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srriv345 wrote:
Can we stop saying that "family and marriage" have been "true for millenia" if we're not going to acknowledge the many ways in which these concepts have been different across time and location?
No, because if you look at the cultures of the major religions, despite the fact that women were treated like merchandise, dowries, etc. in past ages by certain peoples, a child out of wedlock would have been an outcast. Such a woman who had a child would be considered a whore. Fornication was something severely punished.
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Awesomelyglorious wrote:
greenblue wrote:
Here is the issue about gay marriage and judgements, I can say that most conservative positions about banning gay marriage would come from religious grounds, then the issue here, when it comes to the separation of church and sate, countries like Canada, Spain and others when gay-marriage are pefectly legal have come from that secular position, there my view on this is that of the reason of allowing or not, sex-marriage legally, should be solely based on scientific studies rather than religious grounds when it comes to social issues like human rights, equality, discimination, hate laws, etc. and it is reasonable.
They likely come from religious grounds. Really though, scientific studies don't lead to ethical conclusions. Now, the issue of "should" comes from some ethical grounds. Now, honestly, I disagree with your views in a more liberal manner, but still, the political system is one based upon the choices, on whatever grounds they choose.Yes, scientific studies don't neccesarily lead to ethical conclusions, however, it helps to understand nature and things in a better and the best accurate way possible that let's us evolve and to treat things in a better way, when ethics are established from social changes, etc, Which are not directly linked but I believe it has had something to do with it and it helps, so it must be linked indirectly at least. Do ethics have scientific value? from natural science, perhaps not, but I believe it does when it comes to social science.
I can think of some examples: psychiatry and psychology, science studies gave us a more accurate description and understanding about what happens to people who suffer from mental conditions, therefore, they are getting a treatment that fits more their needs (not 100% perfect of course), if humanity wouldn't have such knowledge and sticked with old traditions like, demonic possesions, then, we can see the difference.
Same issue when it comes to gender, race, and sexual orientation. When the theory of evolution seems to give some explanations about homosexuality, I start to think of the problem of the rejection of evolution from some religious grounds, and when any society or government is based completely and solely on religious dogma with a complete certainty, that is very dangerous. So, secularism works better and give more fairness in my view.
That's why the SHOULD thing, in my post

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oscuria wrote:
Odin wrote:
Oscuria is a perfect example of the dangers of tyranny of the majority. I find these anti-gay marriage referenda and claims of "activist judges flouting the will of the people" extremely disturbing, because when a democratic republic degenerates into a tyranny of the majority a populist dictatorship isn't far behind. Rights exist to protect the minorities and minority opinions from being trampled on by the opinions of the majority.
Beware of Democracy. It might just kill you.
Tyranny of the Majority isn't Democracy, it's a perversion of Democracy.
oscuria wrote:
This still doesn't change that marriage is between man and woman. The practices might have changed throughout the centuries of our existence, but it has not changed the tradition and interpretation of marriage being between a man and woman.
"Marriage" is a social construct and thus it is anything society says it is. Tradition doesn't matter.
Odin wrote:
oscuria wrote:
Odin wrote:
Oscuria is a perfect example of the dangers of tyranny of the majority. I find these anti-gay marriage referenda and claims of "activist judges flouting the will of the people" extremely disturbing, because when a democratic republic degenerates into a tyranny of the majority a populist dictatorship isn't far behind. Rights exist to protect the minorities and minority opinions from being trampled on by the opinions of the majority.
Beware of Democracy. It might just kill you.
Tyranny of the Majority isn't Democracy, it's a perversion of Democracy.
well, tyranny of the majority is pure democracy. the thing is, though, we (the citizens of the USA) AREN'T supposed to be a pure democracy. it's supposed to be guaranteed, inalienable rights granted by the constitution.
oscuria wrote:
1) Voting can settle disputes on that which is acceptable to society. Racism, bigotry, violence is not acceptable. Marriage is not a fundamental right given to people.
Well, racism, bigotry, and violence have been acceptable to society in the past. Are you talking just about what our current society rejects, or are you setting down a general principle for society? The reason I ask is because anything and everything could be considered either acceptable or unacceptable to society from a theoretical standpoint, the issue is what you think about those theoretical problems.
