Is Sexual Orientation Actively Changable?
Ragtime wrote:
calandale wrote:
Ragtime wrote:
How many times would you like me to answer this question? Just give me a number. You've asked it several times, and I've answered it several times. Lust is wrong, but Christians' sins are forgiven. But, as Paul wrote, "Should we therefore sin more? God forbid!"
Therefore, no, we should not fornicate.
Therefore, no, we should not fornicate.
I don't get this. Why not? I mean, if we WANT to
sin, and it's all forgiven as simply as you say, well
what the hell.
When we're Saved, we're spiritually converted, and given the "mind of Christ", so that we find it easy to think like Him in morality and sense of purpose. Therefore, we don't as deeply want to sin as before we're Saved. More specifically, we have a contra-sin nature, in addition to our original sin nature. So, we have an instinct of righteousness "warring against" our sinful desires. So, real Christians aren't going around all day wanting to sin. And they don't consider it any kind of worthy goal to do so -- it's sh** to them, not gold.
So either gay Christians really are Christians and homosexuality isn't sinful, or they aren't Christians, so what? You going to kick up s**t every time somebody supposedly sins while they're a Christian you'd be better off bitching about rapists, murders, and racists. But no, instead here you are trying to bring down people who are supposed to be your friends, or whatever twisted definition of friends it is that you have. You don't accept logic yet you come back for more repeatedly, as if you like arguing with people and getting them to fight with you. No I didn't read the whole Thread, because I know it's the same old lame excuses with you time after time. I just like bitching at you, reminding you how like to run away from arguments, and your various other failings.
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Ragtime wrote:
Hahahaha! I'd hardly call abstaining from p**** "wasting my life"! If that's your highest level of achievement, you have my sympathies. (And don't say you had dick too...)
No, I wouldn't put it quite that way.
But, I can't imagine having made
it through my life without the love
that I've felt - love which wouldn't
have been there without being a
bit willing to have some sex (which
isn't a bad thing in and of itself).
Moreover, there are so many interesting things
that one just throws out the window, by following
some restrictive set of rules. Which is why so many
"sins" were removed from list of no nos, for Christianity -
the religion could not have spread with the restrictions
Judaism had.
See, we're not just talking sex here. According to your
doctrine, I could go out and revel in the thrill of murder,
or live a life of gluttony - there's really no limit. Which is
why most politicians are religious, I suppose.
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I agree with that. Mine's gone, because otherwise I'd be gone. It nearly burst when I was 13.
Wow. I think God wanted you to keep it though.
Ragtime wrote:
When we're Saved, we're spiritually converted, and given the "mind of Christ", so that we find it easy to think like Him in morality and sense of purpose. Therefore, we don't as deeply want to sin as before we're Saved. More specifically, we have a contra-sin nature, in addition to our original sin nature. So, we have an instinct of righteousness "warring against" our sinful desires. So, real Christians aren't going around all day wanting to sin. And they don't consider it any kind of worthy goal to do so -- it's sh** to them, not gold.
Right, but there's no reason to get saved right
away. One should probably wait until AFTER they've
done everything that they want to - as they shan't
have a chance for many of those things. Kinda like
the Amish orgies, no?
greenblue wrote:
Originally from the thread: What do you daydream about the most often?
Note: I made this post on the other forum, but people got annoyed by this on there, so I decided to post it here instead.
An excuse? yeah right, this is hardly an excuse.
What really happens is that he and others have been driven away from religion because of the homophobia and prejudice
Note: I made this post on the other forum, but people got annoyed by this on there, so I decided to post it here instead.
Ragtime wrote:
God doesn't hate you, and neither does any responsible Christian. You're trying to make it into that in order to have an excuse to be anti-God.
An excuse? yeah right, this is hardly an excuse.
What really happens is that he and others have been driven away from religion because of the homophobia and prejudice
If that's true, then why isn't he seeking God directly? If he thinks religious people are taking things too far, then why doesn't he reject them, and seek out God directly in prayer? Because it's not just the people he has a problem with; it's also God Himself. And if you have a problem with God Himself, you're in serious trouble.
greenblue wrote:
Ragtime wrote:
It'd be like if I went out screwing girls, and expected my church to be okay with it. They shouldn't be! They SHOULD correct me, because I am in error if I do that, and am displeasing God.
If you are actually promiscuous then I would agree with you, yeah you should be corrected because screwing around with any girl you see anywhere could be bad, for your health and for any other reasons as well.
Ragtime wrote:
And if you have a problem with God Himself, you're in serious trouble.
Indeed. But 'tis far nobler to oppose God
than to succumb to His pointless tyranny.
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Not to mention the greatest reason of all: you're making soul-ties with all the people you screw, and the spiritual oppession (demonic) on them is now yours to have to deal with as well.
Oppresion? No. But I'm not talking about just f*****g here.
If that's all you do, I deny that you're causing anything, in
any way. But, falling in love with many, and binding together,
whether with or without sex, is beautiful.
