Cei wrote:
ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo wrote:
Anyway, what I wonder is, if polygamy became accepted and widespread because of this show, what would that mean for men trying to find wives? Wouldn't a large number of men be single because all the women are in polygamist marriages? How would that work and what do polygamists think of that question?
I figure most women would rather marry someone not already in a polygamist marriage, most of the time, so I doubt it would be that much of a problem. Granted, there would undoubtedly be exceptions if the guy was rich/handsome/whatever enough, or the woman was head over heels in love with someone who was already in a relationship, or they felt like having a larger family for mutual support was better, etc. But I don't think those exceptions would be enough that a few guys would be hogging all the girls.
I think you're right. If you look at animal breeders, populations tend to only consist of a disproportionate number of one sex or the other for as long as they are culled that way. If you just leave it up to the animals themselves, eventually they will restore the equilibrium closer to a 1:1 ratio.
Same thing with human beings. There are societies that place value in one sex over the other and thus face a crisis since there are now not enough of the opposite sex to continue reproducing. That will mean a cultural paradigm shift is on the horizon and that many of those will die childless, thereby restoring the sexual equilibrium.
A polygynous society inherently creates a culture in which males compete for territory, whether sexual or otherwise. You might as well start including concubinage and slavery as part of the deal. In a more liberal, democratic society, the people will quickly point out the injustice of this kind of system and work to eliminate it. It simply just doesn't work. In polygamous communities in the US, young boys who would compete for marriageable girls given away in arranged marriages are culled by banishment because crusty old men keep marrying 14 year old girls. So when the crusty old men die off, there's an entire generation that gets skipped, and the third generation will likely have a more even distribution of males/females. And the cycle starts again for the next 80 to 100 years.
They always even out in the end. Let's face it. Human beings are made to pair up for life. Accepting that and being true to our mates just makes so much in life less complicated and stressful.