greenblue wrote:
Fidget wrote:
slowmutant wrote:
NocturnalQuilter wrote:
If you really want to SAVE MARRIAGE..........
... make divorce illegal
That's as unfair as preventing same-sex couples from marrying. How many people would be trapped in loveless and abusive marriages if divorce were illegal?
Should've thought of that before they got married. ;]
Yes, it's a very good idea to make divorce ilegal, once they make that choice they stay with it for the rest of their lives, only death should separate what God has united.
You assume a religious ceremony being involved,
It's against the rules for a catholic to get divorced, but the only penalty seems to be they won't marry you to someone else.
However, in the words of Sam Kinison (who was paraphrasing Pope JP2), "Suck the cock, ya lose the kingdom!"
A secular wedding isn't bound by the rules of religion though, and codifying private sphere morals would be a violation of church and state.
Whether you remain married for life is a personal moral decision. Remaining married is usually the morally right thing to do when children are involved, unless one partner is abusive. (f*****g around, while destructive of the relationship, does not affect the ability to raise children). If there are no children, then there is no moral obligation to remain married.
But such a policy of banning divorce would be a worse violation of seperation of church and state, and intrusion upon private sphere morality, then the current ban on gay marriage is.