Suppose we switched from Patriarchy to Matriarchy?

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Is our society Patriarchal or Matriarchal?
Competely patriarchal 20%  20%  [ 7 ]
More patriarchal than matriarchal 51%  51%  [ 18 ]
Neither patriarchal nor matriarchal 20%  20%  [ 7 ]
More matriarchal than patriarchal 9%  9%  [ 3 ]
Completely matriarchal 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Total votes : 35

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02 Nov 2012, 5:31 pm

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Being competitive and analytical aren't traits unique to men


Correct. Women ARE competitive; and just as much as men(particularly with each other). Western culture continues to promulgate the silly idea that women are instinctively cooperative and thus socialism is somehow "less masculist". Being analytical really isn't the best way to run a business though.


It's interesting that you should bring that up.

And if you'll indulge my special interest for a moment......

If we look to our closest cousins, the chimpanzees, we find that "social cooperation" is a distinctly MALE trait. Both humans and chimpanzees are unique in the animal kingdom in that, in most other species, males have very little friendly contact, especially with unrelated males. The whole of chimpanzee social structure is essentially based around the male/male bond and their ability to form mutually beneficial alliances in order to achieve political ends. A single male chimpanzee isn't strong enough to hold the position of alpha male" through brute strength alone. The climb to "alpha male" involves social schmoozing, garnering favor with males and females in the troop, and, of course, alliances with other males. The majority of mating opportunities typically go to the most "socially savvy" male who knows how to play the system.

In contrast, female chimps spend the majority of their time alone and have little to do with one another.

Some researchers are of the opinion that "male cooperation" is actually one of the pillars on which human civilization is founded, hence, one of the reason men have traditionally controlled both economic and political power in most societies, and why the majority of business owners and politicians will probably always be men. Part of the explanation for "patriarchy" isn't that men are blood-thirsty, violent, power-mongers, it's that women just happen to utterly suck at working together towards mutual goals.

Speaking from personal experience, I've always found groups of men to be much more efficient and cooperative than groups of women. If I was male, I'd find the attempt to frame "social cooperation" as a "feminine" trait to be sexist and offensive.

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You need to have a certain level of assertiveness and even aggression though because that fuels the competitive drive to push down others to climb up(and by that I do NOT mean physical violence or being confrontational! You can be sly, manipulative, and even passive-aggressive and still run a successful business and I say those traits are probably more useful if you're in the white collar category). The 2 things you need to succeed in the free market: Competitiveness and good social skills.


That's a very astute observation.

Men are only "more violent" if we only take physical aggression into account.

Besides, here's a fun fact: zookeepers have observed that, in captive chimpanzees, while males got into more physical fights, they rarely caused serious injuries to one another. Female chimps didn't engage in physical fights nearly as often, but, when they did, they were much more violent and veterinarians have to be called to treat the resulting potentially life-threatening injuries.

Furthermore, in our other cousins, the bonobo, we see a primarily matriarchal society; however, it's not "non-violent," as it's often billed, just typically less physically violent than chimpanzee society. Bonobo society hardly occupies the "moral high ground," matriarchy or not. Bonobo mothers employ all sorts of political machinations to advance their son's careers, and manipulate their own positions in the dominance hierarchy. Females chase males away from food sources, and physically take food from males if they feel so inclined. Groups of females have also been observed beating males into a bloody pulp to include biting off their fingers.

My point: a "matriarchy" could accommodate good, old-fashioned cut-throat capitalism quite well (and that's not a compliment towards matriarchies).

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Any ZIP code of the form: 972XX. You can also get a Stalking Protective Order against *any* man you dislike(thanks, State of Oregon) and he will be considered guilty of criminal stalking until proven innocent. If your first petition gets rejected there's a feminist community center to coach you as to what to say in order to manipulate a judge.


An excellent example of why painting an entire sex with certain negative attributes is socially toxic.

In this case, that all women are always potential victims, and men are all potential violent offenders.


