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14 Dec 2021, 1:53 am

from an early age i knew that if they had mean eyes, they were dangerous and to be avoided. every right wing person i've had the misfortune to meet had those eyes, eyes that would not smile with the rest of their face.



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14 Dec 2021, 2:53 am

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That reminded me of that time I dated someone who was a member of a group rumored to be a cult because she looked really attractive.


Goth and emo chicks tend to pull it off because they are usually ultra-hot.

Well the girl in question was part of a group rumored to be a Christian cult so she def was not goth or emo.


Dating a hot christian girl who was also in a cult?.....been there and done that. They lead you on until they are sure you are brainwashed then they leave you.

Ya to be fair I never did go to her religious community.


Actually deserves it's own thread. The evangelicals use young attractive girls to hook guys (true) once you start donating cash the girl and ask the girl to do more than have a coffee or meet more regularly she will come up with a standard "I am not interested in relationship and/or "I am devoted to Christ". Meanwhile she has some dude whom she is doing on the side. Gotta love christian girls.



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14 Dec 2021, 3:08 am

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That reminded me of that time I dated someone who was a member of a group rumored to be a cult because she looked really attractive.


Goth and emo chicks tend to pull it off because they are usually ultra-hot.

Well the girl in question was part of a group rumored to be a Christian cult so she def was not goth or emo.


Dating a hot christian girl who was also in a cult?.....been there and done that. They lead you on until they are sure you are brainwashed then they leave you.

Ya to be fair I never did go to her religious community.


Actually deserves it's own thread. The evangelicals use young attractive girls to hook guys (true) once you start donating cash the girl and ask the girl to do more than have a coffee or meet more regularly she will come up with a standard "I am not interested in relationship and/or "I am devoted to Christ". Meanwhile she has some dude whom she is doing on the side. Gotta love christian girls.

True..Luckilly my church of Christ has a rule that you dont have to give money to them if you dont want to.



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14 Dec 2021, 3:19 am

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I'm just going by people I know and my experiences. But I am in Canada, so maybe women are more attracted to conservative types as long as they do not have the Trump stigma attached to them, like non-Americans perhaps?

Question: In Canada, do conservative men vastly outnumber conservative women (at least among singles), and do politically progressive women vastly outnumber politically progressive men?

If so, some progressive women might be dating conservative men simply because all or most of the single men they know happen to be conservative, and other things might be more important to them than political agreement.


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14 Dec 2021, 3:21 am

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True..Luckilly my church has a rule that you dont have to give money to them if you dont want to.


I've tried nearly every denomination as a teen (except Mormons). The cult ones always eventually ask for money.

Nightclub owners and youth pastors are clever, they both use the girls to bring in boys.



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14 Dec 2021, 3:26 am

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True..Luckilly my church has a rule that you dont have to give money to them if you dont want to.


I've tried nearly every denomination as a teen (except Mormons). The cult ones always eventually ask for money.

Nightclub owners and youth pastors are clever, they both use the girls to bring in boys.

Well my church asks for money but we have a rule that nobody is obligated to give anything if they feel pressured to do so.But it seems like all the Evangelical churches believe in giving 10 percent but at my church you can give a dollar a week or even a penny or nothing at all and still be part of the church.But the first churches of Christ had a community of goods and a common purse and had no private property according to our history but we changed over the centuries on that philosophy.



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14 Dec 2021, 3:28 am

i have found that a big problem with conservative men getting with liberal women, is the men more often than not engage in mind-rape [forcing the woman to adopt the man's opinions/philosophies] of the women they paired up with. it is not just the woman having to put up with the man's toxically masculine right wingness but also fending off the mind-rape.



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14 Dec 2021, 3:31 am

Texasmoneyman300 wrote:
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True..Luckilly my church has a rule that you dont have to give money to them if you dont want to.


I've tried nearly every denomination as a teen (except Mormons). The cult ones always eventually ask for money.

Nightclub owners and youth pastors are clever, they both use the girls to bring in boys.

Well my church asks for money but we have a rule that nobody is obligated to give anything if they feel pressured to do so.But it seems like all the Evangelical churches believe in giving 10 percent but at my church you can give a dollar a week or even a penny or nothing at all and still be part of the church.


Yep, somewhere Jesus drew up some contract as that 10% is a standard number. To be fair pastors have to dedicate their time to their job 24-7 so I don't begrudge it.

Yep most of the time the money isn't compulsory but unless you donate you don't feel the "warmth". I recall going to the 7th day adventists and (actually) their spread of vegetarian dishes were amazingly delicious. As I was digging into a plate of veggie tapas one of the dudes came up and said would you like to donate $5 for the food. What was I going to say!!
I paid him.



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14 Dec 2021, 3:33 am

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i have found that a big problem with conservative men getting with liberal women, is the men more often than not engage in mind-rape [forcing the woman to adopt the man's opinions/philosophies] of the women they paired up with. it is not just the woman having to put up with the man's toxically masculine right wingness but also fending off the mind-rape.


