19 Aug 2007, 10:50 am
19 Aug 2007, 12:12 pm
richardbenson wrote:
i convinced that if i grew up in a better home and wasnt so torrmented in schools that i wouldnt have such an identity crisis on my hands now. i probably would have been %100 streight instead of %50 
No, Richard, I don't think it works that way. Your orientation is given in your genetic code, it's not a nurture thing, unless maybe if ALL the people who tormented you were female.
19 Aug 2007, 5:02 pm
michel wrote:
richardbenson wrote:
i convinced that if i grew up in a better home and wasnt so torrmented in schools that i wouldnt have such an identity crisis on my hands now. i probably would have been %100 streight instead of %50
No, Richard, I don't think it works that way. Your orientation is given in your genetic code, it's not a nurture thing, unless maybe if ALL the people who tormented you were female.
In that case, if a guy is tormented by females mostly in his chilhood including his mother, he will grow to be a real mysoginist, most mysoginist are straight. Or maybe a psychopath, developing an antisocial behaviour towards women, I suppose.
19 Aug 2007, 5:30 pm
Sopho wrote:
Yeah, I don't think he understands that anal sex actually has nothing to do with homosexuality. And he can't see how a relationship can exist without being based on sex. How f***ing stupid can you get? LOL
yep...
I mean if I was in a relationship with a woman and she couldn't have sex-for whatever reason
hey I can get off myself
I will love her the same 
or him
(yep he jsut doesn't get it)
19 Aug 2007, 5:49 pm
michel wrote:
richardbenson wrote:
i convinced that if i grew up in a better home and wasnt so torrmented in schools that i wouldnt have such an identity crisis on my hands now. i probably would have been %100 streight instead of %50
No, Richard, I don't think it works that way. Your orientation is given in your genetic code, it's not a nurture thing, unless maybe if ALL the people who tormented you were female.
Not neccesarily. Your upbringing can have an influence.
19 Aug 2007, 5:54 pm
Kilroy wrote:
Sopho wrote:
Yeah, I don't think he understands that anal sex actually has nothing to do with homosexuality. And he can't see how a relationship can exist without being based on sex. How f***ing stupid can you get? LOL
yep...
I mean if I was in a relationship with a woman and she couldn't have sex-for whatever reason
hey I can get off myself
I will love her the same or him(yep he jsut doesn't get it)
I want to ask you,
if I was bisexual, would I have my range of possibilities increased to find someone? just wondering.
19 Aug 2007, 6:26 pm
19 Aug 2007, 6:31 pm
19 Aug 2007, 7:39 pm
greenblue wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
Sopho wrote:
Yeah, I don't think he understands that anal sex actually has nothing to do with homosexuality. And he can't see how a relationship can exist without being based on sex. How f***ing stupid can you get? LOL
yep...
I mean if I was in a relationship with a woman and she couldn't have sex-for whatever reason
hey I can get off myself
I will love her the same or him(yep he jsut doesn't get it)
I want to ask you,
if I was bisexual, would I have my range of possibilities increased to find someone? just wondering.
well yeah
19 Aug 2007, 9:38 pm
19 Aug 2007, 10:46 pm
calandale wrote:
snake321 wrote:
Of coarse you'd have more options, what a silly question. Non bi-sexuals are more limited in our prospects, the gender division isn't there for bisexuals. Plus gay/bi culture is alot deeper rooted in sexuality than straight culture, and in general gays and bi's are more willing to have an open border sexuality policy (I'm not saying all gays and bi's are sluts or hoes though).
Depends on other issues. Look, some people
wouldn't want anything to do with a bisexual.
Believe me, I wouldn't mind a bisexual girl at all
19 Aug 2007, 11:00 pm
greenblue wrote:
Believe me, I wouldn't mind a bisexual girl at all
I more or less demand a couple of them.
But, what I was trying to say is that both
the straight and gay communities look
down on bisexuals. Or, at least used to.
20 Aug 2007, 9:53 am
I hadn't checked in with this thread for a couple days.
Time well spent!
20 Aug 2007, 9:10 pm
calandale wrote:
greenblue wrote:
Believe me, I wouldn't mind a bisexual girl at all
I more or less demand a couple of them.
But, what I was trying to say is that both
the straight and gay communities look
down on bisexuals. Or, at least used to.
then why the hell did they but the B in GLBT
20 Aug 2007, 9:13 pm
Kilroy wrote:
calandale wrote:
greenblue wrote:
Believe me, I wouldn't mind a bisexual girl at all
I more or less demand a couple of them.
But, what I was trying to say is that both
the straight and gay communities look
down on bisexuals. Or, at least used to.
then why the hell did they but the B in GLBT
Back in the late 80's early 90's,
'twas a hell of a fight to get clubs
for gays to allow bisexuals in. Again,
it probably is a lot cooler now, but at
that time there was a strong prejudice.
And I'd assume that it still exists in some
gay communities, as well.
20 Aug 2007, 9:18 pm
