Funny story, when I was with my ex, we both listened to the Weird Al song Gump, parody of Lump, and he told me this song should be offending me and I was like "why?" and he said "because he is making fun of you" and I said "I'm not Gump and he isn't real" and he said "but you are a lot like him so you should be finding this offensive."
I still didn't get offended by the song just because my ex was telling me I should be finding it offensive. To me it was just a song about the film and I didn't see why I should make it be about me and get offended by it.
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed and ASD lv 1.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.