Racists don’t get it that...
By the way, I don't date Asian women. I only date women of European descent (which includes Western European and Eastern European).
Ahh thanks for the clarification, yes I remember now you did plan to find a girl of European descent.
Thats really interesting that you mentioned that belief of Jews having horns, because I am Jewish and this was the exact thing I ran into that eventually led me to converting to Christianity (I still follow Jewish law as well so I am Messianic).
In my case, what happened was that my mom had Jewish friends coming over, and they mentioned that in middle ages some people believed that Jews have horns. I asked them how is it possible to believe this, and they didnt answr my question. So then I went to google, and in google I found that there is a verse in the New Testament, namely John 8:44, where Jesus presumably tells the Jews that they are the children of the devil (and the devil is believed to have horns). I never read the Bible before, so I had no idea it had any verses of that kind and I was quite frankly shocked and scared. So then I decided to research other interpretations of John 8:44 to see why don't everyone else runs around as scared as I am, and this is what ultimately led me to study the New Testament as a whole to get more context and eventually accepting Christianity.
Yes, in my search for Jews having horns issue, I found the thing about Moses as well. So there were two separate things. One thing was from the Old Testament where the light coming from Moses was mistranslated as horns, and the other one was from the New Testament where Jesus tells the Jews they are of the devil. And, somehow, Christians combine these two things in order to sort of reinforce each other -- but that doesn't make any sense, because then they would have to say that Moses was of the devil, but they regard Moses as one of the prophets. So that was the other thing that intrigued me and got me to study Christianity in order to sort everything out.
Well...if all Jews had horns then ...Moses would already have had horns on his friggen head when he went UP the Mount. And all of the multitudes of his Jewish followers back in the camp would also have had horns on their heads. So having horns on your head would just be the norm. So why the heck would the authors of the Bible have bothered to mention it? It would be like a news paper reporting that Trump (who is having a press conference at this moment) "had two eyeballs in his head when he approached the podium today".