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02 Nov 2012, 5:45 pm

GGPViper wrote:
I stand corrected. And I deeply apologize for offending the entire biological establishment by not accepting www.biology-online.org as the highest authority in this particular field. I promise I shall never again make the mistake of... hey, wait a minute :!:.

dude, it's the internet. You want better citations for biological definitions? Fine:
Ecology, 4th Edition; Charles J. Krebs
glossary definition, dominance: condition in communities or in vegetational strata in which one or more species, by means of their number, coverage, or size, have considerable influence upon or control of the conditions of existence of associated species.
No glossary or index entry for 'superior' or 'superiority.'
Vertebrate Live, 4th edition; F. Harvey Pough, John B. Heiser, and William N. McFarland.
no glossary entries for dominance or superiority; index entry for 'dominance heirarchy' leads to a discussion on matrilineages in Macaques and Vervet Monkeys; no index entry for 'superior' or 'superiority.'.
Genetics, 2nd edition; Robert F. Weaver, Philip W. Hedrick.
glossary entry for 'dominant:' an allele or trait that expresses its phenotype when heterozygous with a recessive allele; for example, A is dominant over a because the phenotypes of AA and Aa are the same.
No glossary or index entry for 'superior' or 'superiority.'
Animal Physiology: Mechanisms and Adaptations, 5th edition; David Randall, Warren Burggren, Kathleen French.
no glossary or index entry for 'dominant' or 'dominance;' no glossary entry for 'superior' or 'superiority;' index entries related to 'superiority' show only 'superior culliculus,' an anatomic description.
Introduction to Microbiology, 2nd edtition; John L. Ingraham, Catherine A. Ingraham.
No glossary or index entries for 'dominant,' 'dominance,' 'superior,' or 'superiority.'

Those are the books I can reach without leaving my chair. I could give you a dozen others (and in proper citation format) if I gave enough of a damn. I'm not a PhD, but I've read a hell of a lot of biology books cover-to-cover, talked to a lot of PhD biology professors (including specifically about these terms), and graduated with a degree in biology. I suspect if you asked the authors you cited about their use of the term 'superior,' they would sheepishly admit that they had other, more important things on their minds in getting the paper published and used the term coloquially without thinking.



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02 Nov 2012, 5:55 pm

LKL wrote:
GGPViper wrote:
I stand corrected. And I deeply apologize for offending the entire biological establishment by not accepting www.biology-online.org as the highest authority in this particular field. I promise I shall never again make the mistake of... hey, wait a minute :!:.

dude, it's the internet. You want better citations? Fine:
Ecology, 4th Edition; Charles J. Krebs
glossary definition, dominance: condition in communities or in vegetational strata in which one or more species, by means of their number, coverage, or size, have considerable influence upon or control of the conditions of existence of associated species.
No glossary or index entry for 'superior' or 'superiority.'
Vertebrate Live, 4th edition; F. Harvey Pough, John B. Heiser, and William N. McFarland.
no glossary entries for dominance or superiority; index entry for 'dominance heirarchy' leads to a discussion on matrilineages in Macaques and Vervet Monkeys; no index entry for 'superior' or 'superiority.'.
Genetics, 2nd edition; Robert F. Weaver, Philip W. Hedrick.
glossary entry for 'dominant:' an allele or trait that expresses its phenotype when heterozygous with a recessive allele; for example, A is dominant over a because the phenotypes of AA and Aa are the same.
No glossary or index entry for 'superior' or 'superiority.'
Animal Physiology: Mechanisms and Adaptations, 5th edition; David Randall, Warren Burggren, Kathleen French.
no glossary or index entry for 'dominant' or 'dominance;' no glossary entry for 'superior' or 'superiority;' index entries related to 'superiority' show only 'superior culliculus,' an anatomic description.
Introduction to Microbiology, 2nd edtition; John L. Ingraham, Catherine A. Ingraham.
No glossary or index entries for 'dominant,' 'dominance,' 'superior,' or 'superiority.'

Those are the books I can reach without leaving my chair. I could give you a dozen others (and in proper citation format) if I gave enough of a damn. I'm not a PhD, but I've read a hell of a lot of biology books cover-to-cover, talked to a lot of PhD biology professors (including specifically about these terms), and graduated with a degree in biology. I suspect if you asked the authors you cited about their use of the term 'superior,' they would sheepishly admit that they had other, more important things on their minds in getting the paper published and used the term coloquially without thinking.


And, the last time I checked, pointing out examples of people using a particular word incorrectly didn't prove that the word wasn't being used incorrectly, even if the people using the word incorrectly happened to be biologists.

If language worked like that, we'd have to re-write the entire dictionary every time a high school freshmen turned in a term paper.

