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30 Jan 2021, 10:56 pm

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@Brictoria Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they are not after you. You seem isolated in this thread and are quite accurate in your accusations of members/mods/admin not wanting you here , in fact they openly post it. How is this allowed?


Umm at the beginning we did try but he consistently attacked posters whom he disagreed with claimed the problem was with us without ever addressing the points we made.

His modus operandi was to deflect, obfuscate and hide his true intentions in pages of waffle and irrelevant links, videos and historical precedent with no relevance to the modern era. He would make snarky remarks about our intelligence, that we were too intellectually lazy to debate. Please feel free to go through his posts (although I suspect you won't bother).


What are his true intentions?

I re-read the thread and it's clear to me he's playing Devils Advocate on certain things to elicit debate.

I do not know the history between posters here but your first post appeared to be a 'call to arms' as you are not willing to debate waffle but wish others to do so for you. This place seems very cliquey and as always I will be on the outside looking in on such cliques.


The answers you seek have been already well articulated by the moderators on this thread (namely cornflake and walrus). Please feel free to go back and read their responses to Brictoria.



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30 Jan 2021, 11:03 pm

cyberdad wrote:
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@Brictoria Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they are not after you. You seem isolated in this thread and are quite accurate in your accusations of members/mods/admin not wanting you here , in fact they openly post it. How is this allowed?


Umm at the beginning we did try but he consistently attacked posters whom he disagreed with claimed the problem was with us without ever addressing the points we made.

His modus operandi was to deflect, obfuscate and hide his true intentions in pages of waffle and irrelevant links, videos and historical precedent with no relevance to the modern era. He would make snarky remarks about our intelligence, that we were too intellectually lazy to debate. Please feel free to go through his posts (although I suspect you won't bother).


What are his true intentions?

I re-read the thread and it's clear to me he's playing Devils Advocate on certain things to elicit debate.

I do not know the history between posters here but your first post appeared to be a 'call to arms' as you are not willing to debate waffle but wish others to do so for you. This place seems very cliquey and as always I will be on the outside looking in on such cliques.


The answers you seek have been already well articulated by the moderators on this thread (namely cornflake and walrus). Please feel free to go back and read their responses to Brictoria.


As I thought , it's a gang thing. I'll go to another thread before my intentions get confused with what you think Brictoria's intentions are.


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30 Jan 2021, 11:59 pm

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... How is this allowed?
Simple.  I am not naming names, nor am I calling for anyone to be banned.

If someone is not wanted, it is fair to point out that this is most likely due to something they have said or done to offend a lot of other people.

The Right to Free Speech does not automatically grant anyone the privilege of being wanted.

While you are not naming names, with context you are at least insinuating that Brictoria is among them.

You don’t have to like everyone, Fnord, but please don’t actively try to make others feel unwelcome. Surely you know how unpleasant that can be?



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31 Jan 2021, 1:18 am

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As I thought , it's a gang thing. I'll go to another thread before my intentions get confused with what you think Brictoria's intentions are.


As I guessed, you wouldn't bother reading the posts. I judged that by your initial reactions.



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31 Jan 2021, 1:46 am

cyberdad wrote:
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As I thought , it's a gang thing. I'll go to another thread before my intentions get confused with what you think Brictoria's intentions are.


As I guessed, you wouldn't bother reading the posts. I judged that by your initial reactions.



I get a feeling it is just another sockpuppet. I always find it strange when a newbie joins here and they jump into a defense of another WP member or seem to to know too much about this place or they jump right to politics. As one member here used to say "every new member here is a suspect."


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31 Jan 2021, 2:08 am

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As I thought , it's a gang thing. I'll go to another thread before my intentions get confused with what you think Brictoria's intentions are.


As I guessed, you wouldn't bother reading the posts. I judged that by your initial reactions.



I get a feeling it is just another sockpuppet. I always find it strange when a newbie joins here and they jump into a defense of another WP member or seem to to know too much about this place or they jump right to politics. As one member here used to say "every new member here is a suspect."


