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03 Oct 2021, 12:42 am

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Oh well if schools are not teaching it, then what are parents complaining about then?
I think Dox47 is probably correct that some concepts related to CRT might be taught somewhere, and they are using the term as short hand. As I said in my earlier post, I find that inappropriate.

But I am not aware the derivative Dox described is taught very much, either.

Reality is that the volume of essential information schools are charged with teaching is insanely large, and there isn't a lot of room in the curriculum.

As for parents complaining ... there will always be parents complaining no matter what a school does. It's constant. Parents are all different and don't agree with each other on what the priorities should be. It shouldn't be national news and it shouldn't be a political talking point. Teachers have enough to deal with, IMHO.


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03 Oct 2021, 1:13 am

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The thing is, schools do NOT teach CRT. It would be a law school or specialized university study thing if anything; and those students are adults, parents no longer involved.


That's a bit of a strawman, nobody is claiming that schools are teaching CRT the legal theory, what is being claimed, accurately, is that schools are teaching a form of racial essentialism that is largely derived from CRT or its progeny (e.g. Ibram X. Kendi), and doing things like segregating classrooms based on oppression matrices, teaching the white kids that they are born oppressors and the non-white kids they are born victims, etc. There is volumes of evidence of this going on out there, but you need to abandon this "well it's not literally CRT so it's not happening" position, which feels like an almost willful misunderstanding of the facts on the ground at this point. The term CRT is being used as a short hand because it's easier than explaining the whole host of objectionable practices every single time, not in its precise academic meaning.


I appreciate the clarification because it has honestly confused me. If that is the case, they need to stop calling it CRT. The term has a specific meaning, and not adhering to that specific meaning is a misuse of the term. I worry "CRT" has become the straw man.

The extremely liberal schools my kids attended did not teach what you describe. If they didn't teach it, I have to wonder who does. I can only think of the super rich and privileged ones that try too hard to teach their students empathy, maybe? If that is the case, it kind of backfires, though, because the kids in super rich and privileged schools here tend not to see those who start with less privilege as their equals; they see them as charity.


Could it be that what is being taught to your children aligns with your personal beliefs, and so doesn't "stand out" to you as being "unusual" and so worthy of further investigation, as opposed to those who disagree with the tenets of "CRT" and so see evidence of it when it occurs? Or that they were not discussing this with you?

To a person who believed in CRT (in whole or in part), hearing another making reference to "systemic racism" or "white privilege" would seem natural, and uncontroversial, whereas to a person who believed all people were equal, hearing either of those statements would stand out... Similarly, if introduced slowly, the change may not even be realised, and passed off as merely an "adolescent's passion" that miraculously appeared, rather than something which had been carefully cultivated.

After all, if CRT (in whole, or in part) wasn't being taught, why would there have been:
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The largest educators union in the country has vowed to “fight back” against those opposed to teaching critical race theory in schools and reiterated its support of the controversial “1619 Project.”

The National Education Association, which boasts 2.3 millions members, recently passed a resolution claiming it is “reasonable and appropriate” to include CRT in curriculum — and pledged to create “a team of staffers” to help teachers “fight back against anti-CRT rhetoric,” according to Fox News.

To boost the effort, the NEA will work to publicize “an already-created, in-depth study that critiques white supremacy, anti-Blackness, anti-Indigeneity, racism, patriarchy … capitalism … and other forms of power and oppression,” according to the NEA site.

“We oppose attempts to ban critical race theory and/or The 1619 Project,” the NEA said.

CRT asserts that racism is not just about individual bias but systemic in society and government policies and institutions, including the legal system. The 1619 Project refers to efforts to focus on when the first African slaves arrived in America and their contributions to the country.

Source: https://nypost.com/2021/07/04/teachers-union-vows-to-fight-back-against-critical-race-theory-critics/

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State and local branches of the National Education Association (NEA) filed a lawsuit this week against a Rhode Island mom who initiated hundreds of public records requests seeking information about whether her daughter’s school curriculum included principles of critical race theory.

The National Education Association Rhode Island (NEARI) and NEA South Kingstown (NEASK) filed an initial complaint Monday against local school officials, as well as parent Nicole Solas and a defendant identified only as John Doe Hartman.