People using a word incorrectly doesn't do didley to change the actual and correct meaning of the word in question.


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02 Nov 2012, 6:03 pm

LKL wrote:
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DerStadtschutz wrote:
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It has nothing to do with "Aspergers."


I also mentioned the fact that SARCASM is detected in voice by TONE, of which there isn't any because this forum exists in TEXT form.

Also, this: http://ezinearticles.com/?Aspergers-Syn ... id=1630591

"Aspergers kids often have challenges in the communications area. A major reason for an Aspie's difficulties with social functioning is the lack of understanding of subtle social cues and patterns of speech, such as SARCASM."


"Tone" most certainly exists in "text form."

You get to spend whole classes learning about "tone" in essays when you take upper-level literature courses.

But I forgive you for your meltdown. Happens to the best of us.

Good night.


No, tone, in the context of sound, does NOT exist in text form because text cannot be heard... Or am I just the only human on earth who doesn't somehow HEAR TEXT?

The more you take XFG's BS srsly, the more she will troll you with inane sarcasm. Try giving her the virtual silent treatment: Women hate it when you ignore them as they need constant attention. :wink:


For the sake of education and in my continuing efforts to stomp out illiteracy...

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The use of tone is a literary technique that is part of a composition. It encompasses the attitudes toward the subject and sometimes toward the audience. It may refer to the entire piece of literature or to a specific character, place or development. Tone is also sometimes described as the author's feelings towards the subject instead of what the reader feels. It may also describe the author's
feelings towards the readers. It is through tone that the attitude and mood of a work are created and presented.


http://www.reference.com/motif/Literatu ... erary-tone

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02 Nov 2012, 6:09 pm

LKL wrote:
GGPViper wrote:
I stand corrected. And I deeply apologize for offending the entire biological establishment by not accepting www.biology-online.org as the highest authority in this particular field. I promise I shall never again make the mistake of... hey, wait a minute :!:.

dude, it's the internet. You want better citations for biological definitions? Fine:
Ecology, 4th Edition; Charles J. Krebs
glossary definition, dominance: condition in communities or in vegetational strata in which one or more species, by means of their number, coverage, or size, have considerable influence upon or control of the conditions of existence of associated species.
No glossary or index entry for 'superior' or 'superiority.'
Vertebrate Live, 4th edition; F. Harvey Pough, John B. Heiser, and William N. McFarland.
no glossary entries for dominance or superiority; index entry for 'dominance heirarchy' leads to a discussion on matrilineages in Macaques and Vervet Monkeys; no index entry for 'superior' or 'superiority.'.
Genetics, 2nd edition; Robert F. Weaver, Philip W. Hedrick.
glossary entry for 'dominant:' an allele or trait that expresses its phenotype when heterozygous with a recessive allele; for example, A is dominant over a because the phenotypes of AA and Aa are the same.
No glossary or index entry for 'superior' or 'superiority.'
Animal Physiology: Mechanisms and Adaptations, 5th edition; David Randall, Warren Burggren, Kathleen French.
no glossary or index entry for 'dominant' or 'dominance;' no glossary entry for 'superior' or 'superiority;' index entries related to 'superiority' show only 'superior culliculus,' an anatomic description.
Introduction to Microbiology, 2nd edtition; John L. Ingraham, Catherine A. Ingraham.
No glossary or index entries for 'dominant,' 'dominance,' 'superior,' or 'superiority.'

Those are the books I can reach without leaving my chair. I could give you a dozen others (and in proper citation format) if I gave enough of a damn. I'm not a PhD, but I've read a hell of a lot of biology books cover-to-cover, talked to a lot of PhD biology professors (including specifically about these terms), and graduated with a degree in biology. I suspect if you asked the authors you cited about their use of the term 'superior,' they would sheepishly admit that they had other, more important things on their minds in getting the paper published and used the term coloquially without thinking.


Apparently a few other people used the term colloquially without thinking as well.

http://scholar.google.no/scholar?start= ... as_sdt=0,5

http://scholar.google.no/scholar?start= ... as_sdt=0,5

http://scholar.google.no/scholar?q=%22s ... _sdt=0%2C5

All of those are obviously not relevant but quite a few are.



