Are there any post coup attempt EX-trump supporters here?

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Gosh you are full of smart one-liners

And this is where I say NTs pretend what others are thinking and think they can read minds. They will twist your words and make stuff up what you meant and change your words in your sentences to take offense. This is where I say "silly NTs, that isn't what I meant or I would have said it lol." Then I tell myself "wait, I shouldn't be making fun of them, I should be sympathetic and remember, this isn't their fault, it's not their fault their brains are wired to not take things literal and to read in between what you said that isn't there, this is their disability."

But autistic people do this too. They are not immune to it.

there are so many these days, who are obviously way above average in intelligence, but instead of curing cancer they think of new schemes to screw with people's heads.

This is a rather confusing statement coming from a professed NT.

Well you have your daughter and husband to practice with

I'm just saying to expect NTs to use a myriad of different meanings when talking that conveys different things to different audiences and (yes) they do take other people's words and use it to their advantage. I learned all this in primary school so it's not rocket science.

To my son, telling him to not be so loud somehow means "stop playing and do nothing."

I thought he was twisting my words but someone told me on Aspies Central he is telling me how he feels, maybe to him his way of playing is being loud and noisy so he isn't twisting my words when I tell him to stop. This user also told me emotions will make you read into things that are not there and autistic people are not immune to this either.

I passed this off as well he is a kid so kids will twist words to see what they can get away with, it's part of testing their limits but yet my daughter doesn't do this but every child is different. But if an adult does it to me, I will get angry.

I honestly cannot tell when someone is just twisting my words or just telling me how they feel. Is this autism? Do NTs know when their words are being twisted or when someone is just expressing how they feel?

Probably to those on the spectrum it is. It looks like coded language to us and double speak and a different language they know.

Remember that story my mom told me when I said "most people compare things to Hitler" and she goes 'I don't do that" and I tell her "I didn't say you did."

Mom: But you said most people
Me: Yes I did
Mom: But that includes me
Me: ?????
Mom: I don't do that
Me: I didn't say you did
Mom: but you said most people so that includes me
Me: Well you're not most people then since you say you don't do it
Mom: When you say most people, that includes me
Me: me thinking "weird NT language"

So I learned people out there will decide they are most people when you criticize a behavior or talk about a behavior people do because they decided "Hey I am most people so I will take offense to this than thinking I am exceptional because I don't do that behavior." An example of word twisting here.

Same as how shocked I was when I found out when I mom kept telling me to stop that teasing, she did not mean stop that teasing. I was shocked she would misspeak intentionally and blame it on me. It wouldn't be until I was 15 to learn "stop that teasing" is an expression. It does not mean stop that tease and do a different one.

So when you are mild on the spectrum, you do learn double speak from experience. But you memorize it. The milder you are on it, the easier it is to learn it. But sadly some learn to use it themselves and project it onto other autistic people. So I end up experiencing the same thing I would experience from an NT.

The us part threw me off at first, but then I got what you meant.

If you think I am a racist, explain why you think that.
Hardly on topic but, meh.



I won't make the observation that there is a double standard, here, for fear of seeming to be in sympathy with deplorables.
Objectivity is verboten, according to some.



Because of my personal experience of being at the hands of a German-hating biatch racist Australian teacher, when I was 4, I have a problem with being called a racist myself.
I don't let that insult go, as you can see, and I don't care how many character assassins there are.
I am an intellectual samurai and I will use my Katana of Truth to chop them into sushi.
The end.

I made sushi out of his argument.

I believe he is referring to another thread, btw.
Hence, his inability to find something in this one, so it seems.

Regardless, I will successfully combat him at any venue, given an even playing field.
After all, 'Logic' is not his strong point.

Right, this thread is turning waaaay too nasty and personal.

I don’t think there is any serious prospect of the thread getting “back on track”. Therefore, thread locked.