Yes that's an astute observation. I have wondered in the past how following a ban a "sock puppet" appears shortly after mysteriously parroting the same nonsense.



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31 Jan 2021, 2:21 am

cyberdad wrote:
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cyberdad wrote:
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As I thought , it's a gang thing. I'll go to another thread before my intentions get confused with what you think Brictoria's intentions are.


As I guessed, you wouldn't bother reading the posts. I judged that by your initial reactions.



I get a feeling it is just another sockpuppet. I always find it strange when a newbie joins here and they jump into a defense of another WP member or seem to to know too much about this place or they jump right to politics. As one member here used to say "every new member here is a suspect."


Yes that's an astute observation. I have wondered in the past how following a ban a "sock puppet" appears shortly after mysteriously parroting the same nonsense.


People bother with that here? Meh, waste of time. Any time I've had a temp ban I just do other things - sometimes I waste time online differently, others I exercise. Whatever. But never have I felt compelled to create a new user account to login and make a point that doesn't need making - whoever I had an issue with knows damned well what my issue with them was; which was probably the post that got me banned. :lol:


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31 Jan 2021, 2:23 am

goldfish21 wrote:
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League_Girl wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
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As I thought , it's a gang thing. I'll go to another thread before my intentions get confused with what you think Brictoria's intentions are.


As I guessed, you wouldn't bother reading the posts. I judged that by your initial reactions.



I get a feeling it is just another sockpuppet. I always find it strange when a newbie joins here and they jump into a defense of another WP member or seem to to know too much about this place or they jump right to politics. As one member here used to say "every new member here is a suspect."


Yes that's an astute observation. I have wondered in the past how following a ban a "sock puppet" appears shortly after mysteriously parroting the same nonsense.


People bother with that here? Meh, waste of time. Any time I've had a temp ban I just do other things - sometimes I waste time online differently, others I exercise. Whatever. But never have I felt compelled to create a new user account to login and make a point that doesn't need making - whoever I had an issue with knows damned well what my issue with them was; which was probably the post that got me banned. :lol:


It sounds like you have had a few temporary holidays goldfish :lol:



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31 Jan 2021, 2:28 am

cyberdad wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Chorlton88 wrote:
As I thought , it's a gang thing. I'll go to another thread before my intentions get confused with what you think Brictoria's intentions are.


As I guessed, you wouldn't bother reading the posts. I judged that by your initial reactions.



I get a feeling it is just another sockpuppet. I always find it strange when a newbie joins here and they jump into a defense of another WP member or seem to to know too much about this place or they jump right to politics. As one member here used to say "every new member here is a suspect."


Yes that's an astute observation. I have wondered in the past how following a ban a "sock puppet" appears shortly after mysteriously parroting the same nonsense.


People bother with that here? Meh, waste of time. Any time I've had a temp ban I just do other things - sometimes I waste time online differently, others I exercise. Whatever. But never have I felt compelled to create a new user account to login and make a point that doesn't need making - whoever I had an issue with knows damned well what my issue with them was; which was probably the post that got me banned. :lol:


It sounds like you have had a few temporary holidays goldfish :lol:


What gives you that idea? :D


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31 Jan 2021, 2:47 am

goldfish21 wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Chorlton88 wrote:
As I thought , it's a gang thing. I'll go to another thread before my intentions get confused with what you think Brictoria's intentions are.


As I guessed, you wouldn't bother reading the posts. I judged that by your initial reactions.



I get a feeling it is just another sockpuppet. I always find it strange when a newbie joins here and they jump into a defense of another WP member or seem to to know too much about this place or they jump right to politics. As one member here used to say "every new member here is a suspect."


Yes that's an astute observation. I have wondered in the past how following a ban a "sock puppet" appears shortly after mysteriously parroting the same nonsense.