I didn't say that Bible says Moses had horns -- I only said "others misinterpretted that passage" to say this. What it says it hat Moses had light coming off of him, but in some language apparently the word for light is the same as the word for horns, which resulted in mistranslation. The English analogue of this is "piece" and "peace" meaning two different things. But that doesn't change the fact that some people misinterpretted it and thought it meant horns -- and actually made a statue of Moses with horns.
By the way, during my research I got two answers to my question as to how Christians could say that Jews are of the devil without saying that Moses is of the devil:
a) There is a theory called "replacement theology" which says that Jews of Old Testament time were God's chosen but after they rejected Jesus they aren't chosen any more. Now, saying "they aren't God's chosen" isn't the same thing as saying "they are of the devil": all it means is that they are just like everyone else, neither better nor worse. But if someone *wants* to say they are of the devil, they can "add" to the replacement theology an "extra statement" that "after they stopped being God's chosen they also became of the devil". And if one "wants" to also say they have horns, I guess one could say that when they rejected Jesus their DNA got mutated to make their descendants have horns (kinda what might happen in Chernobyl for example). But of course Bible doesn't actually say any of that. But that would be what Christians that believe this stuff would have to say. But, in this kind of scenario, Moses won't be having horns since the supposed mutation would have to happen at the time of Jesus, and Moses was before that.
b) There is also a theory called "Christian Identity" that -- in sharp contrast to replacement theology -- affirms that the physical descendants of Biblical Hebrews are still God's chosen people. However, it claims that today's Jews have no genetic lineage to them. Instead, today's Jews are descendants of Cain who later converted to Judaism. They, furthermore, say that in the Garden of Eden there was a sexual intercourse between Eve and the serpent, and Cain was the product of that intercourse. Since the serpent is the devil, Cain is the literal descendent of the devil, and since Jews are supposedly descendants of Cain, Jews are the physical descendants of the devil as well (and therefore they might have horns). But, once again, Biblical Hebrews are *not* Jews according to that doctrine. Since Moses is a Biblical Hebrew, Moses won't be of the devil, and, therefore, he won't be having horns. Similarly, the people whom he led out of Egypt are also Biblical Hebrews, thus they won't be Jewish either and, therefore, they also won't be having horns. By the way I do not believe in this doctrine: for one thing, Bible never said that Eve and serpent had sex, and also the descendants of Cain were supposed to die during the flood anyway. I am just summarizing what other people believe.
As you can see, theories "a" and "b" are completely different from each other. But their commonality is to disassociate Moses from today's Jews. In case of Theory a, they affirm that Moses is genetically related to today's Jews but deny the fact that the genetic lineage matters. In case of Theory b, they affirm that genetic lineage matters, but deny that Moses is genetically related to today's Jews. Therefore, if one uses "either" of these two theories to say that today's Jews are of the devil, one would have to also admit that Moses is *not* of the devil and, therefore, Moses won't be having horns. So the fact that they used that Biblical mistranslation of Moses having horns in order to support their theory about the Jews just shows they haven't thought it all the way through.
I didnt say that YOU thought that Jews had horns because of what the Bible says. I meant that "medeaval folks were crazy to think...that all Jews had horns...for that particular reason... that they read that mistranslated thing in the Bible...because even if that passage were accurate ...it wouldnt mean that "all Jews have horns".
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I was chatting with an American lady in a dating app; and when she learned that one of my exes was Filipina she joked about it and quickly associated her to prostitution and “being easy” - not only about her in particular but her whole ethnicity; she also quickly assumed she was a house maid (she isn’t), obviously as a way of trolling me.
So I told her that her remarks about Filipinas are very racist.
As an counterargument she said she almost married a Muslim Arab man; so she can’t be called racist.
Is there a name of this?
I would call it prejudice, not racism, a pre-conceived belief or judgement based on rumour or indoctrination and folklore or just stupidity through second hand experience.
I was training in London as a nurse and was having coffee in the cafeteria with some Jamaican nurses. They were talking about religion and asked me what mine is. I replied that I was Jewish and they looked really baffled. One of them said in all seriousness that I couldn't be Jewish because I don't have horns. I didn't get angry because she was devoid of all malice and was being completely truthful. Perhaps it is because there is a mistranslation in the Bible she uses because in the St.James Bible it states that Moses has horns, the word for ray of Light and horn is the same. In Hebrew it is ray of Light. There is a statue in a fountain by Bellini (I think) near the Spanish Steps in Rome that I have seen which portrays Moses with horns. I don't suppose there are many Jews in Jamaica.
Prejudice is making a baseless judgement before the fact, based on rumour and stupidity, it is often cultural and very very dangerous.
It seems they are not aware that Jesus which they follow, Virgin Marry and all the Prophets in OT were Jews?
Interesting... the Arabic word of horns is “Qarn” too
The hebrew word for rhinocerous is קרנף
Karnaf or "horn nose."
To be a little naughty I would say that the word for "horny" or sexually aroused is a totally different root. charman, ( with a gutteral sound like clearing your throat ) חרמן not to be confused with divine Light.

Yes people generally forget that Yehoshuah (Jesus), Miriam (Mary) Yoseph (Joseph) were Jewish, and all the disciples.
I liked one particular thing that Jesus said regarding Kashrut, the Jewish dietary laws. He said that what comes out of peoples' mouths is more important than what goes in. Meaning gossip and slander, the "evil tongue " לשון הרע
as we call it in Hebrew. Purity of heart is more valuable than mindless religious ritual. That is a progressive statement. Christians may object but I think of Jesus as an enlightened Reform Jew. As a student of the wisdom of kabbalah for many years I would even say he could have been a kabbalist from reading his writings. It's interesting that progressive, humanist, altruistic leaders are killed throughout history. Jesus, Ghandi, Kennedy, Martin Luther King even Yizchak Rabin if I may be so bold. Just a whimsical, baseless NT observation.

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^^ The arabic word for Rhino is "Wahid el Qarn", which means one-horn.
Hebrew => Arabic
Yehoshuah = Yasou'
Miriam = Mariam or Miriam
Yoseph = Yousef, and I think ph is pronounced f?
Muslims have strict dietary laws as well, there's a whole list of animals they can't consume. Not surprising since Islam did evolve from a Messianic Jewish sect.

