to do so, and only if they deem their parents sufficiently "virtuous." In Thailand: your dad might have beaten you, raped you, and sold you to a brothel, but you still have a moral obligation to support him financially.
Supposedly, the Libertarians prize Independence over Inter-Dependence. Taking care of one's parents would intrude upon the value of Independence.
I think that "Children should support the parents" would be the wrong conclusion to read into Mrs. O'Connor's writing, because, for one thing, Americans just aren't going to do this. It ends up being a convenient code word for "the government shouldn't support the old farts" and, if either the children don't want them or they haven't reproduced, then they ought to die in the gutter.