Solas, of Wakefield, told WJAR she submitted more than 200 requests for information after the principal of her child’s elementary school told her they did not refer to students as “boys” and “girls,” preferring to use gender-inclusive pronouns.

Source: https://nypost.com/2021/08/05/teachers-union-sues-mom-over-requests-for-crt-curriculum-info/

Or how about:
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In a letter to the White House, a group that represents school boards urged the Biden administration to consider whether confrontations by outraged parents over COVID restrictions and critical race theory (CRT) being incorporated into class curriculum violate the Patriot Act. The letter contended that “the classification of these heinous actions could be the equivalent to a form of domestic terrorism and hate crimes.”

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The school board group’s escalation of the conflict to the federal level signals that many parents’ qualms with their tax dollars potentially funding indoctrination or a racialized education are being dismissed as illegitimate by administrators.

In Loudoun County, Virginia, which became ground zero for school board fights last year, an anti-CRT organization launched $500,000 worth of ads slamming the local school board for attempting to shut down the parent resistance to the district’s equity and inclusion initiatives. Similarly, in Guilford, Connecticut and other typically Democrat-dominated suburban towns across America, grassroots parents are building movements to oust their progressive school boards that have been spearheading or rubber-stamping new politicized curriculum changes.

Source: https://news.yahoo.com/school-board-group-asks-biden-165010731.html



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03 Oct 2021, 2:38 am

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Could it be that what is being taught to your children aligns with your personal beliefs, and so doesn't "stand out" to you as being "unusual" and so worthy of further investigation, as opposed to those who disagree with the tenets of "CRT" and so see evidence of it when it occurs? Or that they were not discussing this with you?

To a person who believed in CRT (in whole or in part), hearing another making reference to "systemic racism" or "white privilege" would seem natural, and uncontroversial, whereas to a person who believed all people were equal, hearing either of those statements would stand out... Similarly, if introduced slowly, the change may not even be realised, and passed off as merely an "adolescent's passion" that miraculously appeared, rather than something which had been carefully cultivated.


While I can't deny that the first paragraph is not entirely impossible, I am wondering if you see the problem in your second paragraph?

Believing that all people are equal - which liberals most certainly believe - is not naturally contradictory to recognizing that systemic racism and white privilege exist. It is startlingly clear in US History that for most of it the nation did NOT actually treat all people as being treated as equal. "Equal" in the constitution pretty much meant "free men" (white) and not their wives or slaves. After the civil war, when slaves were declared free and given voting rights, the southern states went to work terrorizing black citizens and engaging in other voter suppression tactics until only 1% or so felt free to vote. Our constitution originally counted slaves as 3/5ths of a person (they didn't get to vote; they were just used for allocating representatives to the south). There is, clearly, a solid history behind believing treatment has been disparate. In modern times, study after study proves that citizens may talk equality, but they don't act with equality. There are significant differences in medical treatment, treatment at traffic stops, the ability to walk freely in one's own neighborhood, preschool opportunities, elementary school educational opportunities, how much money you will be offered for selling your home (its been tested), and more.

I believe that all people are created equal. What I also see is that we are, as a country, having a little trouble acting that way in practice. I am pragmatic enough to realize that many proposed solutions are not actually solutions, but denying the problem is even worse, IMHO.

As for teachers having an issue with the political prohibitions, first, most of your articles carefully word to address CRT derivatives, not CRT; and second, I would suggest that teachers rally against all political educational restrictions. We actually don't have many; there is more about what TO teach than not to teach. These types of "do not teach" laws tend to be unevenly enforced and difficult to interpret, leaving teachers exposed to legal charges for simply trying to do their jobs. It's a minefield. In some cases, districts will have to throw out and replace expensive textbooks out of fear one single paragraph will offend. That is money better spent on salaries in our chronically underfunded schools. Basically, politics and schools don't mix well, and never have.


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03 Oct 2021, 7:20 am

I feel we much teach truthful history, without political bent.

Within a US context, to put individual white students in the “oppressor” class, and put nonwhite students in the “victim” class, is just plain wrong. Very much an oversimplification.

I believe this sort of thing is sometimes presented in some high school/college courses. But this is certainly not the ideological position of most colleges I have encountered.

To say that nonwhite folks were oppressed in the past is true. To say that present-day white folks studying in colleges are “oppressors” is false.

