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Sand
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11 Apr 2009, 3:44 am

timeisdead wrote:
Sand wrote:
timeisdead wrote:
Sand wrote:
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And in many African cultures husbands very frequently have affairs and bring home the disease and it is not possible for the wives to refuse their husbands.


This is why women from those nations should be encouraged to work outside of the home. It should also be made possible that a woman can call for her husband's arrest in such an event.


Although that is a laudable concept many African women have been imprisoned or beaten to death by their spouses or officials. You cannot morally punish a woman who is a victim of her culture.

If a husband brings home the HIV virus from visiting a prostitute or whatnot, it is he who should be arrested. African women should no longer have to tolerate this blatant abuse.


It's lovely to have the privilege of looking from a distance and self righteously demanding what the culture does not grant. The male dominated cultures indicated do not revise from external comment. Your impotent advice is not helpful.


Did I honestly imply that my posts would change the state of the world? You seem to be implying that only the powerful and influential have a right to their opinion. According to you, a person's opinions on world affairs are worthless if they aren't in a position of power, have massive influence, or if happen to live outside of the nation in which there is an issue. Of course ordinary people must never voice their distaste for the morally reprehensible.


Nobody is restricting your comments. I am merely remarking that they indicate no realistic way to remedy the situation.



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11 Apr 2009, 10:36 am

Sand is right. It's one thing to look at the situation from our comfy chairs in the Western world and tisk-tisk. It would be another thing entirely to actually remedy the situation, discuss (and put into action) actual ways to empower women from less economically developed nations who face these travesties. It's going to take a lot more than just snapping our fingers and saying "Be more like us".
On the note of rape in Africa, I must wonder what everyone else here thinks of the "vagina dentata" condom, designed to snap onto a man's penis and be incapable of removal, unless assisted by a doctor, thus incriminating the rapist? As uncomfortable as I am with designating rape as inevitable and the victim's responsibility to prevent, I think it could be helpful in some ways. On the other hand, I'm worried that a more savvy rapist might test it with his fingers or another object, and become angry/violent if he discovered he had something very painful clamping to his penis. And would it be as helpful if the rapist was someone the victim knew, like her husband...? There has to be a better way to stop the rape epidemic...