Whatever compelled you to apologize----manners / morals / whatever----was what I was trying to get the OP to stop and think about, with my comment (except, in regard to LoveNotHate).
_________________ White female; age 59; diagnosed Aspie. I use caps for emphasis----I'm NOT angry or shouting. I use caps like others use italics, underline, or bold. "What we know is a drop; what we don't know, is an ocean." (Sir Isaac Newton)