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I actually support taxes. Obviously not heavy taxation however. Drafting makes sense if we are in a time of war and are limited in men. If there was mandatory enlisting I am not too sure if I'd agree with it, but if the government does I wouldn't complain as I wouldn't know anything else.
Umm..... oscuria, I was not just saying "taxes, and drafting", I was saying "taxes and drafting" for causes you don't believe in, for wars you consider unjust or cruel, for policies that go against what you believe in, etc. If it were just taxes and drafts in a very generic sense then all I'd be asking is if you were an anarchist, and I know you aren't.
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Now, it cannot force me to accept people and their wishes. Considering we live in a democracy which allows dissent, my views do not go against any principles.
I know your views are acceptable under the rules of society, and I would not try to argue from such a perspective. Even if your views were illegal, would that mean that you would reject them?
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2) My views do have a moral twist to them (it's hard to find any position that isn't), but I don't advocate forcing people to do what is unacceptable. Minimalizing the sale or consumption of liquor is not going to kill anyone, neither would removing drugs. Marriage is not a life or death situation. Because of such, I will vote for/on what I consider to be a proper issue/response.
Who defines unacceptable? I suppose you have already defined it already as not leading to deaths. By that standard though, would you call for the legalization of a number of illegal drugs in order to stop deaths by drug runners and law breakers? After all, some scholars have concluded that the deaths caused by illegalizing drugs is likely greater than if the drugs were legal.
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3) People consider others with clearly opposite beliefs as "tyrannical" mainly because they do not understand it fully. It is an insult to be considered a tyrant for expressing one's belief. I wouldn't consider far-left liberals tyrants, unless they demanded I remove any trace of religion, or ideologies I hold to.
Well, not necessarily. They consider those with opposite views tyrannical because the views are opposite to them. You are right, the term is thrown around too often by people who fail to recognize the issues of individual liberty disrupted by their own views.
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Not allowing something which has never been an issue before (and has generally been agreed upon) is not my idea of tyranny.
I would say that not allowing something is tyranny in most cases, but as I already stated, tyranny is subjective.
Odin wrote:
"Marriage" is a social construct and thus it is anything society says it is. Tradition doesn't matter.
I'm trying to understand this. What does a society create? What is tradition built upon?
I look towards my Eastern brethren and see nothing but a society enriched by its tradition, its tradition kept alive by its society.
Odin wrote:
Tyranny of the Majority isn't Democracy, it's a perversion of Democracy.
What you are looking for is Polity. Democracy is not pretty. Democracy is not righteous.
You would not hesitate to remove things which are against you, yet you consider me a tyrant.
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oscuria wrote:
Odin wrote:
"Marriage" is a social construct and thus it is anything society says it is. Tradition doesn't matter.
I'm trying to understand this. What does a society create? What is tradition built upon?
"the only tradition that's worth keeping is the one you make up yourself."
-doug stanhope
Awesomelyglorious wrote:
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1) Yes. Violence, racism, and bigotry are things we can fall into any time. I can see right now that many Americans still feel the need to resort to such acts when it concerns an immigrant (muslims, latin americans).
We know that violating a person is a violation of the self, but how can marriage be comparable?
2) I kind of figured, but I went with whatever came to mind first. I don't consider what you are trying to imply related to same-sex marriage. Killing a person or causing poverty is not at all similar to denying an act that is understood to be between a man and a woman.
3) It depends on what the illegality of my view was and how much in control I was over them. I believe drugs should remain illegal but I see no harm in a person smoking marijuana as long as alcohol and tobacco remains free. Either ban the latter the two, or allow the limited use of marijuana. But I personally do not use marijuana.
You must question me on things that are illegal, I try not to break laws.
4) I kind of answered this above. I don't believe the War on Drugs is successful, it isn't. Yet that doesn't mean we should proliferate its use. I see many people abusing alcohol as it is, many of them teenagers. If it was legal, who is to stop them considering nothing is stopping them from drinking? I'd rather not give my "solution."
5) I understand your definition of tyranny, but I still think it is too strong of a word to be considered such. Perhaps intolerable is a better application?
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skafather84 wrote:
greenblue wrote:
slowmutant wrote:
Fairness to whom? Secularity people or religious people?
Both.
the problem is that the religious people are asking for more than their share and are looking to take other people's piece too.
Not always true. There are militant atheists who feel the need to shoot down anything that has even an ounce of weight to do with religion (whether or not the people have forgotten its relation to religion).
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