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I heard some parents won't celebrate any holiday with their kids because they think they're all Pagan and therefore evil. Their kids will never get a tree or presents or candy from the Easter Bunny or even turkey at Thanksgiving, and as for Halloween, forget it.
It's scary to think that I could have been born to parents like that. They don't want to be happy, they just want to be right.
That's hardly true, and parents from strict, usually monotheistic religions (but to be fair, many Buddhist families also don't participate in Christmas, Easter, Halloween, etc) have their own ways. Just because parents don't believe in the pagan underpinnings of modern holidays and therefore don't celebrate them, it does not mean their children don't get parties, outings, or presents throughout the year with no need for a forced cultural holiday in order to do so. They just do so for no reason whatsoever except to make their kids happy. Also if parents are affiliated with several Buddhist traditions, they have their own celebrations and occasions which are enjoyable and cause for excitement among children. Just because people behave in different ways does not mean their children are underprivileged, or missing out.
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Well, things have kind of spiraled out of control on this thread, and my attempts to help people be nicer didn't seem to work.
Keep up the good work
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Or you could just be radical like me and take all of your favourite parts from different religions and mix them up into something unique and wholly your own.
True, although some people will regard this as "buffet religion" and look down on it as disrespectful and not genuine, even among pagan paths. I have definitely had dealings with people who play the pure, unbroken-since-the-caveman, genuine and unsullied hereditary line of pagan lineage card, and therefore look on anything else as religious appropriation. It's nonsense, but it's out there.
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