I doubt that this extremist line (that white= oppressor) is taught in most colleges….except maybe in some isolated courses.



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03 Oct 2021, 2:38 pm

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am a Yank and sometimes have trouble understanding some midwestern accents that are near oklahoma ... but have a terrible time with Cockney accents from that area of the UK . Especially if spoken quickly . I cant even pretend to understand them . 8O


Did you find that film difficult to understand in my Colin Firth thread?


Could not locate Colin Firth thread sorry .


This one. You don't have to watch the whole film (It's not bad, but not the best. Always good if you're a Firth fan), just skip to parts of it. The beginning starts off with the accent.


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03 Oct 2021, 5:07 pm

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DW_a_mom wrote:
The thing is, schools do NOT teach CRT. It would be a law school or specialized university study thing if anything; and those students are adults, parents no longer involved.


That's a bit of a strawman, nobody is claiming that schools are teaching CRT the legal theory, what is being claimed, accurately, is that schools are teaching a form of racial essentialism that is largely derived from CRT or its progeny (e.g. Ibram X. Kendi), and doing things like segregating classrooms based on oppression matrices, teaching the white kids that they are born oppressors and the non-white kids they are born victims, etc. There is volumes of evidence of this going on out there, but you need to abandon this "well it's not literally CRT so it's not happening" position, which feels like an almost willful misunderstanding of the facts on the ground at this point. The term CRT is being used as a short hand because it's easier than explaining the whole host of objectionable practices every single time, not in its precise academic meaning.


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03 Oct 2021, 5:10 pm

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"well it's not literally CRT so it's not happening" position


That sound much like the "It wasn't REAL socialism" argument used when people refer to failed socialist regimes as examples of why Socialism doesn't work...


How about:
It isn't "Global Warming" any longer.
It is "Climate Change", to factor in the anomalies contradicting the concept. :mrgreen:



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smudge wrote:
Jakki wrote:
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am a Yank and sometimes have trouble understanding some midwestern accents that are near oklahoma ... but have a terrible time with Cockney accents from that area of the UK . Especially if spoken quickly . I cant even pretend to understand them . 8O


Did you find that film difficult to understand in my Colin Firth thread?


Could not locate Colin Firth thread sorry .


This one. You don't have to watch the whole film (It's not bad, but not the best. Always good if you're a Firth fan), just skip to parts of it. The beginning starts off with the accent.


Saw it it was a very good scene but actually had no issues with the accent .. it did not sound very thick . But much of the conversation seemed to be with the eyes . If i listen carefully and the person are not speaking in Gaelic or some equivolent , usually cant get what is said pretty well.
thank you for sorting that thread for me. :D


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03 Oct 2021, 5:31 pm

Pepe wrote:
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DW_a_mom wrote:
The thing is, schools do NOT teach CRT. It would be a law school or specialized university study thing if anything; and those students are adults, parents no longer involved.


That's a bit of a strawman, nobody is claiming that schools are teaching CRT the legal theory, what is being claimed, accurately, is that schools are teaching a form of racial essentialism that is largely derived from CRT or its progeny (e.g. Ibram X. Kendi), and doing things like segregating classrooms based on oppression matrices, teaching the white kids that they are born oppressors and the non-white kids they are born victims, etc. There is volumes of evidence of this going on out there, but you need to abandon this "well it's not literally CRT so it's not happening" position, which feels like an almost willful misunderstanding of the facts on the ground at this point. The term CRT is being used as a short hand because it's easier than explaining the whole host of objectionable practices every single time, not in its precise academic meaning.


Agreed.
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I find it extremely frustrating that you don't read on to find out what I've done with a counterpoint before passing an "is" judgement on me.

Because sometimes I actually do take new data in. I'm not all fight all the time.


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03 Oct 2021, 5:40 pm

Brictoria wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
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DW_a_mom wrote:
The thing is, schools do NOT teach CRT. It would be a law school or specialized university study thing if anything; and those students are adults, parents no longer involved.


