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18 Aug 2012, 10:12 am

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No, I'm defining far left liberalism as being philogynist. ;)

Far left liberalism? What does that even mean?

I don't see any reason why women should be treated differently than men.



[Weird assumption that people don't understand basic principles.]
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[bunch of cherry picked quotes no one in this forum agrees with]
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It's cute how (1)JakovVirgin and his (1)butt buddies think it's funny that I believe men and women should equal rights despite the fact that I am not a feminist! :lol: (2) Feminism isn't about equality, it's about women's self-interests. (3)Why should I favor the special interests of a group that I don't belong to?


(1)First thank you for calling me cute.
Notwithstanding your affection for me I have to point out that this last paragraph is rife with logical and factual errors.
Although the paternity of humans is only about 90% I am the presumed father of two daughters I vaguely remember copulating with both of their mothers. but more importantly how and because on the internet no one knows you are a dog. Virgin is not exactly compatible with have butt buddies or does gay sex not count?
(2)This is a straw man or requires conspiracy thinking feminists say they are for equality I take them at their word.
(3) because it is the good thing to do. Morality is pretty much defined as not being a dick in situations when being a dick is in your self interest. A first century bce rabbi once said

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18 Aug 2012, 11:36 am

I didn't even bother to read your reply as it is full of BS(INB4 No ur posts are BS).
What I notice is that when you are unable to make a cogent rebuttal, you resort to ridicule. Because you perceive me as violating some cardinal social rule that I as a man am not allowed to criticize women's behavior or pass judgement on them.


What cracks me up is your asinine, ret*d assumption that people with a political agenda should be taken at their word and not further scrutinized. I don't take those who have an agenda at the word because I realize that ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. Many feminists and their apologists in this forum have been presented with counterexamples to the feminist claim that their true objective is gender equality. Right-wing conservatives are equally dishonest about what they say they believe in and what policies that actually implement when they're elected into office.



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18 Aug 2012, 11:44 am

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I didn't even bother to read your reply as it is full of BS(INB4 No ur posts are BS).


Why even bother arguing if you refuse to read what the opposition has to say


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18 Aug 2012, 11:45 am

AspieRogue wrote:
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No, I'm defining far left liberalism as being philogynist. ;)

Far left liberalism? What does that even mean?

I don't see any reason why women should be treated differently than men.



To answer your first question, there isn't a political binary here in the US. There is a political spectrum. I said far left to make the distinction between "center left". I've always thought Bill Clinton as being more center left than "hard left".

I agree that women shouldn't be treated any differently than men. However, many feminists, particularly 2nd wave feminists, do not agree. Actions speak louder than words. People say they're in favor of equality but then the promote policies which favor their interests at the expense of others. If men are women are to be treated the same way, then means women shouldn't get any more sympathy because of their sex than men should.

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It's cute how JakovVirgin and his butt buddies think it's funny that I believe men and women should equal rights despite the fact that I am not a feminist! :lol: Feminism isn't about equality, it's about women's self-interests. Why should I favor the special interests of a group that I don't belong to?


Far left normally describes the communists, anarchists and other such groups, none of which are liberal. There are people left of Clinton, and this group is called the left. Use your terms right.

Feminist don't want to be treated better than men. I may disagree with what they diagnose as injustice towards them, but it does not mean their objective is to be better than men, just equal. There are certainly people who see more injustice than others, but the claim is for greater equality still. Don't redefine feminism. Feminism is equal rights.



18 Aug 2012, 11:51 am

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I didn't even bother to read your reply as it is full of BS(INB4 No ur posts are BS).


Why even bother arguing if you refuse to read what the opposition has to say



It's called sarcasm, dude. I've heard what the opposition has to say already ITT and it's nothing but personal insults and ridicule attempts.

