kayetes wrote:
ZanneMarie wrote:
Yeah, my grandfather thought this way as well. He didn't have to live with my mom, who by the way is a diagnosed Sociopath who tried to drown my three older brothers.
I am sorry to hear about you having such an unpleasant childhood. I have understood that you would have prefered to have been aborted rather than having had to live in your family. But that is a decision you would take now, you couldn't have likely known that 18 years before. Most newborns have the will to live.
Any bad fate that could happen to children, who would otherwise have been aborted, has
nothing to do with this question. Sins and injustice is linked to humanity, as long as it will exist.
ZanneMarie wrote:
If you think that all kids should be stuck with those parents, my response is that you should be forced to live with my mother for 18 years and then we will see exactly how you feel about it.
And of course I then should also be forced to live with another mother, in another family, who would maybe have aborted but did not and ultimately had shown to be the most caring and responsible mother.
But I am not opposed to adoption. Your mother could have put you up for adoption.
Which is all just another way for you to say you want to dictate things on other people as long as you don't suffer the consequences. As I said, I would have absolutely no problem whatsoever chaining you and the rest of them in the house with her and letting her go at you for 18 years. None whatsoever. Nor any problem aborting any fetus of a mother that didn't want it, legal or not. I'd do it anyway. If I burn for it, that's the way it's going to be. I only care about the kid. Frankly, I don't give any consideration to the adults involved. They're irrelevant.
And as to your stupid statement about adoption, my mother didn't want kids. She wanted to put the first one up for adoption. But, thanks to sanctimonious people who felt they could dictate to her in the 1950's (and they could back then), she was told to get married or be put in a sanitarium (which by the way a father could do back then).
My point is that until you are that child that lived with the consequences, don't speak for them. They are better off if those people just shut up.