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Hebrew => Arabic
Yehoshuah = Yasou'
Miriam = Mariam or Miriam
Yoseph = Yousef, and I think ph is pronounced f?
Muslims have strict dietary laws as well, there's a whole list of animals they can't consume. Not surprising since Islam did evolve from a Messianic Jewish sect.

Yes it's Yosef, my bad.
None of these religious laws mean a thing if a person has hate in his heart. I agree with Jesus on that one.

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Hebrew => Arabic
Yehoshuah = Yasou'
Miriam = Mariam or Miriam
Yoseph = Yousef, and I think ph is pronounced f?
Muslims have strict dietary laws as well, there's a whole list of animals they can't consume. Not surprising since Islam did evolve from a Messianic Jewish sect.

I learned a little Arabic when I came to Israel to complete my nursing studies, Arabic is part of the syllabus.
I had a young Arab woman to care for as my Rehab training ( brain injury). Fatchiyah had been caught by her hair in a windmill and was paraplegic as a result. I was assigned as her main caregiver. When I gave her water I said "ishrabi" (drink) while giving her suction I said "kuchi ayuni" (cough sweetheart) a lot of "chamdililah" which I think is the equivalent of the hebrew "sababa" or cool.
"Lachmeh" I thought was bread but I believe it is meat."lechem" in hebrew is bread. She never smiled because she suffered greatly. One day we were in the shower while I was washing her, and I slipped on the soap and fell. I was soaked and my nurses cap fell over my face. That was the only time she smiled. Her dad who was devoted to her came every day from the Galilee to Jerusalem to visit her and would bring me green almonds and taught me how to eat them.with salt. A great proportion of Israeli medical staff are Arab and they have received much gratitude and appreciation during the Corona epidemic.
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I liked one particular thing that Jesus said regarding Kashrut, the Jewish dietary laws. He said that what comes out of peoples' mouths is more important than what goes in. Meaning gossip and slander, the "evil tongue " לשון הרע
as we call it in Hebrew. Purity of heart is more valuable than mindless religious ritual. That is a progressive statement. Christians may object but I think of Jesus as an enlightened Reform Jew. As a student of the wisdom of kabbalah for many years I would even say he could have been a kabbalist from reading his writings.
It is interesting to hear the Jew say this. Because normally I see the opposite. Christians are pointing out that Jesus was Jewish while Jews totally refuse to acknowledge it. I guess the context of it is Christians trying to convert the Jews, which might explain why that happens. If I go outside of that particular context, there are a few occasions of Jews saying nice things about Jesus -- like for example there is a book "kosher Jesus". But these are very few and far between.
I can see where Jews are coming from though: when they are acknowledging that Jesus was a great teacher, they would still deny that he is a Messiah and especially God. Its one thing to like someone and its quite a different thing to engage in idolatry.
But this brings me to another question. While most Messianic Jews affirm that Jesus is God, there are few Messianic Jews that say he is a messiah but not God (see http://www.netzarim.co.il , https://www.judaismvschristianity.com/ and http://www.torahofmessiah.com as three examples of such). So why would that specific flavor of Messianic Judaism be bad? From the Christian point of view, belief in the wrong Messiah amounts to idolatry. But from Jewish point of view it doesn't. For example, Jews that don't believe in Shneerson as the Messiah don't have any problem with the other Jews that do. So if it is okay to believe in Shneerson as the Messiah when he isn't, why wouldn't it be okay to believe in Jesus as the Messiah? I realize that the difference is that they don't make Shneerson into God but they make Jesus into God. But once again, what about the specific brand of Messianic Jews that don't believe in Jesus as God?
By the way, in my three examples of Messianic websites that reject divinity of Jesus, I purposely picked out three very separate brands of them:
a) The website http://www.netzarim.co.il affirms the Hebrew Gospel of Matthew and rejects the rest of the New Testament. Also -- unlike other Messianic Jews -- http://www.netzarim.co.il affirms the authority of Talmud. The founder of http://www.netzarim.co.il claims he had Orthodox ordination as a rabbi and he was the only Messianic Jew who did (which is consistent with the fact that he is the only Messianic Jew who accepts the authority of the Talmud). However, I noticed on his photo he doesn't have a yarmolke so that raises a question about it.
b) The website http://www.judaismvschristianity.com affirms all of New Testament *except for* the letters of Paul, and insist that Paul was a false apostle. I don't know its attitude towards Talmud, but I would assume it rejects it since most Messianic Jews do, but I don't think it really talked about it.
c) The website http://www.torahofmessiah.com believes in all of the New Testament *including* letters of Paul, it just claims that Paul was misinterpretted by Christians. From their point of view, Paul believes the Torah should be observed, and Christians misinterpretted him to say that it shouldn't. That website rejects Talmud.