Furthermore, the world doesn't run on honesty. And if I took the time to list every example I'd be awake for more than 24 hours. I get sick of people who say one thing and do another and I deal with these people every day online and offline. Talk is cheap. If you truly believe in equality, then go out there and ACT on it! Deeds make the difference, words are meaningless....and forgetable 8)



18 Aug 2012, 11:55 am

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Feminist don't want to be treated better than men. I may disagree with what they diagnose as injustice towards them, but it does not mean their objective is to be better than men, just equal. There are certainly people who see more injustice than others, but the claim is for greater equality still. Don't redefine feminism. Feminism is equal rights.



Definitions are superfluous unless the actions of people who define themselves that way live up to their definitions. Besides, 21st century feminism is not monolithic. There are many different factions, and some of those factions do NOT want equality. I don't care how many times or how vociferously you claim that feminism is about equal rights. Until you show me the evidence, and until I see some solid proof that they practice what they preach, I call BS.



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18 Aug 2012, 12:07 pm

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I didn't even bother to read your reply as it is full of BS(INB4 No ur posts are BS).
What I notice is that when you are unable to make a cogent rebuttal, you resort to ridicule. Because you perceive me as violating some cardinal social rule that I as a man am not allowed to criticize women's behavior or pass judgement on them.


What cracks me up is your asinine, ret*d assumption that people with a political agenda should be taken at their word and not further scrutinized. I don't take those who have an agenda at the word because I realize that ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. (1)Many feminists and their apologists in this forum have been presented with counterexamples to the feminist claim that their true objective is gender equality. Right-wing conservatives are equally dishonest about what they say they believe in and what policies that actually implement when they're elected into office.


I am confused you say you did not read my reply but then you talk about things I said.
Does someone else read you my replies?

You are bad at understanding actions I am too it is part of being an aspie.
Case in point you consistently misread my argument s. (or have them misread to you or possibly mishear them as they are correctly read to you :? )

(1) you presented cherry-picked decontexualized rubbish. Not robust counter examples. But more importantly examples that no one in this forum has views remotely connected to.

to speak in analogy it is as if at a party folks were discussing which Beatle they liked best and you kept yelling Valerie Solanas hates men.

You are making up opponents that don't exist and then pretending to argue with them.
Almost as if they were made of straw ... I have something here... nope lost it.


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18 Aug 2012, 12:11 pm

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Feminist don't want to be treated better than men. I may disagree with what they diagnose as injustice towards them, but it does not mean their objective is to be better than men, just equal. There are certainly people who see more injustice than others, but the claim is for greater equality still. Don't redefine feminism. Feminism is equal rights.



Definitions are superfluous unless the actions of people who define themselves that way live up to their definitions. Besides, 21st century feminism is not monolithic. There are many different factions, and some of those factions do NOT want equality. I don't care how many times or how vociferously you claim that feminism is about equal rights. Until you show me the evidence, and until I see some solid proof that they practice what they preach, I call BS.

There are certainly extremist in any movement. They should not be used to alter the reality of the core movement itself.

Actually, I would rather see you show me that they want anything but equal rights/equal status/equal everything -- in general, not just specific examples of insane extremists. If we are to look at extremists, we can easily come to the conclusion that every political group is psychotic.



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18 Aug 2012, 12:13 pm

AspieRogue wrote:
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I didn't even bother to read your reply as it is full of BS(INB4 No ur posts are BS).


Why even bother arguing if you refuse to read what the opposition has to say



It's called sarcasm, dude. I've heard what the opposition has to say already ITT and it's nothing but personal insults and ridicule attempts.

Furthermore, the world doesn't run on honesty. And if I took the time to list every example I'd be awake for more than 24 hours. I get sick of people who say one thing and do another and I deal with these people every day online and offline. Talk is cheap. If you truly believe in equality, then go out there and ACT on it! Deeds make the difference, words are meaningless....and forgetable 8)


I think you're just being lazy about it because you have made up your mind on this topic like most other self-proclaimed "Men's Rights Activists". I think you are arguing against a conceptualized stereotype opponent rather than JakobVirgil

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18 Aug 2012, 1:00 pm

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LOL@ you deliberately taking "sanctification" too literally! Read the rest of that post before you cherry pick things to deride.