And the women accept. I've seen plenty of mind rape where women coalesce and submit to their husband/partners beliefs, Even if they don't believe it. Especially true of inter-faith marriages.



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14 Dec 2021, 3:36 am

cyberdad wrote:
Texasmoneyman300 wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Texasmoneyman300 wrote:
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True..Luckilly my church has a rule that you dont have to give money to them if you dont want to.


I've tried nearly every denomination as a teen (except Mormons). The cult ones always eventually ask for money.

Nightclub owners and youth pastors are clever, they both use the girls to bring in boys.

Well my church asks for money but we have a rule that nobody is obligated to give anything if they feel pressured to do so.But it seems like all the Evangelical churches believe in giving 10 percent but at my church you can give a dollar a week or even a penny or nothing at all and still be part of the church.


Yep, somewhere Jesus drew up some contract as that 10% is a standard number. To be fair pastors have to dedicate their time to their job 24-7 so I don't begrudge it.

Yep most of the time the money isn't compulsory but unless you donate you don't feel the "warmth". I recall going to the 7th day adventists and (actually) their spread of vegetarian dishes were amazingly delicious. As I was digging into a plate of veggie tapas one of the dudes came up and said would you like to donate $5 for the food. What was I going to say!!
I paid him.

Oh okay We normally had chicken at our pot lucks.I dont know much of anything besides a couple things of the 7th Day Adventists.



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14 Dec 2021, 3:41 am

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i have found that a big problem with conservative men getting with liberal women, is the men more often than not engage in mind-rape [forcing the woman to adopt the man's opinions/philosophies] of the women they paired up with. it is not just the woman having to put up with the man's toxically masculine right wingness but also fending off the mind-rape.


And the women accept. I've seen plenty of mind rape where women coalesce and submit to their husband/partners beliefs, Even if they don't believe it. Especially true of inter-faith marriages.

they really need to stop doing that.



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14 Dec 2021, 4:17 am

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testosterone is the ultimate aphrodisiac. righties seem to have somewhat more of it.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog ... al-killers


The above-linked article refers to Women Who Love Serial Killers by Katherine Ramsland Ph.D., Psychology Today, April 20, 2012.

Two key points to note here:

1) The women discussed in these articles are a tiny minority of women. The vast majority of women don't write love letters to convicted serial killers. So the existence of these women proves nothing about women in general.

2) In many (though not all) of these cases, the woman believes that the man is actually innocent, and she has made it her life's mission to prove his innocence and to try to get his conviction overturned if possible. So this isn't a case of attraction to a "bad boy" -- because, in her mind, he isn't the "bad boy" everyone else says he is. Nor does this have anything to do with "testosterone" being the "ultimate aphrodisiac."


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14 Dec 2021, 4:20 am

auntblabby wrote:
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i have found that a big problem with conservative men getting with liberal women, is the men more often than not engage in mind-rape [forcing the woman to adopt the man's opinions/philosophies] of the women they paired up with. it is not just the woman having to put up with the man's toxically masculine right wingness but also fending off the mind-rape.


And the women accept. I've seen plenty of mind rape where women coalesce and submit to their husband/partners beliefs, Even if they don't believe it. Especially true of inter-faith marriages.

they really need to stop doing that.


It would be nice if they listened



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14 Dec 2021, 4:23 am

Mona Pereth wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
testosterone is the ultimate aphrodisiac. righties seem to have somewhat more of it.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog ... al-killers


The above-linked article refers to Women Who Love Serial Killers by Katherine Ramsland Ph.D., Psychology Today, April 20, 2012.

Two key points to note here:

1) The women discussed in these articles are a tiny minority of women. The vast majority of women don't write love letters to convicted serial killers. So the existence of these women proves nothing about women in general.

2) In many (though not all) of these cases, the woman believes that the man is actually innocent, and she has made it her life's mission to prove his innocence. So this isn't a case of attraction to a "bad boy" -- because, in her mind, he isn't the "bad boy" everyone else says he is.

Oh wow Thats interesting.The serial killer thing kind of reminds how a lot of women like bad boy types.



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14 Dec 2021, 4:45 am

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Oh wow Thats interesting.The serial killer thing kind of reminds how a lot of women like bad boy types.

Except that, in many cases, it's really not that -- because, as I said, she believes he's innocent. Please re-read the entirety of what I wrote.

If anything, what seems to be going on in these cases is more like a maternal instinct.


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14 Dec 2021, 4:48 am

@Mona

Yes both your points are true. However my point I'm trying to get across is there is a biological driver that makes young women attracted to "bad boys"

It's a biological fact males with dark triad traits e.g.
A man with little empathy for others
A penchant for fast cars and even faster women
A seeker of short-term rather than long-term goals — especially concerning the opposite sex be more advantageous in short-term sexual relationships

Attract more women.

The driver for why some women are attracted to imprisoned murderers are linked to these dark triads and goes deeper. Human evolution favors women who seek mates who are more aggressive.



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