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02 Nov 2012, 6:27 pm

Looking at the first few references for each page:

TM wrote:
http://scholar.google.no/scholar?start=20&q=superior+genetics&hl=en&as_sdt=0,5

superior is being used as a technological term, not a biological one.

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http://scholar.google.no/scholar?start=20&q=superior+biology&hl=en&as_sdt=0,5

anatomical definitions and a discussion of eugenics.

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http://scholar.google.no/scholar?q=%22superior+genes%22&btnG=&hl=en&as_sdt=0%2C5

'superior' used in the context of 'more fit,' which is the closest you've come to a relevant use of the term (though still imprecise).



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02 Nov 2012, 6:27 pm

LKL wrote:
GGPViper wrote:
I stand corrected. And I deeply apologize for offending the entire biological establishment by not accepting www.biology-online.org as the highest authority in this particular field. I promise I shall never again make the mistake of... hey, wait a minute :!:.

dude, it's the internet. You want better citations for biological definitions? Fine:
Ecology, 4th Edition; Charles J. Krebs
glossary definition, dominance: condition in communities or in vegetational strata in which one or more species, by means of their number, coverage, or size, have considerable influence upon or control of the conditions of existence of associated species.
No glossary or index entry for 'superior' or 'superiority.'
Vertebrate Live, 4th edition; F. Harvey Pough, John B. Heiser, and William N. McFarland.
no glossary entries for dominance or superiority; index entry for 'dominance heirarchy' leads to a discussion on matrilineages in Macaques and Vervet Monkeys; no index entry for 'superior' or 'superiority.'.
Genetics, 2nd edition; Robert F. Weaver, Philip W. Hedrick.
glossary entry for 'dominant:' an allele or trait that expresses its phenotype when heterozygous with a recessive allele; for example, A is dominant over a because the phenotypes of AA and Aa are the same.
No glossary or index entry for 'superior' or 'superiority.'
Animal Physiology: Mechanisms and Adaptations, 5th edition; David Randall, Warren Burggren, Kathleen French.
no glossary or index entry for 'dominant' or 'dominance;' no glossary entry for 'superior' or 'superiority;' index entries related to 'superiority' show only 'superior culliculus,' an anatomic description.
Introduction to Microbiology, 2nd edtition; John L. Ingraham, Catherine A. Ingraham.
No glossary or index entries for 'dominant,' 'dominance,' 'superior,' or 'superiority.'

Those are the books I can reach without leaving my chair. I could give you a dozen others (and in proper citation format) if I gave enough of a damn. I'm not a PhD, but I've read a hell of a lot of biology books cover-to-cover, talked to a lot of PhD biology professors (including specifically about these terms), and graduated with a degree in biology. I suspect if you asked the authors you cited about their use of the term 'superior,' they would sheepishly admit that they had other, more important things on their minds in getting the paper published and used the term colloquially without thinking.


And you can post 5,891 articles covering the works of 25 Nobel laureates, and I would still win this discussion because I have already demonstrated that your definition of "superiority/inferiority" and "dominance" is not universally shared by biologists. And thus, your claim lacks empirical validity.

This claim:

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Note that there is NO definition relevant to this discussion, because real biologists do not speak in terms of 'superiority' as being anything other than location.


.. is false unless you claim that the authors of my previously posted are not biologists (and by your own admission, they are more scientifically qualified than you in the field of biology)... regardless of how many books you can reach without leaving your chair.



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02 Nov 2012, 6:32 pm

GGPViper wrote:
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Note that there is NO definition relevant to this discussion, because real biologists do not speak in terms of 'superiority' as being anything other than location.


.. is false unless you claim that the authors of my previously posted are not biologists (and by your own admission, they are more scientifically qualified than you in the field of biology)... regardless of how many books you can reach without leaving your chair.

Hmm, you do have a point. I will rephrase:

Note that there is NO definition relevant to this discussion, because real biologists do not speak in terms of 'superiority' as being anything other than location, except when they are being careless with their terms.

feel better?



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02 Nov 2012, 6:39 pm

LKL wrote:
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Note that there is NO definition relevant to this discussion, because real biologists do not speak in terms of 'superiority' as being anything other than location.


.. is false unless you claim that the authors of my previously posted are not biologists (and by your own admission, they are more scientifically qualified than you in the field of biology)... regardless of how many books you can reach without leaving your chair.