I did read your entire post. I do not know anyone who sanctifies women or treats them as superior. It seems to me that you are repeating what you heard someone else say on the subject.

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18 Aug 2012, 5:04 pm

Hilarious thread and grump list. As an American woman I now feel the urge to take a scented candle to a beach in France and burn it to scare away men and also to provide ample lighting while I fill out an absentee ballot for Obama. Then I will eat too many pastries.



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18 Aug 2012, 5:46 pm

AspieRogue wrote:
enrico_dandolo wrote:
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No, I'm defining far left liberalism as being philogynist. ;)

Far left liberalism? What does that even mean?

I don't see any reason why women should be treated differently than men.



To answer your first question, there isn't a political binary here in the US. There is a political spectrum. I said far left to make the distinction between "center left". I've always thought Bill Clinton as being more center left than "hard left".

I agree that women shouldn't be treated any differently than men. However, many feminists, particularly 2nd wave feminists, do not agree. Actions speak louder than words. People say they're in favor of equality but then the promote policies which favor their interests at the expense of others. If men are women are to be treated the same way, then means women shouldn't get any more sympathy because of their sex than men should.

Two points:
first, second-wave feminism was the feminism of the baby boomers, and does not represent the majority of feminists today; in particular, very few gen-x and younger feminists consider themselves second-wave or fit within that description.
second, treating people equally when they come from a position of institutionalized inequality only retrenches and reinforces that inequality. If, for example, I were competing for a grad school position against a young woman who had the exact same grades and achievements as me, but who grew up in the Bronx as the daughter of black immigrant parents with less than high-school educations, she should get the position because she almost certainly worked harder than me and/or was smarter than me for her to get to the same level, given that I came from a white, middle-class background. For us to be judged equally (say, on personality alone) would be to ignore the fact that she has come farther in her life in order to reach the same current place.
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18 Aug 2012, 6:10 pm

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Feminist don't want to be treated better than men. I may disagree with what they diagnose as injustice towards them, but it does not mean their objective is to be better than men, just equal. There are certainly people who see more injustice than others, but the claim is for greater equality still. Don't redefine feminism. Feminism is equal rights.



Definitions are superfluous unless the actions of people who define themselves that way live up to their definitions. Besides, 21st century feminism is not monolithic. There are many different factions, and some of those factions do NOT want equality. I don't care how many times or how vociferously you claim that feminism is about equal rights. Until you show me the evidence, and until I see some solid proof that they practice what they preach, I call BS.

You simultaneously admit that feminism is not monolithic, and tar the entirety of feminism with the most radical of brushes.



18 Aug 2012, 6:13 pm

Just so you're aware LKL: I am very much in favor of affirmative action. Especially given the fact that there are far too few affirmative action programs to help aspies get jobs. However, I favor affirmative action in terms of employment rather than in education. I wish the US had a university system like Finland where there is an entrance exam that EVERY applicant must take and score high enough in order to get in. There is also an analog of the american GRE which requires a minimum score for admission to graduate programs. It matters not what your background is there, no exceptions are made for anyone. That IMO is academia should work.

There are all these affirmative action programs for minorities in academia, but then when they get out they can't find work cuz often they've been studying too hard to get any kind of internships or job experience!

That is one of my biggest gripes though: Affirmative action for women exists and there are sooooo many opportunities for post gen-x women but there are NONE for aspies! :evil:



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18 Aug 2012, 6:13 pm

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Hilarious thread and grump list. As an American woman I now feel the urge to take a scented candle to a beach in France and burn it to scare away men and also to provide ample lighting while I fill out an absentee ballot for Obama. Then I will eat too many pastries.

Janissy wins the thread IMNSHO



18 Aug 2012, 6:20 pm

I really can't find it in me to respect aspie women who are more loyal to their gender then to other aspies! :P



2nd wave feminism has proven to be very divisive when feminists try to recruit women from other minority groups in the sense that it turns those women against men in the same group. This seem to be especially true of aspies. Aspie women are brainwashed by feminists into accusing aspie men of "oppressing" them with "sexism/misogyny". *facepalm*