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19 Aug 2008, 10:33 pm

corroonb wrote:
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so by your logic 2 men or 2 women can't get married because its said its a man and woman
then change it, seriously
before the bigot christians came homosexuality was widly accepted
look at rome
perfect example, god its pointless arguing with bigots


You are quite correct.

Why is homosexuality wrong? Who does it hurt? What evil does it create?


[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U0kJHQpvgB8[/youtube]



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19 Aug 2008, 10:35 pm

Kilroy wrote:
its not

no one

none


Thank you. I am satisfied.



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19 Aug 2008, 10:58 pm

Fidget wrote:
intolerance.



nah, just irrationality due to acute ignorance and disconnect from reality.



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19 Aug 2008, 10:59 pm

Kilroy wrote:
so by your logic 2 men or 2 women can't get married because its said its a man and woman
then change it, seriously
before the bigot christians came homosexuality was widly accepted
look at rome
perfect example, god its pointless arguing with bigots


No, what I am saying is that the word "marriage" has religious connotations, and for the government to interfere and redefine it is intolerable. I did point out an alternative terminology that would be more palatable.

You are correct that many civilizations in the past have accepted homosexuality. However, that is hardly a compelling argument. Many civilizations in the past have also accepted cannibalism, torture, and many other despicable acts. I am not saying that homosexuality is in the same category as those two, I am merely attempting to point out that the fact that several civilizations have accepted or condone a practice does not make said practice a good one.

As for the bigotry claim, I am attempting to lay out my viewpoints in a clear and concise manner. I always attempt to listen to the arguments of others, and am well able to distinguish between the validity of their arguments, and my viewpoint of their position. There is always a small chance that I may convince you, or you may convince me. Regardless, a good discussion may be had. 8)


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19 Aug 2008, 11:02 pm

QuantumCowboy wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
so by your logic 2 men or 2 women can't get married because its said its a man and woman
then change it, seriously
before the bigot christians came homosexuality was widly accepted
look at rome
perfect example, god its pointless arguing with bigots


No, what I am saying is that the word "marriage" has religious connotations, and for the government to interfere and redefine it is intolerable. I did point out an alternative terminology that would be more palatable.

You are correct that many civilizations in the past have accepted homosexuality. However, that is hardly a compelling argument. Many civilizations in the past have also accepted cannibalism, torture, and many other despicable acts. I am not saying that homosexuality is in the same category as those two, I am merely attempting to point out that the fact that several civilizations have accepted or condone a practice does not make said practice a good one.

As for the bigotry claim, I am attempting to lay out my viewpoints in a clear and concise manner. I always attempt to listen to the arguments of others, and am well able to distinguish between the validity of their arguments, and my viewpoint of their position. There is always a small chance that I may convince you, or you may convince me. Regardless, a good discussion may be had. 8)


Why is homosexuality wrong? What harm does it do?

Please answer these questions, if you can.



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19 Aug 2008, 11:13 pm

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same-sex relationships (which I do not think should happen, as there is no chance of reproduction)


So, what's your view on infertile women? Do they have the right to get married? Oh, I suppose that's not natural either, they're lying! Because God would never naturally make a creature not meant to reproduce right? :roll: I don't consider your viewpoint "hate speech" as you say, but I do consider it intolerance.


Why are you attempting to put words into my mouth? I never said that infertile woman should not be married. Of course God creates infertile women, and it is natural. To think anything else would be simply denying what is in front of one's eyes. For infertile women, there is always a chance of conception (I have seen it happen), there is also adoption. In addition, some married couples decide not to have children.

One must also remember, that these are my personal viewpoints rather than my opinion on what society should do. Even if I had total power to create and enforce laws, I would not do so for many of my viewpoints. Just as I do not take kindly to others commanding me in regards to my own life, I assume others are like minded. I can respect others for having a differing viewpoint.


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19 Aug 2008, 11:30 pm

QuantumCowboy wrote:
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same-sex relationships (which I do not think should happen, as there is no chance of reproduction)


So, what's your view on infertile women? Do they have the right to get married? Oh, I suppose that's not natural either, they're lying! Because God would never naturally make a creature not meant to reproduce right? :roll: I don't consider your viewpoint "hate speech" as you say, but I do consider it intolerance.


Why are you attempting to put words into my mouth? I never said that infertile woman should not be married. Of course God creates infertile women, and it is natural. To think anything else would be simply denying what is in front of one's eyes. For infertile women, there is always a chance of conception (I have seen it happen), there is also adoption. In addition, some married couples decide not to have children.