All three of those websites reject the divinity of Jesus, like I said. However, majority of Messianics accept the divinity of Jesus. And also the majority of Messianics accept all of New Testament and reject Talmud. But they keep Jewish law because they believe that Paul never said anything against it, and when it sounds like he did, it was misinterpretation by the Christians.
In any case, what is your perspective: which of those three websites do you find acceptable and which you don't? By acceptable I am not saying you yourself would agree with it, I am saying that you would be fine with your fellow Jews agreeing with it.
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I liked one particular thing that Jesus said regarding Kashrut, the Jewish dietary laws. He said that what comes out of peoples' mouths is more important than what goes in. Meaning gossip and slander, the "evil tongue " לשון הרע
as we call it in Hebrew. Purity of heart is more valuable than mindless religious ritual. That is a progressive statement. Christians may object but I think of Jesus as an enlightened Reform Jew. As a student of the wisdom of kabbalah for many years I would even say he could have been a kabbalist from reading his writings.
It is interesting to hear the Jew say this. Because normally I see the opposite. Christians are pointing out that Jesus was Jewish while Jews totally refuse to acknowledge it. I guess the context of it is Christians trying to convert the Jews, which might explain why that happens. If I go outside of that particular context, there are a few occasions of Jews saying nice things about Jesus -- like for example there is a book "kosher Jesus". But these are very few and far between.
I can see where Jews are coming from though: when they are acknowledging that Jesus was a great teacher, they would still deny that he is a Messiah and especially God. Its one thing to like someone and its quite a different thing to engage in idolatry.
But this brings me to another question. While most Messianic Jews affirm that Jesus is God, there are few Messianic Jews that say he is a messiah but not God (see http://www.netzarim.co.il , https://www.judaismvschristianity.com/ and http://www.torahofmessiah.com as three examples of such). So why would that specific flavor of Messianic Judaism be bad? From the Christian point of view, belief in the wrong Messiah amounts to idolatry. But from Jewish point of view it doesn't. For example, Jews that don't believe in Shneerson as the Messiah don't have any problem with the other Jews that do. So if it is okay to believe in Shneerson as the Messiah when he isn't, why wouldn't it be okay to believe in Jesus as the Messiah? I realize that the difference is that they don't make Shneerson into God but they make Jesus into God. But once again, what about the specific brand of Messianic Jews that don't believe in Jesus as God?
By the way, in my three examples of Messianic websites that reject divinity of Jesus, I purposely picked out three very separate brands of them:
a) The website http://www.netzarim.co.il affirms the Hebrew Gospel of Matthew and rejects the rest of the New Testament. Also -- unlike other Messianic Jews -- http://www.netzarim.co.il affirms the authority of Talmud. The founder of http://www.netzarim.co.il claims he had Orthodox ordination as a rabbi and he was the only Messianic Jew who did (which is consistent with the fact that he is the only Messianic Jew who accepts the authority of the Talmud). However, I noticed on his photo he doesn't have a yarmolke so that raises a question about it.
b) The website http://www.judaismvschristianity.com affirms all of New Testament *except for* the letters of Paul, and insist that Paul was a false apostle. I don't know its attitude towards Talmud, but I would assume it rejects it since most Messianic Jews do, but I don't think it really talked about it.
c) The website http://www.torahofmessiah.com believes in all of the New Testament *including* letters of Paul, it just claims that Paul was misinterpretted by Christians. From their point of view, Paul believes the Torah should be observed, and Christians misinterpretted him to say that it shouldn't. That website rejects Talmud.
All three of those websites reject the divinity of Jesus, like I said. However, majority of Messianics accept the divinity of Jesus. And also the majority of Messianics accept all of New Testament and reject Talmud. But they keep Jewish law because they believe that Paul never said anything against it, and when it sounds like he did, it was misinterpretation by the Christians.
In any case, what is your perspective: which of those three websites do you find acceptable and which you don't? By acceptable I am not saying you yourself would agree with it, I am saying that you would be fine with your fellow Jews agreeing with it.
I am just one person with one opinion, not "the Jew," I don't represent anyone. No Jew I know even thinks about Jesus and I have never ever heard a Jew speak against Jesus or Christians or any other religion in my whole lifetime. Jews are mostly happy being Jews and tolerant of other peoples' beliefs. I think Jesus was a progressive, enlightened thinker, nothing more. I am not an intellectual and I don't judge anyone elses beliefs.