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Plus, God says it's wrong, which trumps all of the above.
Almost a sign that one should do it - just to be in rebellion.
calandale wrote:
Ragtime wrote:
Hahahaha! I'd hardly call abstaining from p**** "wasting my life"! If that's your highest level of achievement, you have my sympathies. (And don't say you had dick too...)
No, I wouldn't put it quite that way.
But, I can't imagine having made
it through my life without the love
that I've felt - love which wouldn't
have been there without being a
bit willing to have some sex (which
isn't a bad thing in and of itself).
Moreover, there are so many interesting things
that one just throws out the window, by following
some restrictive set of rules. Which is why so many
"sins" were removed from list of no nos, for Christianity -
the religion could not have spread with the restrictions
Judaism had.
See, we're not just talking sex here. According to your
doctrine, I could go out and revel in the thrill of murder,
or live a life of gluttony - there's really no limit. Which is
why most politicians are religious, I suppose.
You're not getting what I said about the mind of Christ: Once you're truly born again, you don't consider Grace a "free pass to sin". You just don't see it that way anymore, because you're focused on the joys of doing good, not on the prohibitions from doing evil. God uses Christians for ministry; their assignment isn't simply to sit at home till they die not sinning. And the "interesting things" you allude to -- one just can't compare that to the righteous synergy one experiences through serving our Creator. Believe me, I've had awesome, mind-blowing, heart-attack inducing sex, and I've served in ministry that God has given me -- and ministry is better, hands down. You've had the first (I assume), but you've never done the second, so you're out of the know here. There is simply no amount of physical/emotional/intellectual stimulation that can reach the total awesomeness of the genuine spiritual fulfillment of being in sync with your Creator. Life just DOESN'T GET better than that! That's why I'm willing to renounce sex for ministry -- 'cause ministry's way better, both for the good of others and for personal fulfillment.
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calandale wrote:
Ragtime wrote:
When we're Saved, we're spiritually converted, and given the "mind of Christ", so that we find it easy to think like Him in morality and sense of purpose. Therefore, we don't as deeply want to sin as before we're Saved. More specifically, we have a contra-sin nature, in addition to our original sin nature. So, we have an instinct of righteousness "warring against" our sinful desires. So, real Christians aren't going around all day wanting to sin. And they don't consider it any kind of worthy goal to do so -- it's sh** to them, not gold.
Right, but there's no reason to get saved right
away.
OMGosh, why would I prolong the torment of being spiritually dead? Why would I wish to remain blind, not knowing where I'm going? Besides, we never know when our lives will end:
"Then Jesus said to them, 'Beware, and be on your guard against every form of greed; for not even when one has an abundance does his life consist of his possessions.' And He told them a parable, saying, 'The land of a rich man was very productive. And he began reasoning to himself, saying, "What shall I do, since I have no place to store my crops?" Then he said, "This is what I will do: I will tear down my barns and build larger ones, and there I will store all my grain and my goods. And I will say to my soul, 'Soul, you have many goods laid up for many years to come; take your ease, eat, drink and be merry.'" But God said to him, "You fool! This very night your soul is required of you; and now who will own what you have prepared?" (Luke 12:15-20).
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Ragtime wrote:
If that's true, then why isn't he seeking God directly? If he thinks religious people are taking things too far, then why doesn't he reject them, and seek out God directly in prayer? Because it's not just the people he has a problem with; it's also God Himself. And if you have a problem with God Himself, you're in serious trouble.
It's not about having problems with God himself, it's about the religion and the church in general, what would happen if you heard of a certain organization and you find it interesting, and then you found out that you are rejected because you have a disability (AS) for example, after finding out, I am sure you would be upset, offended and you wouldn't want to know more about it, you wouldn't even care about their policy, about their history and what they do, why would you? Because you feel hurt for being rejected, discriminated. It's the same.
Ragtime wrote:
Not to mention the greatest reason of all: you're making soul-ties with all the people you screw, and the spiritual oppession (demonic) on them is now yours to have to deal with as well. Plus, God says it's wrong, which trumps all of the above.
The problem is that you follow the Bible in a similar mentality as the people who did at that period of time, remember that it was an age of ignorance, they didn't know anything about sexuality, so for them fornication and even masturbation was as bad as being homosexuals, besides homosexuality didn't look good with the gender roles back then, did it? We live in different times now, we no longer believe the world is flat, we now know that those things are absolutely different.
Your argument "because God says so" don't do a thing here, there are things more complicated in our nature than to just go with it.
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calandale wrote:
Ragtime wrote:
And if you have a problem with God Himself, you're in serious trouble.
Indeed. But 'tis far nobler to oppose God
than to succumb to His pointless tyranny.
God has no tyranny, and He's nothing if not completely relevant.
calandale wrote:
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Not to mention the greatest reason of all: you're making soul-ties with all the people you screw, and the spiritual oppession (demonic) on them is now yours to have to deal with as well.
