With all this talk of meditation, I tried it a few days ago. I sat in the middle of my room, turned off the lights, closed the blinds, and tried to clear my mind and focus. This sounded contradictory, but I was determined to feel at least something. I read somewhere that you need to repeatedly whisper a single word to yourself, since it helps clear your mind. The word I chose was "shalom" (Hebrew for "peace"). Being a Hebrew word, it has overtones of Judaism, which I thought would be helpful. In the end, I achieved nothing, only gave myself a light headache. So I went outside into my yard, smoked a cigarette, and when I was done, I felt much better that I did throughout the whole meditation process.
So can someone describe step-by-step, in techinical detail, how I can actually do this elusive thing called meditation? I'm getting very frustrated. 