are Christians meaner?
Massive generalizations to follow. Obviously there are exceptions to every rule.
Christians tend to be close-minded and judgmental. So long as you're playing by their rules and don't make any waves, they're very nice. However, if you don't play their game, or offer an alternative of any sort to their well-entrenched world view, that will change.
Beyond that, many Christians are dealing with issues that the secular don't have to deal with. A constant battle between being themselves and being what Christianity wants them to be causes personality issues. Now, I've seen dysfunctional personalities all over, but none more so than in young Christian girls. They are fighting a crazy battle with the sexual repression heaped upon them, whereas I'm sure boys experience this to some extent, I imagine it is not on the same level.
Are Christians meaner? It depends on which Christians. I fell in with a particular band of them in college in the '80s, and they turned out to be narrow-minded and mean. Do I think that group represents all Christians? No.
I just saw a study somewhere that the more people go to church, the 'nicer' they tend to be ... this study wasn't just looking at Christianity, but all religions.
The results might be related to a self-segregating principle ... people that are social or outgoing might tend to go to religious meetings more often. But I think that there could more to it - being around people that give time and money to charity and who interact with each other nicely can make a person more altruistic. Spending more time thinking about goodness, which many religionists do, can also change the mind and the brain.
Another study showed that the more 'Christian' a person in the US is, the more likely they are to support torture! Looking at the details, it seemed that this was due mostly to the born-again/fundamentalist wing of Christianity, which has grown over past decades. People in mainstream Christian groups were not any more likely than non-religious people to support torture.
It showed that just over six in 10 white evangelical Protestants say that the use of torture against suspected terrorists in order to gain important information can be "often" or "sometimes" justified. That is much higher than the number of white Catholics, 51 percent; mainline Protestants, 46 percent; and religiously unaffiliated, 40 percent, who say the technique should be an option in interrogations.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/co ... 03590.html
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