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03 Nov 2024, 9:38 am

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oh boy toxic femineity, that is for sure an awful branch of people....like I figure you mean the supposed career women who also will accept nothing less than a man who makes way more than they do. They are independent women who can afford to live alone yet as independent as they are they need the man to make more to take care of them.


and idk I think that's grosss, I am all for someone not wanting to date a lazy but I do hate the idea some people put forth that a career woman who can fend for herself should still seek out a richer man who can provide for them....and lits like if you're so indpendent you provide for yourself, you don't still need a man to take care of you. So your standard should not be 'independent I make my own money roar, but I expect you make more and you pay for everything even though I am independent and can handle myself....I just want you to fund my lifestyle while I s**t on you.

So idk I am aware of some toxic femininity and I don't like it, cause also the toxic women like that also talk down on people like me because I have disability, they try to be like you can't be a real women if you aren't career oriented, and that for sure is really offensive to me. So idk you may hear me b***h more about male on female sexism, but for sure there is toxic femininty to and it sucks to interact with.

LIke I hate to say it but some women are literally the worst sexists.


I agree! Women can be equally as sexist as men, but some female sexists are not self-aware enough to realize that is what they are.

I always appreciate your posts Sweetleaf, you seem like a down-to-Earth woman with a level head.



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03 Nov 2024, 12:23 pm

In South Africa speech therapists are nightmare, had thread on other forum, why.

Don't diagnose autism (Dah) and work on eye contact and body language as default, now we have more teens diagnosed mild autism.

USA standard seems to affect other countries. Bette Midler is always published here concerning her views on housework, hah.
Ye, she loves women does own housework, well as Hungarian I do that and I never colonised or killed natives, and business is not built on oppression or modern slavery, it's tough but depends on neuro type as definition of intelligence, emotional or intellectual and do you sell timber or develop internet service?
Ek is net n bietjie, vas geslaap.
Planet of apes and good doctor, I think some didn't diagnose for career in medical, they smart and work hard, gluton intolerance was always public, just didn't know why. They quiet people working, don't know how corrupt USA gov really is, what powerhungry are waiting for. But some autistic people can be corrupted, others just put heads down, didn't know if apes should try escape.



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04 Nov 2024, 10:27 pm

Interesting article. Not what I had expected, because when I heard "toxic femininity," my mind immediately went to tradwives.

Sweetleaf wrote:
oh boy toxic femineity, that is for sure an awful branch of people....like I figure you mean the supposed career women who also will accept nothing less than a man who makes way more than they do. They are independent women who can afford to live alone yet as independent as they are they need the man to make more to take care of them.

and idk I think that's grosss, I am all for someone not wanting to date a lazy but I do hate the idea some people put forth that a career woman who can fend for herself should still seek out a richer man who can provide for them....and lits like if you're so indpendent you provide for yourself, you don't still need a man to take care of you. So your standard should not be 'independent I make my own money roar, but I expect you make more and you pay for everything even though I am independent and can handle myself....I just want you to fund my lifestyle while I s**t on you.

So idk I am aware of some toxic femininity and I don't like it, cause also the toxic women like that also talk down on people like me because I have disability, they try to be like you can't be a real women if you aren't career oriented, and that for sure is really offensive to me. So idk you may hear me b***h more about male on female sexism, but for sure there is toxic femininty to and it sucks to interact with.

LIke I hate to say it but some women are literally the worst sexists.


Some women who are hardworking and financially successful would be fine with dating someone who makes less money than them, but don't have many opportunities because men can feel uncomfortable with it and what they think the dynamic says about their masculinity or how society views them. It's also not unheard of for people of both genders to take advantage of others financially in relationships. Dating someone in a similar financial position can make someone feel less concerned about being taken advantage of by someone who is primarily after their money and, in turn, more secure in the relationship.

To be clear, I am not saying that there are not women out there who are motivated by money and are attracted to men who are financially successful. I am just making the point that it's nuanced and there can be other reasons for people's decisions about who they seek out relationships with.



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Yesterday, 5:22 pm

How do we govern the genetics laws, and taking into account cause and effect.

I think recognising that we need confidence and also implying that for example ancient Egyptians used makeup, so it's not necessary for everyone to demand to be a blond. Sometimes we also just need to learn to accept ourselves and not be malicious but try to be civil and legitimately fair.

A court looks at best interest of child not which parent contributed the genes, so in a society with mixed gene pool the fighting can continue to epic levels. One side may feel thief robbed them in night of genes that money is withheld, others may feel they work but gain no improvement to their image but it should also all be subject to a fair judicial law that brings harmony back to society.

My hurt is that my German husband neglected his duty to our child in case of vengeance and it has to do with nazzi which injured, and I'm left with his justification that experiments were because of virus outbreaks in historic past. So debate started as to differences between German measels and hepatitis due to pork eating and which lead to infant illness. There's also a brave heart movie that is similar but doesn't depict crimes Germany commited against hungry insisting on equal genes yet unequal financial living. I call this post war conflict and another example is against company Beyer who distributed drugs unsafe for pregnancy and paid zilch compensation to victims.

Demi Moore has issued a story about her mother causing PTSD and I'm not justifying what she did but am considering what I saw here in South Africa. Ria was friend in grade 3 who's house I slept over, unlike me my mom's wasn't as inclined to get to know friends parents or give me as much advice on boys. Ria was behaving badly, you could say she may have being sexually abused and would want to play strange games. Later I found out she was adopted and they were not her real family, she was also not viewed as american-type-south African Nd I don't say anglo-British as it may be misleading. Her huguenot-type mom's was married to an Afrikaner who had nazzi views. This is situation with mixed white culture in South Africa. I personally witnessed this on many occasions and it seemed to always be american-type-south-africans. I'd also attended a church in CPT where white pastor had coloured people praying for money as opposed to abundant life God promised, the caps is full of these American type whites who seem to try run the place to suit themselves and their lifestyles, this is when I saw drug addicts living on the streets of Bellville. They are legally not allowed because for shelter fees and were moved to this bad area to be out of view. The schools are full, waiting lists, drugs and crime and ironically can't solve gangster issue yet the police minister of the ANC is blamed.

I think and speculate they are the Nessie, that's the biggest dragon that controlled Epstein and runs corrupt us government from behind the scenes. They filmed and blackmailed Diddy Nd everyone. They had Japanese working to get swords back with selfish view of justice, it has made many black people look bad.