innov79 wrote:
For those of you that dont know, to be teetotal means that you dont consume alcohol. It just seems like with the execption of my mom and 2 of my friends most people I know drink, and not to sound 'holier-than-thou' but it saddens me, espically when I find out someone close to me starts doing it after telling me a few months/weeks prior that theyd never do it, it just really dissapoints/hurts me. Beacuse ive seen what it does.
Same here. And it's not holier than thou from my angle either (or so I think!), I've lived in the same ROOM as two adults who were drug addicts/alcholics/chainsmokers (who happened to be my parents!
). Still, I don't think even THAT was what turned me off from these things. To me, it feels as if it's deeper inside, doesn't feel like any "rational" thing, just something that I know is deeply wrong. The reason I think this? Because it's the smell/taste of any of those things that offends me, the sight of them being consumed does not however. I've known many a "recreational" drug user, and most of my friends drink/smoke, so I've no problem with the practice, just the stuff inside me is what turns my stomach... Nobody I know has "crossed over," so I can't say I know anything about the disappointment you feel there. Hope not to however.
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