Oppresion? No. But I'm not talking about just f***ing here.
If that's all you do, I deny that you're causing anything, in
any way. But, falling in love with many, and binding together,
whether with or without sex, is beautiful.
Heh, not if they've got demons. You're joining yourself intimately with that person; that's begging, BEGGING for trouble.
calandale wrote:
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Plus, God says it's wrong, which trumps all of the above.
Almost a sign that one should do it - just to be in rebellion.
Sounds just like your spiritual father, Satan. Small wonder.
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greenblue wrote:
Ragtime wrote:
If that's true, then why isn't he seeking God directly? If he thinks religious people are taking things too far, then why doesn't he reject them, and seek out God directly in prayer? Because it's not just the people he has a problem with; it's also God Himself. And if you have a problem with God Himself, you're in serious trouble.
It's not about having problems with God himself, it's about the religion and the church in general, what would happen if you heard of a certain organization and you find it interesting, and then you found out that you are rejected because you have a disability (AS) for example, after finding out, I am sure you would be upset, offended and you wouldn't want to know more about it, you wouldn't even care about their policy, about their history and what they do, why would you? Because you feel hurt for being rejected, discriminated. It's the same.
No, it's not the same. If the organization, or their publications (Bible), had knowledge that determined WHERE MY ETERNAL SOUL WOULD GO, I'd still be interested regardless of a few people's rebuffs. He said he's mad at God Himself, and with that he stacks on insults to God. He's got rebellion, not just the result of hurt feelings. I've been in rebellion myself, so I know how it manifests itself. And by the way, please invite him to this discussion -- I don't like to talk about members without their knowledge.
greenblue wrote:
Ragtime wrote:
Not to mention the greatest reason of all: you're making soul-ties with all the people you screw, and the spiritual oppession (demonic) on them is now yours to have to deal with as well. Plus, God says it's wrong, which trumps all of the above.
The problem is that you follow the Bible in a similar mentality as the people who did at that period of time
Thank you.
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Ragtime wrote:
calandale wrote:
Ragtime wrote:
And if you have a problem with God Himself, you're in serious trouble.
Indeed. But 'tis far nobler to oppose God
than to succumb to His pointless tyranny.
God has no tyranny, and He's nothing if not completely relevant.
It seems that he is discribed as a tyrant or dictator in the bible, what makes me wonder what kind of ruler would kill hundreds of people bombarding them with fire from the sky just because most of the population are gays? according to your belief. Just one example of a few others.
And believe me one of the few things that made me have doubts about all of this.
Ragtime wrote:
Heh, not if they've got demons. You're joining yourself intimately with that person; that's begging, BEGGING for trouble.
Almost a sign that one should do it - just to be in rebellion.
Sounds just like your spiritual father, Satan. Small wonder.
calandale wrote:
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Plus, God says it's wrong, which trumps all of the above.
Almost a sign that one should do it - just to be in rebellion.
Sounds just like your spiritual father, Satan. Small wonder.
Demons and the Devil, that's another interesting thing, I wonder how they work and how they do it, especially with individuals having psychotic episodes, but that's another story.
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Ragtime wrote:
No, it's not the same. If the organization, or their publications (Bible), had knowledge that determined WHERE MY ETERNAL SOUL WOULD GO, I'd still be interested regardless of a few people's rebuffs. He said he's mad at God Himself, and with that he stacks on insults to God. He's got rebellion, not just the result of hurt feelings. I've been in rebellion myself, so I know how it manifests itself.
It is the same, doesn't matter what kind of organization, I was using any type of organization as an example, which is relevant, because it really works like that. And another thing, people who don't know much about christianity and hear about how they would not be accepted, they wouldn't bother, so instead of attracting more people to your church, you are actually scaring them away.
And gay/bi people who are in discomfort with this are not because of rebellion to God, it is because of the ideology you represent, some say they don't believe in God because of this, but it is because of the God that is described by you is not a just God if he makes them like that and then condemns them for it. Remember that I said before that there are certain things that made me have doubts, and I questioned things and I stoped being a religious christian, well, for similar reasons, they have doubts and just question your beliefs.
You cannot use this as a logical argument (being mad at God), just think of a catholic person arguing with you and that person saying to you "You are angry with Virgin Mary and you decided to rebel against her". Would that make sense to you?
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Ragtime wrote:
And by the way, please invite him to this discussion -- I don't like to talk about members without their knowledge.
well, I'm glad that you consider him in that way at least, that's a good thing actually, althought we are not talking about him especifically, at least not me, I am talking about that kind of people in general terms, I doubt he would want to join anyway. And you will just make things a lot worse, so it is better for him not to bother.
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Ragtime wrote:
greenblue wrote:
The problem is that you follow the Bible in a similar mentality as the people who did at that period of time
Thank you.
You're welcome, even though you didn't understand the point I was trying to make, very likely, at least you take it as a compliment. That's ok.
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