That's a bit of a strawman, nobody is claiming that schools are teaching CRT the legal theory, what is being claimed, accurately, is that schools are teaching a form of racial essentialism that is largely derived from CRT or its progeny (e.g. Ibram X. Kendi), and doing things like segregating classrooms based on oppression matrices, teaching the white kids that they are born oppressors and the non-white kids they are born victims, etc. There is volumes of evidence of this going on out there, but you need to abandon this "well it's not literally CRT so it's not happening" position, which feels like an almost willful misunderstanding of the facts on the ground at this point. The term CRT is being used as a short hand because it's easier than explaining the whole host of objectionable practices every single time, not in its precise academic meaning.


I appreciate the clarification because it has honestly confused me. If that is the case, they need to stop calling it CRT. The term has a specific meaning, and not adhering to that specific meaning is a misuse of the term. I worry "CRT" has become the straw man.

The extremely liberal schools my kids attended did not teach what you describe. If they didn't teach it, I have to wonder who does. I can only think of the super rich and privileged ones that try too hard to teach their students empathy, maybe? If that is the case, it kind of backfires, though, because the kids in super rich and privileged schools here tend not to see those who start with less privilege as their equals; they see them as charity.


Could it be that what is being taught to your children aligns with your personal beliefs, and so doesn't "stand out" to you as being "unusual" and so worthy of further investigation, as opposed to those who disagree with the tenets of "CRT" and so see evidence of it when it occurs? Or that they were not discussing this with you?


This is how it appears to me. 8)
It may be a sign of confirmation bias. :scratch:

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To a person who believed in CRT (in whole or in part), hearing another making reference to "systemic racism" or "white privilege" would seem natural, and uncontroversial, whereas to a person who believed all people were equal, hearing either of those statements would stand out... Similarly, if introduced slowly, the change may not even be realised, and passed off as merely an "adolescent's passion" that miraculously appeared, rather than something which had been carefully cultivated.


You are not suggesting there are ideologist fifth columnists in the academic ranks, are you? 8O
Are you suggesting, further, that these infiltrators will recruit other like thinking people to bolster their political influence over time?

If so, whoa!
The sneaky bastardos! 8O <satire> :mrgreen:

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After all, if CRT (in whole, or in part) wasn't being taught, why would there have been:
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The largest educators union in the country has vowed to “fight back” against those opposed to teaching critical race theory in schools and reiterated its support of the controversial “1619 Project.”

The National Education Association, which boasts 2.3 millions members, recently passed a resolution claiming it is “reasonable and appropriate” to include CRT in curriculum — and pledged to create “a team of staffers” to help teachers “fight back against anti-CRT rhetoric,” according to Fox News.


Argh!
You had to bring "Fox News" into the discussion.
I now have to shut down my brain to quarantine my partisan mindset from possibly being influenced by a new way of seeing things.
After all, while the devil is capable of telling the Truth at times, the right-wing media outlets never do. <satire> :mrgreen:



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03 Oct 2021, 5:48 pm

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I feel we much teach truthful history, without political bent.

Within a US context, to put individual white students in the “oppressor” class, and put nonwhite students in the “victim” class, is just plain wrong. Very much an oversimplification.

I believe this sort of thing is sometimes presented in some high school/college courses. But this is certainly not the ideological position of most colleges I have encountered.

To say that nonwhite folks were oppressed in the past is true. To say that present-day white folks studying in colleges are “oppressors” is false.

I doubt that this extremist line (that white= oppressor) is taught in most colleges….except maybe in some isolated courses.


I've never heard of the segregated class lesson occurring. Ever, and I'm still pretty connected to the world of secondary education.

What I HAVE seen, and often, is the "take a step" game. "Take a step if you grew up with two parents in your household." That one I know is always asked, I am less certain of the rest of the list, but I believe it is things along the lines of "take a step if you've never had to worry where you were going to sleep," "take a step if your parents read to you as a child," and "take a step if you've never been stopped by a police officer." It basically goes through factors that data shows improve or harm the odds for a child. When the game is over, the students see where they stand in relation to their peers as far as statistical advantages go.

It's based in DATA but I wonder if I've just freaked our conservatives out and they will say it's a CRT derivative. Well, I'm putting it out there knowing they will dissect at will, and if that forces us to rethink, so be it. This is something real, not a headline, not a claim, and not a talking point.