Hmm, you do have a point. I will rephrase:

Note that there is NO definition relevant to this discussion, because real biologists do not speak in terms of 'superiority' as being anything other than location, except when they are being careless with their terms.

feel better?


Yes, I feel better knowing that a random poster on WP considers herself superior to the work of full time scientists in the field of biology.

Peer review > PPR debate.

Oh, and I am still waiting for an elaboration on the "evo-psych BS" part...



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02 Nov 2012, 7:15 pm

At this point its hard to tell. I think its still very patriarchal, but I don't think we should shift to absolute matriarchy anymore than absolute patriarchy. What we really need is balance. Part of the reason why I think there's so many relationship issues is we've neglected the feminine for so long that men project too many expectations onto women, as some sort of demi-god in the flesh, to fulfill the role of divine femininity that's currently lacking in the western psyche. I'm all for the return of Gaia, but that doesn't mean I want Poseidon has to leave.



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02 Nov 2012, 7:25 pm

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That's what I say. Feminists want all the freedom and rights that men do, but none of the responsibilities. A man in our society has greater expectations, more responsibility, and less sympathy.


Please send me the address of this magic land.

I'm tired of being expected to work 10-12 hours a day to support myself.

I want some of this free money and the privileged lifestyle all of the other Western women supposedly have.


This. Pray tell me where this magic world is where I'll get free privileges and no dangers.


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02 Nov 2012, 7:41 pm

I think if a matriarchy actually existed most men would find it awesome.



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02 Nov 2012, 8:25 pm

Here where I live there is sort of a Matriarchy,it's the Grannies,no one opposes a Granny,never.And they are tough as old tree roots,the man at the hardware store told me a teenager broke into his Grandma's house,the lady weighs 90lbs dripping wet,the burglar was unarmed(and stupid),Granny got to the cast iron skillet,the burglar left in an ambulance.



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02 Nov 2012, 8:40 pm

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Here where I live there is sort of a Matriarchy,it's the Grannies,no one opposes a Granny,never.And they are tough as old tree roots,the man at the hardware store told me a teenager broke into his Grandma's house,the lady weighs 90lbs dripping wet,the burglar was unarmed(and stupid),Granny got to the cast iron skillet,the burglar left in an ambulance.


It's a bit like that here; the women are tough because they have to be. They have to do all the housework and work full time. The men have an 'old fashioned' laziness when it comes to the details of living, especially with the household funds, so the women manage that. Having to do everything does not mean you are in charge, though. They do become very intimidating, powerful people when they're older, but that's after a lifetime of drudgery.



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02 Nov 2012, 8:40 pm

mechanicalgirl39 wrote:
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That's what I say. Feminists want all the freedom and rights that men do, but none of the responsibilities. A man in our society has greater expectations, more responsibility, and less sympathy.


Please send me the address of this magic land.

I'm tired of being expected to work 10-12 hours a day to support myself.

I want some of this free money and the privileged lifestyle all of the other Western women supposedly have.


This. Pray tell me where this magic world is where I'll get free privileges and no dangers.


Norway.

Or, if you live to be 70, then you can get your social security.



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02 Nov 2012, 9:38 pm

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I'm not giving you sh** because you misinterpreted something; I do the same thing all the time. I'm giving you sh** because you're pretending that your point was something other than what it was (that 'tone' does not exist in text), and then doubling down on it when you've been called to the floor.

If you are making the claim that "tone" does not exist in text by saying that "tone" is strictly an audio characteristic, you are redefining tone as strictly an audio characteristc - not clarifying your prior statement.


So now you think you can read my mind too... What the f**k ever.

tone   [tohn] noun, verb, toned, ton·ing.
noun
1.
any sound considered with reference to its quality, pitch, strength, source, etc.: shrill tones.
2.
quality or character of sound.
3.
vocal sound; the sound made by vibrating muscular bands in the larynx.
4.
a particular quality, way of sounding, modulation, or intonation of the voice as expressive of some meaning, feeling, spirit, etc.: a tone of command.
5.
an accent peculiar to a person, people, locality, etc., or a characteristic mode of sounding words in speech.

OH LOOK, according to, oh, I dunno, just the f*****g DICTIONARY, TONE has to do with SOUND, which is how I was using it. I can't detect changes in the sound of one's voice thru text. SHOW ME SOMEONE WHO CAN.

Now who's redefining what?