People bother with that here? Meh, waste of time. Any time I've had a temp ban I just do other things - sometimes I waste time online differently, others I exercise. Whatever. But never have I felt compelled to create a new user account to login and make a point that doesn't need making - whoever I had an issue with knows damned well what my issue with them was; which was probably the post that got me banned. :lol:


It sounds like you have had a few temporary holidays goldfish :lol:


What gives you that idea? :D


well....I myself lost took an involuntary holiday after 11 years



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31 Jan 2021, 3:54 am

Heh. Yeah, I've had a few. Some of them misinterpretations of my posts (IMO) & some of them not. *shrug* whatever.

If I got banned from every forum and social media platform etc I might be a lot more productive in my life. Really, I just need to be more disciplined and get things done.


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31 Jan 2021, 4:46 am

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Heh. Yeah, I've had a few. Some of them misinterpretations of my posts (IMO) & some of them not. *shrug* whatever.

If I got banned from every forum and social media platform etc I might be a lot more productive in my life. Really, I just need to be more disciplined and get things done.


Yeah mine was a misinterpretation but I guess if you walk a tight rope eventually at some point you will fall outside of the safety net



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31 Jan 2021, 5:53 am

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As I thought , it's a gang thing. I'll go to another thread before my intentions get confused with what you think Brictoria's intentions are.


Welcome to the site, Chorlton88.

As you may have noticed (you did pick an unfortunate thread to look into), the site (particularly this section and the "news" section) have an extremely vocal majority who lean towards the "left" of the political spectrum, so any post that tries to present a centrist or "right" opinion tends to be jumped on, sadly...This one worse than most, which was unfortunate, as I felt it was an interesting hypothesis to discuss.



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31 Jan 2021, 6:48 am

For avoidance of doubt - Chorlton was an unapproved sockpuppet of Tempus Fugit, and has been banned. Please don't further derail the discussion with discussion of them.



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31 Jan 2021, 7:52 am

The_Walrus wrote:
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... How is this allowed?
Simple.  I am not naming names, nor am I calling for anyone to be banned. If someone is not wanted, it is fair to point out that this is most likely due to something they have said or done to offend a lot of other people. The Right to Free Speech does not automatically grant anyone the privilege of being wanted.

While you are not naming names, with context you are at least insinuating that Brictoria is among them. You don’t have to like everyone, Fnord, but please don’t actively try to make others feel unwelcome. Surely you know how unpleasant that can be?
Do not misunderstand me -- I am not trying to get people to dislike others. I am pointing out that no one has to reply to the posts of people they do not like. This is advice that moderators themselves have often posted.

Also, I think everyone would benefit from asking themselves: "Why is it easy for me to assume people's identities solely from the context of negative descriptions?"



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31 Jan 2021, 9:40 am

Fnord wrote:
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Fnord wrote:
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... How is this allowed?
Simple.  I am not naming names, nor am I calling for anyone to be banned. If someone is not wanted, it is fair to point out that this is most likely due to something they have said or done to offend a lot of other people. The Right to Free Speech does not automatically grant anyone the privilege of being wanted.

While you are not naming names, with context you are at least insinuating that Brictoria is among them. You don’t have to like everyone, Fnord, but please don’t actively try to make others feel unwelcome. Surely you know how unpleasant that can be?
Do not misunderstand me -- I am not trying to get people to dislike others. I am pointing out that no one has to reply to the posts of people they do not like. This is advice that moderators themselves have often posted.

Also, I think everyone would benefit from asking themselves: "Why is it easy for me to assume people's identities solely from the context of negative descriptions?"

OK - I just think it’s a little insensitive to describe someone as “not wanted”, particularly when they are expressing that they already feel isolated.

It would be morally wrong, and against WrongPlanet rules, to say “we don’t want Fnord”. That would be a personal attack.

It is fine to say “I don’t like it when Fnord does [x]” (a critique of behaviour) or “if you don’t like Fnord then just ignore him” (useful advice).