From the perspective of my children, I can say it was a combination of eye opening and confirming: I'd already taught them they were relatively lucky in life, and should be generous and accepting with classmates who aren't as fortunate, but they weren't aware of how many little things beyond money went into the concept of "being lucky in life." What I can't say is how it made the kids left closer to the starting line, the unfortunate, feel. Affirmed that the sense they've lived with that they have to work harder and do more is real? Embarrassed that their peers now know their secret (most poor children try to hide it)? I really don't know, but I would hope this "game" wasn't being used if it was painful or harmful for them. That would defeat the purpose, in my eyes.


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03 Oct 2021, 5:49 pm

DW_a_mom wrote:
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Dox47 wrote:
DW_a_mom wrote:
The thing is, schools do NOT teach CRT. It would be a law school or specialized university study thing if anything; and those students are adults, parents no longer involved.


That's a bit of a strawman, nobody is claiming that schools are teaching CRT the legal theory, what is being claimed, accurately, is that schools are teaching a form of racial essentialism that is largely derived from CRT or its progeny (e.g. Ibram X. Kendi), and doing things like segregating classrooms based on oppression matrices, teaching the white kids that they are born oppressors and the non-white kids they are born victims, etc. There is volumes of evidence of this going on out there, but you need to abandon this "well it's not literally CRT so it's not happening" position, which feels like an almost willful misunderstanding of the facts on the ground at this point. The term CRT is being used as a short hand because it's easier than explaining the whole host of objectionable practices every single time, not in its precise academic meaning.


Agreed.
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I find it extremely frustrating that you don't read on to find out what I've done with a counterpoint before passing an "is" judgement on me.

Because sometimes I actually do take new data in. I'm not all fight all the time.


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Embrace my wisdom and become enlightened.
Om mani padme hum. 8)

While you do seem to have a desire to adopt the scientific methodology, you also seem to view the world from a leftist perspective, *consistently*.

The odourous skunk has spoken. 8)



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03 Oct 2021, 5:58 pm

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While you do seem to have a desire to adopt the scientific methodology, you also seem to view the world from a leftist perspective, *consistently*.



I don't consider it a fault that I actually care about and want to give grace to people. Everyone, regardless of politics.

But it should be obvious that I am also pragmatic and willing to recognize that sometimes what is intended as kindness and grace doesn't actually play out that way in real life.

And I'm human, as we all are. There are no actual oracles on this board.


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03 Oct 2021, 6:09 pm

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I feel we much teach truthful history, without political bent.


And this will happen, why?

Society is built on the foundation of corruption.
"Might makes right" trumps decency.
Consider Nazi China.

Humanity, by definition, is self-absorb and egocentric.
Even altruists are merely satisfying their innate emotional needs.
Not that I am saying it is a bad thing.
I'd rather a world of people with good intentions than one entirely populated by sociopaths and psychopaths.

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Within a US context, to put individual white students in the “oppressor” class, and put nonwhite students in the “victim” class, is just plain wrong. Very much an oversimplification.

I believe this sort of thing is sometimes presented in some high school/college courses. But this is certainly not the ideological position of most colleges I have encountered.


In an Australian context, I have spoken to teachers who think they have a right to usurp the parents role in moral and ideological education.
I don't think it is as uncommon as you seem to think.

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To say that nonwhite folks were oppressed in the past is true. To say that present-day white folks studying in colleges are “oppressors” is false.

I doubt that this extremist line (that white= oppressor) is taught in most colleges….except maybe in some isolated courses.


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03 Oct 2021, 9:56 pm

I don't understand how American culture has developed this belief that white people are the bad guys against other races. Don't they study the history of how every race has committed atrocities against one another around the world throughout history, and every race has their genocidal baggage so to speak?

Or do Americans not bother to read that and only study their own history in their own country?



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I don't understand how American culture has developed this belief that white people are the bad guys against other races. Don't they study the history of how every race has committed atrocities against one another around the world throughout history, and every race has their genocidal baggage so to speak?

Or do Americans not bother to read that and only study their own history in their own country?


It is irrelevant what happened to people before they were brought to America or choose to move to America. It only matters what we’ve chosen and how we’ve acted.

And we’ve got a solid history of putting it in writing that someone with black skin isn’t equal to someone with white skin. It wasn’t until the 1960’s that we put it in writing that rights should be equal despite skin color.

I never adjusted what I expected of my kids because Johnny down the street’s parents did X. A theft doesn’t get justified because someone else steals, too. What is right is right; what is wrong is wrong. No straw men.


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