Hi naturalplastic,
The issue isn't interest in anime or in Japan, but problematic attitudes and behaviors toward Japan and Japanese and other Asians. In an earlier post in the thread, I posted links to examples from Asians where others engaged in problematic behavior towards them. A lot of this has roots in Orientalism, the belief that those in the East are mystic, exotic, and inscrutable, as well as backward; Asian-Americans are treated as perpetual foreigners in the United States. The subject does take some time to absorb. The first post on this page gives a good intro:
http://weeaboo-stories.tumblr.com/
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