And homosexuals can't adopt? Your last sentence is just proving my point further which is you saying same sex relationships shouldn't happen because there is no chance of reproduction doesn't make any sense, as there are many couples who don't want to have a baby, and there are many infertile women as well as men. But, it is your view and as you said you're entitled to it, and you most likely are not going to change it.



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19 Aug 2008, 11:43 pm

Fidget wrote:
And homosexuals can't adopt?



cue responses along the lines of: a. they'll sexually molest the kids; b. they'll turn the kids gay; c. two people of the same sex can't raise normal kids.


or a variant thereof.



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20 Aug 2008, 3:18 am

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For infertile women, there is always a chance of conception (I have seen it happen)...


You may have seen it happen in one case, but that does not mean that there is "always" a chance. Some women are born without uteri. Some women have gyn problems that require their uterus to be removed. There's no chance in heaven or hell that these women will conceive. Likewise, some men are infertile beyond even the remote possibility of conception.



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20 Aug 2008, 5:29 am

iamnotaparakeet wrote:
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Jesus did not die on the cross only for straight people. He died for ALL of us, all mankind. Gay, straight, white, black, asian, everybody.


Is this what the Bible teaches? Unrepentant homosexuals, liars, thieves, etc. are forgiven and will dwell with God for eternity?


No, no, no! If you don't repent, you will not be forgiven of your sins and you will not dwell with God for eternity. Unrepetant people commit the one unpardonable sin.



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20 Aug 2008, 5:35 am

slowmutant wrote:
iamnotaparakeet wrote:
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Jesus did not die on the cross only for straight people. He died for ALL of us, all mankind. Gay, straight, white, black, asian, everybody.


Is this what the Bible teaches? Unrepentant homosexuals, liars, thieves, etc. are forgiven and will dwell with God for eternity?


No, no, no! If you don't repent, you will not be forgiven of your sins and you will not dwell with God for eternity. Unrepetant people commit the one unpardonable sin.


How does God know if one truly repents? Can he read minds? Isn't making judgments on our behaviour a violation of our free will? Does god force people to go to Heaven or Hell? What if you want to cease to exist?

When I die, I hope my existence will cease. I do not wish to be disembodied. I think my will in this regard should be respected by all.

Again why is homosexuality bad? What harm does it do?



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20 Aug 2008, 5:44 am

n4mwd wrote:
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In your opinion is homosexuality a bad thing??

Did any religious beliefs influence your answer?

For me homosexuality is not a bad thing and yes a religious belief did influence by answer, I am a christian and I study my bible and I have yet to see anything that says anything bad about homosexuality. I have seen a lot of stuff twisted into meaning one thing when its real meaning is something totally different.


You are correct. People are born gay just like people are born aspies. You are what you are. Jesus never said anything bad about gays.

PS: Anyone who says that being gay is a choice, then prove it. Have sex with a gay man and truly enjoy it. When you're done, you can switch back to heterosexual. That offer has been on the table for years, but I know of nobody who has accepted the challenge.


It's more a dare than it is a challenege. I wouldn't eat my own feces just because someone "challenged" me to. Get real!



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20 Aug 2008, 5:52 am

corroonb wrote:
How does God know if one truly repents? Can he read minds? Isn't making judgments on our behaviour a violation of our free will? Does god force people to go to Heaven or Hell? What if you want to cease to exist?


God knows. He knows when you've been bad or good, sleeping or awake. Since God is omnipotent, He can do a lot more than read minds. :lol: Being judged by God is not a violation of our free will. It's an aftereffect of our free will.

God wants us all to go to Heaven, but if we turn away from Him, we fall short of the mark and choose Hell for ourselves. But we CAN be forgiven for our sins! Jesus died on the cross so that we could be forgiven our sins.

Since you exist now, will you not exist always in one form or another!


Think about it, friend.



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20 Aug 2008, 6:06 am

What if I choose neither Heaven or Hell? What then?



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20 Aug 2008, 6:20 am

[quote="skafather84"]so what is it about a pair of men's lips wrapped around a penis that pisses people off so much? or what about a man fornicating with another man that just makes blood seem to boil so fiercely?[quote]

You've just answered your own question. It's a misuse of sex because sodomy is injurious and makes no anatomical sense. The rectum is a one-way orifice-- exit only! It cannot lubricate itself like the vagina can. And it's too busy excreting solid waste from the end of the digestive tract. Now if every human male had another orifice just above the buttocks, a man-gina at the small of his back in which proper sex could be had ... that would be different.

But we were not created that way.



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20 Aug 2008, 6:42 am

Bonobos engage in homosexual sex as a way of strengthening bonds and reducing tension. They are very peaceful creatures. And they behave "naturally".

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bonobo#Sex ... l_behavior

We are apes from the same family and display many of the same behaviours as chimps and bonobos.