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Jews have no issue when gentiles are Chrsitian, but they have a lot of issues when a Jew converts to Christianity. There are websites devoted specifically to oppose Jewish conversion to Christianity. For example, "Jews for Judaism", "Outreach Judaism" and several others.
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Jews have no issue when gentiles are Chrsitian, but they have a lot of issues when a Jew converts to Christianity. There are websites devoted specifically to oppose Jewish conversion to Christianity. For example, "Jews for Judaism", "Outreach Judaism" and several others.
I'm not getting into that

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"One horn". As in "unicorn". Some say that all of the references to "unicorns" in the King James Bible are actually references to the one horned rhino. Not to the beautiful horse-like creature on the modern British coat of arms, or in modern fantasy novels.
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Jews have no issue when gentiles are Chrsitian, but they have a lot of issues when a Jew converts to Christianity. There are websites devoted specifically to oppose Jewish conversion to Christianity. For example, "Jews for Judaism", "Outreach Judaism" and several others.
I'm not getting into that

Why do you keep saying "Jews have a problem with?"
Certain religious Jews think it is a sin to convert to Christianity, but Messianic Jews has never been anything particularly pertinent as an issue and In Israel they do their own thing undisturbed. Messianic Jews are vigilant in their mission of converting Jews to Christianity, and that understandably is disturbing, look, they got you! Trying to convert someone to Christianity is already taking a position of superiority over other non -Christian religions isn't it? Judaism is against missionary activities, Jews don't persuade anyone to be Jewish.
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When you use the word "certain" are you implying that there are other religious Jews that don't regard it as a sin? That would be interesting, because I thought that all religious Jews regard it as a sin, and even most secular ones do as well. Or are you saying that there is a different subculture of Jews that I was unaware of, or that the climate had changed within the recent years?
Also the word "sin" is an understatement. For example, its a sin to eat pork; but the Jews that eat pork don't get denied their right of return, while Messianic Jews do (even though most Messianic Jews don't eat pork).
Messianic Jews are being denied their right of return. And that applies to all Messianic Jews whose mother is Jewish -- even the ones that don't engage in missionary activity.
Also the Messianic Jews that are already living in Israel are being regularly attacked by Orthodox Jews. But that part is different since at least it is acknowledged to be a crime, although the authorities turn a blind eye on it.
Actually what originally got me started didn't involve Messianic Jews. The role that Messianic Jews played is that they enabled me to keep going without as much of the cultural discomfort as I would have otherwise felt.
The way I came to believe in Jesus was that -- after I heard of Jews having horns -- I started researching this stuff online and ran into a website by church of satan. That scared the hell out of me so I wanted to be as far from satanism as possible. But then I ran into some Christian websites (probably not Messianic ones) that said that whoever isn't a Christian is a satanist, so that made me want to become Christian out of fear.
Now, Messianic Jews came as a next step. You see, the idea of going into Christian church felt uncomfortable Jewishly. But then, as I continued researching this stuff online, I read about Messianic Judaism, and that was when I thought that this would make it a lot easier. In fact, in some weird sense I even liked the flavor of it, since it felt so unusual.
Jews don't persuade *gentiles* to become Jewish, but they do try to persuade former Jews to return back to Judaism. They also try to persuade Messianic Jews who happened to be of Jewish biological origin to reject Jesus.